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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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i just started my period monday, and im using tampons. is it normal for them to be a little uncomfertable when you first start using them?

well, everyone suggests that you dont use tampons on your first period. they say this because you need to find out how heavy your flow is, so know the size of your tampon. and sometimes it can take up to a few times [ like 6-12 ] before you know. but since you have already have gone for it - you cant take it back now. it is normal for them to be a little uncomfortable. but not to the point where you are in pain or something. if its bad uncomfort.. then maybe the tampon is too big.. or too small. maybe finish off this time with your period wearing pads to see how heavy your flow actually is. good luck. and if you have anymore qurestions - your welcome to ask me =)

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I have a new boyfriend. But I got hurt before so I don't let myself get too close to anyone. I have a fear I may check out other guys / think of kissing them or something. I feel really bad. I don't want that to happen and he doesn't ever want me to leave him. But a few minutes ago I had a dream of kissing an old crush and stuff, does that mean I like him? Or is my mind fooling around with me? :(

not getting close is completely up to you. but sometimes you cant always take the easy way out. you gotta give what your life takes you - all and all. although you may get hurt in the end, your most likely going to enjoy the journey. as for checking out other guys and kissing them - its just curiosity. as long as you dont actually DO IT - you should be fine. you may feel bad, but it will prolly go away with as busy you get with your boyfriend and enjoying yourself. as for the dream - i dont know. but this site does, and it will help you. this is what it says : "-To dream of kissing your ex suggests that you have been repeating old patterns of behavior in your life that are not healthy. Alternately, it can represent feelings that you still carry for this person. " i know he isnt exactly your ex - but hes close enough. heres the site if you wanna check it out. [ http://www.myjellybean.com/dream/dream.html ]. i pushed k for kiss and so thats how i found it.

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Ok so I have this splash party thing at the end of the year its on june 5th. But I get my period on the 2nd day of every month and lasts about a week. What should I do? I dont use tampons yet so how could I ever swim? What will I tell people if they don't see me swimming? Please help!

first off june 5th is the bestest day since forevr. [ its my birthday =) ]. anyway - i reccommend try using tampons. they arent hard - and if you know what your doing you will be just fine. if you dont use tampons, you could always wear a pad but if you go swimming or even get pushed in - it will look like a diaper. if you decide not to go swimming you could always tell people that you dont feel good, you just dont feel like swimming, you dont want to get really wet [ and just put your feet in ] ect. im sure you'll think of something. but, like i said - i reccomend using tampons. any questions - leave one in my inbox.

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I am 14/f and i'm 5'6" I hate being tall so much. I'm going to grow more and i bet I'll end up like really tall. I don't really knwo for sure, but to me most of the pretty people are short. i am so self concious about it!! I wish i could be 5'4" and stay that way for ever. I think about it every day and it makes me really sad. How can i get over this. i'll rate high

wow, i would give anything to be tall. ANYTHING. honestly - when you get older you will blend in just fine. most guys are attracted to tall girls anyway. so you deffinitally shouldnt be complaining. and if you are now - you wont be in the future. you should be proud to be tall.. not self concious about it. be proud of who you are.

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I was wondering ...what are the symptoms of ADD? ADHD? Because i'm wondering if I have it. I'm always hyper, It's very difficult to concentrate on some thing and I just don't know.

I'm gonna ask my doctor next check up but that might be a while.

P.S. I'm a 14 year old guy

they are pretty much the same for both. go here and see if you do have it..

[ http://www.helpguide.org/mental/adhd_add_signs_symptoms.htm ]

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my best friend in the whole wide world hates me now just because i'm too moody i really dont notice when i'm moody but now she wont talk to me she changed her answering machine and this is what she says "if this is (my name) dont call here ever again" that really hurt my feelings and i'm still crying right now! what do i do to get her to be my best friend again?

hoenstly i think she is overreacting and making this situation like alot worse then it really is. maybe just try and forget about her for a little and hang out with a new crowd. most likely she will come crawling back to you - epsecially if she really is your BEST FRIEND. i dont think you should loose a best friend over one being moody. in my opinion thats very stupid. and not a reason for a friendship to end. if its really bothering you maybe try talking to your school councelor or your mom. they always know what to do in these kinda situations.

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my bestfriends parents are mean to her..they dont hit her but they call her names and stuff..she called me crying hard and i know she cant take it! and i need to know how to help her..any ideas??


5S FOR ANYTHING SINCE THIS IS URGENT!!

i think she should talk to a school councelor. or call a teen help line. since they are professionals - they should know exactly what to do. i hope everything gets better like soon. if you need anything else - leave on in the inbox

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does anybody know any good dating spots or ideas that are sort of "out-of-the-ordinary". nothing like the movies - because thats so common. i want something fun and original.. so any ideas? thankss.

heres some ideas - =)
*out to eat
*go out & dance
*play tennis
*horse-back riding
*rollar Blading
*nature walk
*running/job
*charity walks/bike rides
*bowling
*miniature golf
*ultimate frisbe
*picnic in the park
*go to the museum
*go to the zoo
*concerts
*star gazing
*amuzement parks and water parks
*community garden
*go to a play
*art-fest
HAVE FUN !

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i know its more than one question - but its all the same topic so i just put it on one.. sorry.

1) if i reject a question - does it go to be public?
2) if i ask a public question [ like this ] - is their like a maximum number of answers?
3) is their a maximum number of favorite columnists you can have?

if you can answer all 3 - automatic 5.

no, no & no

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i want to go with my friend (hes a guy, im a girl) to our dance at the end of they year. alot of poeple have dates already. but he's already going with my sort-of friend. i really want to go with him though!!! anyone have any ideas on how to get him to go with me?

sorry, i know you dont wanna hear this as well [ i agree with the girl before me] but you cant have him. hun, im sorry but hes got a date. you cant have him. consider him like a really cute pair of shoes but they are sold out. BUMMER. but just find anotehr cute pair and buy them. you end up liking them more anyway - just like guys. find another guy ;] one who REALLY wants to go with you. or just go solo. and have an amazing time with friends.

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15/m
At school I've liked this girl for a while, and some of my friends have found out that she might like me too. I was going to ask her out, but then I found out that she is getting married soon. It's not a lie because, I'm guessing that is what her family believes in. Although she might not be getting married for maybe a couple of years, should I still ask her out?

yah, go for it. just have fun with it. it much be a pretty wierd family.. who knows. but anyway - go for it.! follow your heart. good luck

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How can I get my confidence level higher ?

Any tips?????????????????????????

try these sites..
[ http://www.girl.com.au/9-tips-to-gain-confidence.htm ]
[ http://wywy.essortment.com/howtogainco_rfbl.htm ]

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ok, i'm doing a large english project and my topic is eating disorders. i have to try and prove that its a mental disorder and not just, "i'm fat, i should become anerxic." i have to take 70 notes on it. any proof/opinons i could use. any HELPFULL, REALLY HELPFUL websites
because i've been on lots of websites. 5's to any good help thank you soooo much!

okay well im not sure exactly what your looking for.. but im gonna try with the websites idea.
[ http://www.edap.org/p.asp?WebPage_ID=294 ]
[ http://www.gmu.edu/departments/csdc/eat.html ]
[ http://www.something-fishy.org/whatarethey/edordiet.php ]
[ http://mentalhelp.net/poc/center_index.php?id=46 ]

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Let me start by saying that I am a huge music fan, I like most types of music and I think you can express yourself through music. I am in a situation where I need songs that are about missing someone that you love but is far away from you. Does anyone have any suggestions?

Try these..
*Promise - Matchbox Romance
*So Contagious - Acceptance
*Better Days - Goo Goo Dolls
*Here By Me - Nickleback
*Call n' Return - Hellogoodbye
*I Melt With You - Bowling For Soup
*Grace - Phil Whickham
*Whats Left Of Me - Nick Lachey
*I'll Be - Edwin McCain
*Ordinary People - John Ledgend
*Let Me Go - 3 Doors Down
*I Miss You - Blink 182
*Move Along - The All-American Rejects
*Iris - Goo Goo Dolls
*Semi-Charmed Life - Third Eye Blind
*This is Me - The Rocket Summer

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well i want to lose weight on my legs thighs especially and i want to do it quickly any ideas please help. my self esteem is lowering as we speak because people say im fat and i know i am but its killing me inside and i need help with losing the weight exercizing or i might just not eat. ill rate 5's.

whatever you do - dont just not eat. thats completely horrible for you and you wont get any nutrients for your body. heres some ideas you can try..
*drink green tea.
*eat cereal in the morning with skim milk (special k suggested).
*eat peanut butter(after you have lost the weight - it helps keep it off)
*drink water (and drink A LOT. even if your completely full - just keep sipping it)
*organize your workouts and keep to them (even if you have to - write them down in a little book)
*eat foods with high water or fiber amounts (they fill you up faster)
*have lotsa lowfat dairy in your diet
*if you have coffee in the morning, change it to green tea (with nothing in it) or orange juice
*have protien with every srving of food you have - even snacks.
*fill half your plate of dinner with veggies.
*skip the high-calorie drinks
*put a weight on your remote. (everytime you pick it up and hold it - your gaining muscle)
*limit alcohol
*set a cerfew for your kitchen.
*reach for a mint after dinner (makes your tastebuds think your done eating)
*advoid the scale - dont care about what it says. as long as you see a physical result.
*snack smart (grapes, almonds, apples, peanut butter, ect)
*eat with the opposite hand. (it slows you down while your eating and make you enjoy your food)
*let yourself feel hungry
*add spices to your meals. (adding cayenne pepper and salsa will help boost your metabolism)

i did a little research, just in case the tips i gave you werent helpful and found a site that can really help you.. [ http://ezinearticles.com/?20-Ways-to-Lose-Weight&id=334 ]. and remember that you shouldnt be doing this because of what other people think. do it for yourself. if they say your fat - then then need to seriously get a life. be happy with who you are - im sure your amazing.

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Is making out with another guy cheating?????????

yes, it is. you wouldnt want your boyfriend going and kissing on other girls, would you? i dont think you'd be pleased.

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My period hasnt come yet. (I did not have sex) It was supposed to happen 2 weeks ago, and Im not sure if thats a natural thing to skip every once in a while, or if its a real problem. Is it abnormal or normal?

diffinitally dont worry about it. its completely normal - especially if you just got it a couple months ago or so. your body has to get used to it and can take up to a whole year [ or more ] to get on a normal pattern. its deffinitally common for teenagers though.
[my bestest friend x already answered you. HIYA! ]

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can you somehow find out who'ss added you as a favorite? thanks

yup, click Favorite Columnists under where it says like Welcome, YOURUSERNAME. the first part shows the people youve added as a favorite and the part under are the people whove added you.

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I have to remember a poem for school. Any tricks to help me memorize it? It's pretty long.

heres some tips.
*make a song out of it.. or like add it to a beat or rhythum
*read it over and over.
*do a little at a time/ break it up into sections
*retype/rewrite it.
*read it outloud.
*take breaks when you need to.
*make sure you understand the lines of the poem and what its trying to say
*make a recording, and play it in the car or on a jog, or just hanging around your room
*have someone help you.. incase you get stuck after you have parts memorized.
good luck -!

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ok well i make myspace layouts and i need to make a scroll box using textarea but its not working because whenever i use it it doest make a scroll box



this is where i put
my code



and i doing it right?

nope, hehe. alot of people do this. in the first text area you shouldnt do the "/" between the "

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