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Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

advice

Ok, for awhile I wanted my ex back, but I see how him and his new girlfriend are, and I can't help, but laugh. Is this me getting over him, or do you think it's jealousy?

I think it might be a little bit of both. Don'nt worry, I think it might just be the fact that you want a boyfriend so you look at them together wishing you had it even if the are silly. I hope you find a guy soon
Lizzy

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I'm in high school. Guy #1, "DJ", is a real sweetheart. He asked me to a dance. He can make me laugh and he's not hard to talk to. Guy #2, "TJ", shares many of the same interests that I have. He and I can talk for hours without ever really getting anything accomplished. We spend most of our time laughing. I like both DJ and TJ, but I am not an assertive person. I am very afraid of rejection, and also that if I "made a move" that either of theim wouldn't be my friend anymore.

What is your advice for this situation?

Well, it sounds like you and DJ get along better because you do more things together, one day you and TJ will run out of things to talk about and not know what to do, because you don't know if you have anything in common. Just be assertive, guys like girls who can be the man, if that makes sence. I hope everything works out for you.
Lizzy

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thar is this boy he is 15 i am 12 i went on 1 date with hem and then i dompt hem put he still wont stop calling me and it is heard because he is my brouthers frind and he comes her every day and i realy dont like it when he dose how dew i get him to stop calling me and tell my brouther that i dont wont hem over her eaney more.

Tell him that you are disgusted that he cannot get date his own age and he has to go three years younger to satisfy his ways that make the French call us American pigs. If you make him feel like you are the worst way out of whatever he is trying to get out of, he'll leave you alone. Good luck
Lizzy

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Okay, lately in school I've been kinda failing. But within the past week I've brought some of my grades from an "F" to a "C" or "D". But, my mom says that if I have any "F"s on my next grade report I can't go on to high school next year. Even though I still have 1 more trimester left. I have 1 "F" and there is no possible way to bring it up because my next grade report comes out next week and the teachers had to turn their grades in yesterday. I really want to go on to high school but I won't be able to with this "F". What should I do?

Grades

Well, just bring them all up to A's for your report card, since this just a grade report. I am sure that if you have an awesome report card that she'll reconsider and everything will be ok. Make grades your first priority.
Lizzy

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i like this boy in my class and thar is this outhe girl that likes hem to but i like hem more he sead that he did not like her but she still wont leave hem a lone he sead he wood reather go out with me then her but not this year what dew i dew when i now he likes me but he wont tack to me i haft to tack to hem and we have a lot in komen but he still wont lisean even thoe he likes me what do i do.


Sinded love is heard

Sinded love is heard, i know how hard that is. Don't worry, if he says he does not want to go out with you this year, then maybe it is true, maybe he does want to go out with you next year because he is not ready for a really deep relationship. Good Luck
Lizzy

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what does 69 mean????

69 is a sexual symbol. The six represents the womans clit and the nine represents the man's well, the man's sexual part. I hope that the advice helped you.
Lizzy

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I know this person, he's not a real being, more like an anthropomorphic manifestation, but I feel he doesn't like me. What can I do?

anthropomorphic manifestation is not something to want so badly. don't worry, you just want to be in love right now. It'll be ok
Lizzy

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Hi, Lizzy!

is the color pink in? I mean, I don't really care, but I just want to know. My favorite color has been pink all of my life. I love it! I am just curious if it is in or not. I don't really care or anything.

Thanx!

P.S. I am Jollylollipop. I have an advice column, too! Ask me a question!

hey jollyollipop, of course pink is in! as long as you have the right shade. Personally, i think that the pale pink is really cute and looks more mature than the bright hot pink. Also pink and black make a great combo. Good Luck
Lizzy

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I know this guy lets call him CTW and i told me friend to call him she did and she told him i liked him... i do. and i don't know him that well but i'm in 7th grade and he rode my bus in 5th grade he's been at a couple partys and i think he's really nice. There is only one thing, i think he has some brain problems cause my friend said he is dangerous and he spazes out and hurts people while he spazes like on purpose but uncontolably he is going to sit at our lunch table when he is unsuspended for punching this kid but He would never purposly hurt someone. I know he will go out with me i just am not sure. can someone help me?

Everyone has problems, even the most popular guy in school. Get a psychyotrist to see him and i'm sure everything will be fine. If you don't know him that well, do you think maybe you should get to know him first?
Lizzy

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I feel very sick lately.
after walking up the stairs or standing or walking for a bit i feel like i might vomit.
it hurts to breath in deep and i cough alot and it hurts my sides. alot. today after standing in the hall way, going downstairs and walking down the block i almost threw up, kept gaging and coughing which hurt so much i was doubled over, and it hurt to move.
what could this be?

you might have a fever. That sounds really bad though so you might want to go see a doctor, but don't drive! Just lye down and eat a lot of yogurt or icecream. Good Luck
Lizzy

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I have a friend that is a boy. His name is Marco and he is really nice. We e-mail each other, and I sit in back of him in language arts and social studies. I really would like to hang out with him, but I don't want to tell him that. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????


desprate 4 help

Desprate 4 help,
Why not tell him? That would show that you are strong and dominate, not hard to get, which sometimes can be good. Just ask him to go to the mall with you, you never know, you might end up marrying the guy.
Lizzy

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Not to be rude or anything, but I'm not trying to follow the trend, I just like it, and If i like it, then I should do it right? Im not trying to be cool, or popular. . I just wanna be what suits me best. I happen to liek the clothing gothic people wear, and I sometimes act as if i were gothic. So I guess you misunderstood. . well bye

Gothic means to worship the devil, black has nothing to do with it neither does thier clothes, you'll be fine.
Lizzy

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My oldest daughter's biological father lives in a different country and we haven't spoken to each other since I was 19. I am now 30 years old. I let my daughter use my maiden name in her birth certificate but have indicated there who her real dad is. I've been married for 8 years now and my husband has been great to my oldest daughter. My dilema right now is should my husband legaly adopt my daughter so she could have his last name. My daughter sometimes says she is the only one in the family that has a different last name and that she doesn't look like her brother and sister. She already knows that her father is different from her brother and sister and I told her that it is not important that she uses a different name but what's important is how much her dad and her siblings loves her very much. I just wanted to get opinion if it would matter if she changes her last name or not.

That should probably be up to your daughter, what is she 11? I think anyone over the age of eight can make thier own decision on their name. I know a lot about changing names, my best friend changed her last name when she was six, and she hated it and regrets it, i changed my first name and i love it! If she is too young to make the decision, wait a few years, everything will be ok. Good Luck
Lizzy

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How come there is no boys asking questions? I'm a guy and I have a question... anyways... I'm kinda shy when the topic asking girls out comes up. I'm 13 and I dont ever think im going to get a girlfriend, because im so scared on what would i do if i asked someone out and then they said yes? i mean i dont know how to make out and stuff like that... what should i do?

Ask the girl. Tell her you would like to go owling or skating with her, and if your scared, just ask her to actually go out with you if you like her while you are out. By the way, it makes you a kewl guy since you don't cheat on girls, you'll make a girl very happy. Good Luck
Lizzy

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OK, I was at school today and a fifth grader who I danced with at a dance ONCE asked me out through one of my friends. I'M AN EIGHTH GRADER!!!! I told my friend to tell him no thatnks and I think she DID carry on the correct message but I think he told everyone we were going out and now people are making fun of me because they think I'm going out with a fifth grade russian. I mean, I don't care that he's russian but isn't the girl supposed to know when she's going out with somebody and now I have a dance tonight and I'm afraid he's going to ask me to dance and I really don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want to get any rumors started again. Please respond quickly because I have to leave at 7:15. I need to know what I should do and I don't trust myself to make the decision. Now it's 4:26

Unknowingly Dating

Don't go with him. Just tell him you are not his type and maybe even tell him you are going out with someone your own age. it might not be the truth, but it is better then going out with someone three years younger. Good Luck
Lizzy

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Okay there's this guy I like and he likes me, but we're not going out. When I say like I don't mean friends like. Well, I'd really like to go out with him sometime, like going iceskating or the movies, Well I would ask him out but what if he's just waiting for the right moment. Like maybe he wants to ask me to the dance. I don't know, I so confused. What should I do.

Confused, sometimes it is best to let the guy ask you out. If he is waiting for the right time then it might be more beautiful when he does ask you out. I know that sounds peachy, but what can i say? Im sure he'll ask you out
Good Luck
Lizzy

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OK, yesterday, I was in my bedroom and I was getting my journal out to write in it and i couldn't find my pencil, then i saw it on the table and it was too far for me to reach it and when I was stretching my arm to get it, it moved into my hand. My window wasn't open so that rules out wind. Am I telekenisis?

It's telekinetic, and personally, i don't believe in that sort of magic. I believe that if you want something truly, you will get it, but when you can't reach something and you are too lazy to move, i doubt it. Unless you are crippled in some way. I don't know, my beliefs are probably different than yours.
Lizzy

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There's this guy at school i like and he likes me. the problem is he has a girlfriend. he never liked her, but shes madly in love with him. i recently heard from his friend that he's dumping his girlfriend for me. but last week his girlfriend's friend yelled at me during PE and LA. If he does ask me out what should i say? either way i'm hurting someone. i really like this guy, though. should i say yes or no?

Well, obviously this girl is not your friend, so what would the trouble be. She is obviously a snobby brat who knows she's getting dumped, can't let fate down. Hope he makes out with you in front of her,
Lizzy

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my friend is obsessed with a guy 2 years older than her. i know he's not there for her. What should i tell her?

The truth. That is what a true friend would do. If you don't think she has a chance but she does think so, just support her, there would be nothing else to do. Good Luck
Lizzy

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I'm not very popular at school and kids pick on me. I don't really know why they do it, it's been that way since 1st grade. I'm in 8th grade now and I'm sick of it. I don't know what I did to deserve this. They hurt me emotionally and physically, should I stand up to them?
Respond please, I'm desperate,
Hurt and confused

Yeah, you should stand up to it. If i know anything about JR High, it is that anyone can be popular, but barely anyone can be tough. I am in eighth grade too and this one group of cheerleaders asked me to sit with them, so i did and they are the most boring people in the world because they would never do anything out of the ordinary. If you have one good friend, it is better than six popular ones, and i am not just saying that. Dont be dorky when you stand up to them though.
Good Luck
Lizzy

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