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I am the most nicest person you will ever meet. hehe. I am very trustworty. I have the most awesomest(sp?) friends. You can ask me anything so dont be shy.

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I have 3 friends, REALLLY good friends, and we all go to the same skool and in the same class. were besties. anyway, those 3 friends live pretty close to each other, and i live a little farther away, so they r always doing things without me (shopping, movies, hanging out ect.) and leaving me out. I know theyre not doing it on purpouse, but it still REALLY hurts becuase they talk about it infront of my face. Ive tried to talk to them about it, but they just get REALLY mad. what should i do?

I`ve had this problem before. and but they were 2 friends and i lived near one of them. and they talked about it in front of my face to. but all i did was forget about it and i know they dont do it on purpose. but dont talk to them about it. i know that kinda sounds bad. but then now my 2 friends dont hang out anymore and now one of my friends starts hanging out with me =] so i hoped i helped.

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alright well i'm 90% sure i want to break up with my boyfriend.. but idk what im goin to say.. he broke up with me last week and he got his friend to call me and say "john wants to break up with you. bye" (he asked me out the next day, which is how we are going out again). so i was maybe thinking i could get my friend to call him and say the exact same thign to see how he feels! or i might say "hey i think we should just take break from each other and just let things smooth out" because we got in a fight earlier today.. and hes just too dramatic and he always brings a lot of unneeded drama. so someone please help me. how should i do it?? and should i do it on the phone?

i had the same problem! ok well i this might sound bad but i think you might need to do it over the phone and lots of other people might not do it either. but i did it and the reason i did it over the phone was because i didnt want to see his face and tell him in person because i was too scared to so i did it over the phone. plus when you said this "hey i think we should just take break from each other and just let things smooth out" i think thats good to say to him. but then when he gets dramatic or whatever you should tell him that you still kinda have feelings for him(if you still do) but just want to be friends and so. plus if you have AIM and he also has a screenname you could do that if you dont want to hear his voice and stuff. becuz i broke-up with my boyfriend this morning from AIM. and he took it ok. so i hoped i helped!

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Hello.
I usually shop at abercrombie kids for my jeans; I get a size 14 SLIM since the hips and waistline (24 inch waist, 29-30 inch hips) are a perfect fit. However, the length is just way long. I had to get them altered.

I'm ordering a pair of skinny jeans from abercrombie kids but I'm not sure if I should go on with a 14SLIM or a 12. Does anybody know the inseam for a size 12? It'd be a great help.

i am the same size as you in abercrombie kids jeans! But i think i you should stick with a 14 slim. Sorry but i dont know the inseam for a size 12 :[[. sory. hoped i helped

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okay, well there`s this boy and his name is kevin. to put it simple, he`s PERFECT in every way shape or form. he`s tall and muscular, and he has emo-style reddish-brown hair and bright blue eyes and a killer smile. and he`s smart and funny and easy to talk to, and he`s everything i could ever want in a guy. well lately it`s been quite the emotional roller coaster trying to see if we could ever be together. he`s in my gym class, and we`d flirt constantly. when we`d sit on the bleachers, he`d sit right next to me and we`d talk. sometimes he would be a total butt, but other days he would be really sweet and i would fall faster and faster. everyone kept saying that he liked me, too, but i never really believed them. but i don`t know ..

but everytime we`d sit next to eachother and talk, it`s like you could feel this tension between us. the kind of tension where it`s like we know we`re in love with eachother but we`re both too scared to admit it so we`ll keep it this way. well the other day i wanted to tell him how i felt, although i think he already knows. because i wanted to see if we could be together. but i was too late. before i could even tell him, he comes up to me with a huge smile on his face, saying that he has a girlfriend named jenna. boy, was i crushed. but i faked it every single day, telling him how happy i was for him even though his girlfriend should be ME. not HER. ME. so right now it`s basically killing me inside that he loves her, and basically he`s driving me crazy.

so tell me, what do i do about this whole situation ? do i still tell him that i love him ? i`ve tried to forget about him, but it`s too hard. i love him so much, and it`s really bugging me and making me mad. so please help me. any advice would be great. and i`m sorry for making this question so long.

truly,
BRIGHT-EYED SURPRISE.

OMG I HAD THAT SAME THING! Well except everybody knew i liked that guy. and one day he told me that he had a girlfriend and i was majorly crushed when i heard that. hmmm my situation was that i would still be friends with him but then just tell him you like him so then he would finally know instead of you keeping a secret from him. but then he might tell his gf and his gf might hate you.(but my old crushes gf didnt hate me.) i know its hard to forget and it was really hard for me to forget also. But i tried to think of all the bad things he would do to me and i eventually forgot about him. even though i saw him everyday(since he was in my class). sooo ya. i hoped i helped. :]. once you do that stuff tell me what happens!

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There's a really really REALLY hott guy in my class...let's call him...tim. Well, Tim is a really popular guy who is really nice and well, HOT :)...basically, if you looked at him, your heart would melt...lol. And, well i'm not a popular person..It's not like i'm a total geek or anything but i'm not the most popular girl in my class...im just normal...

ANYWAY...

At my friend's halloween b-day party, my friend told him "You and Em would make a great couple...you should ask her 2 dance"...
Tim didnt ask me or anything so I thought that he didnt like me....

Since then, he's talked 2 me a little bit and I even saw him looking at me a little bit...does this mean he likes me? I doubt this but what do you think? He broke up with his girlfriend a while ago but at the party i saw them dancing together...

Should I give up now while I'm ahead? Any advice would be GREAT!!!

Thanx!!!
*~*EM (13/f)

Haha well my friend had this problem. And One of your friends should tell him " hey em likes you" and then i bet he would probably be shocked or something. Then the next day or whenever he sees you when he starts talking to you talk to him back! because you should be nervous or shy.Because i used to like this guy and he found out i liked him and he kinda like me back but he didnt ask me out. then a week later he got a gf. So dont get your hopes up! :] hoped i helped.

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Well theres this one girl in one of my classess i like her and she some how found out that i like her and i don't know if she likes me back or if i can get her to like me.
Please Help. I am 13 and i'm a male.

Awww this is cute. Well I`ve had that experiance before. I found out last year that my ex boyfriend liked me. Well I kinda also like him back. Once you know somebody likes you you always kinda have to like them back because somtimes you dont want to hurt their feelings. So at the end of the year i went out with him but then I dumped him because I didnt like him anymore and he started to spread rumors. So just in advance once yall go out and if she breaks up with you NEVER TALK BAD ABOUT HER BEHIND HER BACK WHEN YALL ARE BROKEN UP. hehe ok? because she will also spread bad rumors back to you.

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I have a 5 month old purebread Shih Tzu.
When I'm gone longer than 5 hours, I put a pee pad down for her to go on..
She chews it up!!! or when I come home I catch her lying on it after she goes pee on it!!
I need some advise..
Thanks
jeanette

I have 2 Shih Tzu`s on my own. And now they are 5 years old. I had that problem when I first gone mine too! I know you dont want to be mean to them but you just have to scold them and tell them no and stop. And eventually they will stop. But I am not for sure. Or you could go to Petco and sign them up for training and just tell them your dogs problem and probably they will tell you what to do to them and stuff. :]. hoped i helped.

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can somebody list a few human edible foods that dogs can get poison from?
thanks!!!!!

Chocolate is very very bad for dogs. Chicken Bones also. But i think dogs like maccoronii. becuase one time i was at my friends house and her mother fed the dogs maccoronii. isnt that weird? But never feed your dog chocolate!

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Hey can any one tell me what an IM is?

A IM is a instant message. There is a AOL instant messanger and MSN instant messanger. You have to download them both. I would prefer AOL instant messanger.

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im black & i have really dry hair..
i get dandruff bad but i use head and shoulders
should i see one of those doctors?
and what is a good shampoo & conditioner i can use? please help.. i rate thanks :)

Well my sister used to have that problem and she uses Selsun Salon pyrithione zinc dandruff shampoo. It is really good. It cleans out your hair really good. And if that doesnt help you i think you may need to see a doctor. but just go to your local grocery store and just search for that shampoo and try it! :]. hoped i helped.

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Hey. I'm 14/f and I was just wondering in Abercrombie & Fitch, abercrombie, Hollister, and American Eagles have Thankgsgiving sales. And if you could tell me if others stores like Delias, Forever 21, etc. have Thanksgiving sales I would gladly appreciate it :) Thanks and

Ok well i know abercrombie&fitch and abercrombie have a sale during the spring and one during the winter? I THINK. Hollister well i dont know about that one because where i live i already had a sale in there. and American Eagle has like sales all the time almost. hoped i helped

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there's this boy i have liked since the beginning of the year. i am starting to wonder if he likes me back because i always catch him staring or w/e. i want him to know how i really feel but i am scared. he actually walks with me down the hallway sometimes and stuff....but still idk. (im a really shy person.....) what should i do....just stay where i am at and just go with the flow or should i make a move? can you also tell me what that rate stuff means?

(im a 13/f)

I`ve had that a bunches of times! Well I always have my friends ask him who he likes and stuff. They usually do find out. I told one of my guy friends that my crush was staring at me one day and my guy friend told me that he likes to play this thing they call it "the staring game" with girls. Its when they just stare at you and stuff. But i dont like that game because you might think if theres something on your face. I am a very very shy person also. And I told my other guy friend that I liked this kid and i told him to find out who he likes but it ended up that my guy friend told him that i liked him. so it was really awkward for me. And 90% of the time they want you to make the move. So in your case i think you should make the move. I think Rate stuff means that they rate girls on a scale to 1-10. i know its stupid but thats what they do.

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ohkay well i want to lose 20 pounds..
1. how old do you have to be to buy diet pills?
2. what is the best and fastest working diet pills?


thankz

1) You have to be 18 years or older.
2) They probably dont work.Just start working out and stuff.

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I really like one of my good friends. He has a girlfriend, though, and she goes to a college about an hour away. She's a year older, and they have had a long distance relationship for over a year. They've been going out for almost two years.

The boy has been increasingly friendly ever since I broke up with my (long distance) boyfriend. I really love being friends with him, but I can't stop liking him!

So,
a) how do I find out if he actually likes me?
b) how can I let him know that I like him without looking like a bitch trying to break him and his girlfriend up?
c) how can I stop liking him so I can go back to being just friends?

Thanks!

A) Ask one of his friends if he likes his girlfriend and another "certain person".
B) Hm probably just slip it into a conversation and say "yaa, sooo i kind of like you."
C) I`ve had that problem sooooo many times. This is what I`ve done. I tried to think about him and think of all the ways he would hurt me when we would be going out and think of all the good posiblities of being friends with him. Plus think about if yall break-up that means you might not be friends with him anymore and that i think is my worst nightmare with my guy friends.

Hope I Helped =].

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okay im getting older and my birthday is coming up soon.and im taking piano lessons.but every week when the time comes around for me to take them.i never want to. Is it that i don't like piano?? or do i think im too old.
i've been playing for 7 years and i don't want to give it up.but theres a feeling inside of me that never wants to play piano..maybe my teacher.idk.please help me.i really don't want to give it up.

I had that problem. And I quit piano. But my parents forced me to play it. But I told them i didnt really like it anymore and i couldnt be wasting there money anmore. So i quit. Then a year later my younger sibling started playing piano and now shes still doing it. So if you have a younger sibling you could just teach them all the fun ways to play piano and they might just be interested. But I really think you should just give up because you just cant play and waste your parents money like that.

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Does anyone have any ideas on how to get green sharpie marker out of a white shirt? LOL. I know, lost cause, but, I am kinda desparate.

Thanks.

You could try, Tide To Go, or put SHOUT or Spray and Wash on the stain and wash the shirt. hope i helped. =]

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15/f. where is the correct place to spray perfume? like if i buy a perfume that doesn't have a big spray to spray all over...where is the best place to spray it? neck? behind the ears? wrist? i've heard many things.

thanks!

well usually i would use abercrombie perfume because i love that one. and i would spray it in the air and just walk through it because if you spray it on your body you might smell too strong so just spray it in the air and walk through it. because thats what i do all the time. hope i helped.:]

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