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I'm in high school. Guy #1, "DJ", is a real sweetheart. He asked me to a dance. He can make me laugh and he's not hard to talk to. Guy #2, "TJ", shares many of the same interests that I have. He and I can talk for hours without ever really getting anything accomplished. We spend most of our time laughing. I like both DJ and TJ, but I am not an assertive person. I am very afraid of rejection, and also that if I "made a move" that either of theim wouldn't be my friend anymore.
What is your advice for this situation?
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Well, it sounds like you and DJ get along better because you do more things together, one day you and TJ will run out of things to talk about and not know what to do, because you don't know if you have anything in common. Just be assertive, guys like girls who can be the man, if that makes sence. I hope everything works out for you.
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Seems like you have a better connection with TJ. So just see how TJ feels about you, ask him how he feels. Then try to make a move on him, maybe something like going to the movies. Something little and see how he reacts to those little moments of solitude with you. If it doesn't work out then do the same with DJ.
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If you like bouth of them just try to ask one out and if he dose not like you then go with the one that asket you out and if the uther one dose not wont to go out with you then it just was not ment to be.
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Maybe go on a date with each one of them. See which one you'd like more and either you sink or swim. I have faith in you!
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Take a chance, trust me if you don't take a chance you will never get anywhere in life especially in relationships. And if your scared of rejection just bring up the subject of relationships and gradually ask if one of them would date you. SO I say set your fear to the side and ask way.
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