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I have a new boyfriend. But I got hurt before so I don't let myself get too close to anyone. I have a fear I may check out other guys / think of kissing them or something. I feel really bad. I don't want that to happen and he doesn't ever want me to leave him. But a few minutes ago I had a dream of kissing an old crush and stuff, does that mean I like him? Or is my mind fooling around with me? :(
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It is a little abnormal to be dreaming of kissing an old crush, but the mind is weird. Also, it's likly that your bf will still look at other girls when he walks by them and stuff. (but of course he problly won't do it when your around.) It doesn't mean he doesn't like you; he just enjoys girls- thats a good thing, it prooves he not gay. *wink wink*. Don't feel bad. A lot of people have this problem, but just cause you have a bf does't mean you have to ignore half of the people on Earth (men). got to go. Good luck.
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-brittany
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I know that getting close is hard inspecialy when you have been hurt befor and its ok about looking at outher guys, but dreaming about them mite tell you that you should look in your heart and think if you would rather be with that person!!!!!
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not getting close is completely up to you. but sometimes you cant always take the easy way out. you gotta give what your life takes you - all and all. although you may get hurt in the end, your most likely going to enjoy the journey. as for checking out other guys and kissing them - its just curiosity. as long as you dont actually DO IT - you should be fine. you may feel bad, but it will prolly go away with as busy you get with your boyfriend and enjoying yourself. as for the dream - i dont know. but this site does, and it will help you. this is what it says : "-To dream of kissing your ex suggests that you have been repeating old patterns of behavior in your life that are not healthy. Alternately, it can represent feelings that you still carry for this person. " i know he isnt exactly your ex - but hes close enough. heres the site if you wanna check it out. [ [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) ]. i pushed k for kiss and so thats how i found it.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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I think your mind is fooling with you... and don't follow the flow... Don't ever end up like me.. To be honest, I was hurt once before by my boyfriend. I mean like really 'hurt'. And my mind was messing around with me, turning me into a crusher. It was just a year ago when I was still crushing as many boys' heart as possible. I thought beauty could always win... but I was wrong.. oh well, the point is that don't really think that what you dream of is something meaningful 'meaningful'. It's something from your unconsciouss side that wants or longs for something. But don't follow it if you don't want to. Think of good things and it won't happen...
I hope I've helped... Wish you always the best luck. GOod luck. I'm sure it's not a bad thing.. It will turn into a good thing... Don't worry.
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Thinking about other boys, even kissing them is natural, don't worry. As long as you aren't thinking about that certain person all the time, I think your fine. As for the dream, your mind's just fooling with you. After all you can't control your dreams and your just thinking about your past. No harm there, don't worry. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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