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He Wants To Keep His Options Open?
K, so I asked the question about being in love with my ex still after I cheated on him. Well, I decided I don't anymore, because I told him how I felt, and he pretty much told me he hated me, and it made me cry, so now I'm done wasting my time on him. I broke up with my other boyfriend because I only liked him as a friend, and I didn't wanna lead him on anymore.
Now, there's a boy at school named Nick. He's liked me since 7th grade [we're in 9th]. Now, I asked him out last Friday, and he told me he didn't know. After school on Friday. He walked me to my bus, hugged me & gave me a kiss. It was weird, but I went with it. And then after school that day, he told me he liked being single, but he also really liked me, but wanted to keep his options open, so I was like "Okay, well let me know when you wanna go out." and he was all "Yeah, totally." So, yesterday [Monday] we hung out during lunch, since we have the same lunch, and I told him I was cold, so he put his arm around me & held my hand, and then I looked at him when we were walking inside and he kissed me. We were walking down the hall, because the bell rang & he kissed me again. I went to his locker with him, and he was putting in his combination to get his stuff, and he had his arm around my waist, with a really strong grip. Then, we went to my locker so I could get my stuff for my class, and he had his arms around me and he was standing in back of me. And then he kissed me & went to his class. After that class, he seen me, and came to my locker. Now, I leave last block on certain days, because I don't have a class, so, he came to my locker, and he had to go to science, and he kissed me again and left. And then today he told my friend to tell me he didn't wanna go out with me.
If he didn't wanna go out with me, why did he kiss me? And what should I do? I like him, but he's confusing. What's with him?
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This guy sounds pretty stupid for touching you and acting as if you were his girlfriend and yet he does not want to be with you officially.
What you need to do is make sure that you don't let him kiss and hug on you. Tell him that you aren't willing to to the things couples do if he's not willing to actually be in a couple with you. Right now, it looks like he wants to kiss on you and other girls because you can't call him on it upset because he's 'keeping his options open'.
That is exactly how it is too. Do not let him kiss you anymore until he starts calling you his girlfriend.
-TheTeenGirl
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I am not sure about this guy but i will try my best to help since thats why im here. He may be confused too but that still gives him no right to lead you on like that, that was wrong. He may like you but be confused about it too.I cannot explain why he would have done the things he did, maybe just to see how it was,maybe for attention. You should just try and talk to him. Ask him if he didn't want to go out then why did he treat you like that and lead you on. Confront him about it and how you feel about him falsely leading you on. Im not sure but maybe then you might have more answers, and maybe not (hey, theres nothing to lose).
Sorry i couldnt be a better help.
if you have anymore questions just ask me.
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It like seems he likes you to, but there mite be someone elts that he likes and he mite want to stay single for that person or he mite want to imprees his friends Anyway the best thing to do is move on no matter how hard it is cus he mite end up hurting you and trust me I know how it feels GOOD LUCK!!!!!
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