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Never meant to be...


Question Posted Tuesday May 16 2006, 9:28 pm

My very best childhood friend, Lee, had been liking me since sixth grade... and I like him too. But the problem is, it seems to me like we're not meant to be together. Because like in sixth grade, we pretended to like other people because we were too shy to tell each other about our feelings. (It ended up with me going out with other boy) Then I moved to other school in seventh grade and he went out with a high school girl because he was depressed that I was gone. And I, heard that he was going out with other girl, went out with my sister's friend. Then, in eight grade, again, he went out with other girl because I wasn't there, and I just thought that we were never meant to be together. But then he broke up with that girl and finally confessed his love that he had been hiding from everyone since sixth grade. What do you say? Do you think it's too late? Or just never meant to be together?

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TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 11:49 pm:
I wouldn't really say that the two of you aren't meant to be, it's just hard to tell someone that you have feelings for them so they just wait for the other person to make the first move.

So I think what happened is that your friend wanted you to know that he liked you, but he wanted to wait for you to do something to show him that you have the same feelings. Even if that weren't the case, theres no reason why you shouldn't be with him if you truly want to be with him.

Maybe you can look at things this way. You both went through dating all of these other people and they all didn't work out, so maybe something is bringing the two of you together finally.

-TheTeenGirl

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amyyy789 answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 10:56 pm:
try it out than see if it works or not. if not, then whatever, its not meant to be. its obvious that you both want eachother and just really shy, but since he came out and said he liked you then just go with it and see what happens

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