Gender:
FemaleLocation:
United StatesOccupation:
StudentAge:
14AIM:
OhhMuhhGawwdx5Member Since:
May 15, 2006Answers:
23Last Update:
October 15, 2007Visitors:
2739about
HeY im Kelsey&& im 15, i love to give advice so dont b shy, im here to give you answers. Im not here to judge you, it doesnt matter what gender,race,or orientaion, etc. Im here to answer your questions and to help however i can. I don't mind doin a little research or whatever, im here for you.
advice
i have this discharge stuff in my underware its slimy and clear/white and ive had it 4 about 3 months will i get my period(4 the first time) soon? aslo im 13
theres no way to know for sure, but it means you are closer. yes you will get it soon, but it could be anywhere from a few weeks to a year. i had that for about a year n half before i began mine.
so idk if its just me but its summer and my friends never wanna hang out with me everytime i tell them idk theyll make up a dumb excuse i have other friends but those are like my mainf riends from school and they go out all the times w/o me..i feel left out and if i talk to them about it theyll get mad.....what do i do
Im not sure, but i know i went through that same thing, i just never handled it.Eventually we all got close again but for a long while i felt excluded from evrything. I guess you should TRY to hang out with other people a little more often or something. That is not always the case, if you cant, or just dont want to hang out with other then your can try to invite only one of them and try to hang out with them separately and go do something really fun. If that doesnt work then try to invite them all do some real fun get together like a little party, or girls night out.... or you can invite them all and a buncha guys n just go find somewhere n all hang out. There is no perfect way to handle this, Sorry i cant say more, hope i helped a little bit.
I dont want to loose a lot, just like 5 or 6 LBs. anyone have any good tips on how to loose a few pounds fast?? tell me please!
Working out is always best, running, situps, swimming, etc. but whenit comes to a healthier diet, cutting things out like soda always help. If you drink soda regularly (almost every day) it is very bad. If you cut out soda for a couple of months, even weeks, it should help a lot. Also just putting an extra something in like a bananna in the mornin or some yogurt in the afternoon is good for your body. Another tip is to not eat late before goin to sleep because it sits in your stomach overnight and turns into fat. But if you eat something healthy like grapes or a fruit an hour or two before bed then it should help brun calories while you sleep.
hope i helped.
ask if you have any more questions
K, so I asked the question about being in love with my ex still after I cheated on him. Well, I decided I don't anymore, because I told him how I felt, and he pretty much told me he hated me, and it made me cry, so now I'm done wasting my time on him. I broke up with my other boyfriend because I only liked him as a friend, and I didn't wanna lead him on anymore.
Now, there's a boy at school named Nick. He's liked me since 7th grade [we're in 9th]. Now, I asked him out last Friday, and he told me he didn't know. After school on Friday. He walked me to my bus, hugged me & gave me a kiss. It was weird, but I went with it. And then after school that day, he told me he liked being single, but he also really liked me, but wanted to keep his options open, so I was like "Okay, well let me know when you wanna go out." and he was all "Yeah, totally." So, yesterday [Monday] we hung out during lunch, since we have the same lunch, and I told him I was cold, so he put his arm around me & held my hand, and then I looked at him when we were walking inside and he kissed me. We were walking down the hall, because the bell rang & he kissed me again. I went to his locker with him, and he was putting in his combination to get his stuff, and he had his arm around my waist, with a really strong grip. Then, we went to my locker so I could get my stuff for my class, and he had his arms around me and he was standing in back of me. And then he kissed me & went to his class. After that class, he seen me, and came to my locker. Now, I leave last block on certain days, because I don't have a class, so, he came to my locker, and he had to go to science, and he kissed me again and left. And then today he told my friend to tell me he didn't wanna go out with me.
If he didn't wanna go out with me, why did he kiss me? And what should I do? I like him, but he's confusing. What's with him?
I am not sure about this guy but i will try my best to help since thats why im here. He may be confused too but that still gives him no right to lead you on like that, that was wrong. He may like you but be confused about it too.I cannot explain why he would have done the things he did, maybe just to see how it was,maybe for attention. You should just try and talk to him. Ask him if he didn't want to go out then why did he treat you like that and lead you on. Confront him about it and how you feel about him falsely leading you on. Im not sure but maybe then you might have more answers, and maybe not (hey, theres nothing to lose).
Sorry i couldnt be a better help.
if you have anymore questions just ask me.
There is this end of the year graudation dance on June 9th. A lot of people have dates, and I really want one. Can you think of anyway that I could get a date? I talk to guys and stuff. But how do I put myself out there and show them that I wanna go with someone?
I will rate all 5s!
Thanks In Advance.
Just pick out a guy or talk to a guy that you liek or want to go with. Talk to him about what he is doin, if he is goin, and if he has a date. Make sure he knows you dont have a date either. If he doesnt bring it up just say something before you leave or walk away luike hey if you dont have a date it might be fun to go together. Talk to you late (or somehting like that). Its not complicated, its rather easy, just pick and go for it, hey if you dont have a date yet then there is nothin to lose. HaVe FUn.
hope i helped atleast a little.
get back to me if you have anymore questions
okay its the girl thats getting the surgery again. sorry. okay well i really liked your answer so i needed to ask you another thing now. i just found out that after my surgery i am supposed to stay home and not do anything for a week. but this is really big. like c'mon its the 8th grade dance. we have been talking about it since 6th grade. and now i have to miss it? or go and be in a chair. uhhh. i know its my choice - but what do you think i should do? thankssss
HeY no problem im here for any of your questions. Okay personally in my opinion if the dance is that important to you then i would want to go too if i were you. I think if you really want to then you should. Okay, the problem is getting your parents to let you go after the doctor said you shouldn't. Here are my suggestions. First of all try to be cooperative with your parents and doctor through it all. Rest up well after the surgery and act ok and like you are doin great! Then kinda bring it upon them slowly. If you really want them to say yes then try to get along with them and be ice so there is a chance they will let you. Make sure they know how important this dane is to you and so things like PROMISE you will rest up well before and after. I do think you deserve to go, every girl does (especially since you have a date). Now just work on getting your parents permission to go.
Hope i helped you out.
just tell me if there is ever anything else you need help with
I know its LONG! but im serious..im panicing..
i did something bad..really bad :[ i do regret it but i tried to stop it! you see my friend and i went out to eat..at this restauraunt where all the kids go! im 16 and my friend is 15! my mom dropped us off there since i cant drive YET. soo we ate and everything and my friend is like ..lets walk out without paying! and im like nooo nooo noo! im not gonna do that i just cant im not like that. and shes like come on i have a plan we go to the bathroom and then just walk out! and you see like EVERYONE from our school was there that night. so we go into the bathroom and im like we cant do it ..its not right! we are gonna be caught lets just pay whats the big deal? and my friend is like if we see our waitress then we will go back to our table and pay but if we dont lets just leave. soo we didnt see her but i tried goin back but my friend grabbed my hand and like dragged me outta there. we started running away..and then the waitress and the manager came out and was like you ladies walked out without paying and then we made up some story..but we eneded up paying in the end anyways! i didnt tell my mom or anything but then today (4 days later) this girl is like what did you do this weekend and im like hungout with people and she is like what did you do on friday? and im like went out to eat and shes like oh yeah i heard you tried to eat and run but you got caught and im like WHO DID YOU HEAR THAT FROM? and she is like matt..the kid right next to her some really popular kid! and then im like well how does he know so now i guess its getting around the school and im not like that at all! i feel so stupid and embarassed i know it was totally wrong but it wasnt my idea! im so ashamed..what should i do? is there anything i can do?! im scared my mom or brother or dad is gonna find out since my bro goes there all the time! and now we cant go back there and it was our favorite place because we are scared they will recognize us! i just dont know! i know its wrong so please dont say anything i just dont know what to do. and the people that worked there are only a grade older then me and my friend-11th grade and they were working! they were the ones who probably told! just any advice?
i'll rate 5! thanks
I know this isnt what you want to hear but there isnt much you can do, i have been in a situation like this and i also know people like this.I know this is bad but it is the only thingyou can really do.Just when people bring it up tell them that you went to the bathroom and when you came out your friend was waiting, so you thought she had paid, and your friend was waiting because she thought you had already paid. You have to let it slide andnot affect you. If your brother or mother finds out then tell them what i said and say that people are making rumors around the school that it was a different story. Or tell your mom the story i told you BEFORE someone else tells her, that way she will be more likely to believe you and will understand when someone brings it up. I KNOW THIS IS REALLY BAD and that you shouldnt take this advice but it is all you can do till this thing blows over. Yeah its bad but you made a mistake ( everyone does sometime) and you just should never do it again.
I know tis is bad, but i hope things work out for the better. hoped i helped atleast a little bit. ask if you have anymore questions.
kk well 13/f. i have my 8th grade dance on june 8th. i have to get surgery on my knee june 6th - i tore my acl. and my birthday is june 5th. my guy friend [ hopefully something more soon ] wants to go to the dance with me - i dont know if i wanna go though, let alone with him because i wont be doing much (or all) dancing and i dont wanna bring him down. or let me feel left out. what do you guys think i should do? should i go and dance in a chair? should i go with him? helppp
First of all sorry about your knee.This was the only thing i could think of. It really is completely your choice to go or not but it depends on what YOU want. If you wanna go with him by all means, go and have a good time. If you decide not to then tell him you really wanted to go with him and that you are sorry but you dont want to bring him down and hold him back from having a good time (this is only if you decide to not go). If he says that he doesnt care and he still wants to go with you then i think that you should go because if he says he doesnt care then that means he really does want to go with YOU.What yo do depends on whether or notyou decide to go. If it will be painful and you will hurt at the dance then maybe you shouldnt go, but if you think you will be okay and wanna have a good time then just go have a good time.
Sorry i couldn't be of more help. Hope everything turns out ok. just ask if you have any more questions.
hey! im the party-sweet 16 have my period girl again hah. sorry! but the only thing is..is that i dont have a car and nobody else is going to be bringing clothes..just what they got on! soo i dont know what to do? i wont know like anyone really! because its a party from a different school since my best friend went there! i know this sucks..but is there anything else i can do!? thanks soo much and sorry!
No problem, im here to answer your questions.Well im not sure but my best answer would be to bring them with and hide them. I know i already said it but it would still prolyl be your best best. You can say you have to go to the restroom when you get there or something and hide them under the sink or go into the lobby bathroom when you get there and find a hiding spot, ANYWHERE n just hide your tampon there until you need it, since you dont have a car or a bag that is all i can think of.
Sorry i couldn't be more of a help but i really do think the hiding thing will work. Hope i helped a little. Hope the party goes great.
Im here if you have any more questions
hey well its my birthday this weekend! SWEET SIXTEEN! :] and my friend said that there is this hotel party that she was invited to from this other school this saturday..and i really want to go! there is gonna be drinking and stuff but the kid said we can stay there overnight. i just wanna party this weekend and celebrate because you only turn 16 once. the only problem is i got my period late today (tuesday) and it wont be gone by saturday so i dont know what to do! i wear tampons but i dont want to bring a purse to the party at all and i wanna wear flip flops and a tshirt and jeans! so i dont know what to do about my period! and if we stay overnight which we probably will..i dont want to leak! also i will need to bring tampons but where would i put them? im probably gonna be drunk so i dont wanna bring a purse--wont trust it since there will be alot of people and my friend doesnt carry a purse either!! soo what do you think i should do? the only way we can go is if we stay overnight too since we will be drinking and stuff. well thanks!
i will rate 5 for anyone who answers
If you go there you will undoubteldly need tampons, i dont know if this will help but heres a couple of ideas
1) if you have a car then park close and act like you need to get something, then run out there, grab a tampon, n change your tampon in the lobby bathroom.
2) If you think you will be too drunk to run out to your car then try and get there early and have some in your pocket then hide them under the bathroom sink or something.
3) bring a bag in with clothes or something that you can have in your car(nothing important or that could be stolen)then bring it inside and put it under the bed or behind the shower curtain (make sure you rememeber to put the tampons in there though)
im not sure if any of those will help but they are ideas if you can't think of anything else.
hope i helped
just ask if you have any more questions
How can I get my confidence level higher ?
Any tips?????????????????????????
I totally understand how you feel. Its just in your mind. When you are feelin down just go do something fun with friends. Think positive and do whatever makes you feel like you look great before you go out. If you FEEL great, then you LOOK great. Not all guys are attracted just to looks. They like certain things, like...CONFIDENCE. its no big deal,just be positive and when you go places, think that every eye is on you. Dont be shy either, do a couple extra things to boost your confidence. Get over some fears maybe, like asking a guy if he wants to hang out sometime or go see a movie, just be casual about it, dont be nervous, and dont be shy. Have fun with everything you do. Just begin to enjoy life and stay away from things that bore you or make you unhappy and begin to find what you are interested in.
Hoped i helped
ask if you have any more questions
Okay so like 2 days ago i had this dream and i just wanted to ask u guys what you think it means! sorry if its too long
The people in my dream were me,my best friend, and the kid that i sorta like but ive never actually talked to him before i just see him in the halls and his myspace so i dont even know if he knows who i am but i do catch him looking at me once in a while so yeah...
Well anyways in my dream me and my best friend were at this like big cafeteria place and our whole school was their and my best friend went to go tie her shoe and i waited for her so i put both my hands on this pole like around it and then the guy i like comes over and he goes and ties his shoe so he puts his hands over mine and i felt them but i kept them their for like 2 seconds and i got one of my hands off and i tried pulling my other one under his and he smiled and kept it their and hes like uhh sorry then he started talking to us but i dont remember what we said l-o-l but yeah and like everytime he gets a new picture on myspace and i see it i get rly hott and shaky l-o-l? does this mean i rly like him or wat?! Ill rate high
This could mean a lot of things. My first thought was that after you had looked at him and he had been near you that he had just walked away and it may have been akward. Tis could mean that you have not really talked to him a lot since he just walked away, maybe oyu just need to start talking to him or ask him to hang out with a couple of friends this weekend. You probably just are confused and think you like him but dont really know him. Try goin out and hanging out with him a couple of times, you may just find he is a good friend, but hren you could also find that you do like him a lot. Things are neevr goin to change from the way they are now unless you try and change them. Just walk up and talk to him sometime. Be like hey whats up. What are you doin this weekend, you can say stuff liek yeah me and my friends might be goin to the movies or something. Just plan something and invite him, make sure and tell him he can bring a couple of friends with him so he doesnt feel akward. Its no big deal so just give it a try.
hope i helped
just tell me if you have anymore questions.
This might sound a little conceited but I'm really not.
I've always gotten complements from guys, girls, family, and friends about my looks and them telling me that I'm pretty/hot/gorgeous/cute/etc.
And well, it seems like most guys just want to go out with me because of my looks. I'm going on a date with this guy I like this Friday and today I was talking to him when he said "I'm really excited about this weekend you're so hot and I finally have a chance with you"
That just kind of got me upset because what if my past dates/boyfriends only dated me because of looks?
Is it weird that sometimes I wish that I didn't look the way I do?
Well I know your not conceited and i know this is hard for you, and some probably did date you for your looks, but it doesnt mean that EVERYONE did it because of that. Beauty gets the attention, and personality gets the heart. If you are a great person and had gotten along well with some of the guys than they could have very much liked you for you. Sometime when your alone with your current boyfriend, look at him, be serious, and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you like him for more than how he looks and that you hope he likes you for more than your looks, ask him seriously and ask him what he likes about you. Other than being hot or whatever. Maybe he should know that you would rather be beautiful than hott and that at the end of your conversation you make sure he knows how much you care about your relationship and that you just wanna make it last.
hope i helped
ask me if you have any more questions
ok well here i go.
i have had a really good relationship with this guy. we will call him b. well he was the best boyfriend a girl could ever ask for but then i broke up with him because he cheated on me and i had cheated on him. and i have had a crush on this one guy. we can call him j. well j and i have flirted and i wanted him to ask me out really bad but then b got to be best friends with j so now j seems wierd around me. b was so mad that i had picked j over him that he went into my locker and tore it apart LITIARLY! it was so upsetting i almost was going to cry. then to top it all off, b wont say a word to me other then to call me slut! and he means it and it really breaks my heart because he said that no matter what, we would be friends so its just confusing. what do i do?
please help!
Wow i know what you are talking about. B is probably just jealous and upset. Some guys dont get sad, they get mad. One boyfriend i had got so mad wheni broke up with him that my ex went to my boyfriends house and "hung out" with him and told him a bunch of lies and started rumors that follow me to this day. I am ok with my ex now, you need time, different guys take more or less time than others. Its ok, he will eventually get over it. You can try to talk to him but if it doesnt work than there is probably nothing you can do but go on with your life. It does sound like J likes you though so i would try to become closer with him, alone, which means atleast not when B is around. Give it a try. B just wants you to know that he is angry and is not having any trouble taking it out on you. Just try to stay clear of him and if you cant talk to him there is always Plan B. Which is to ignore him and just shake it off, if he calls you a slut then look at him, laugh, and roll your eyes, it will make him mad but he will eventually stop if he knows that you arent affected by his words anymore.
hope i helped
ask if you have anymore questions
ok, you answered one of my questions about making out before. i just have one more thought. what happens if he makes a move when i least expect it and i dont know what to do? i mean, what if i miss or dont do it the right way? god, that would be so embarrassing.
Dont worry about it, just try and be prepared for it. Dont worry too much about it.If you are too worried about it then you may criticize yourself for things that you did fine on. Just look for the way he tilts his head and tilt yours the other way and if he has made out before then he will take the lead, and trust me, after a second or two you will get it and you will be fine.
If you wanna talk about this or any other questions then you can ask here or IM me on my sn... OhhMuhhGawwdx3
hope i helped
ok, i'm doing a large english project and my topic is eating disorders. i have to try and prove that its a mental disorder and not just, "i'm fat, i should become anerxic." i have to take 70 notes on it. any proof/opinons i could use. any HELPFULL, REALLY HELPFUL websites
because i've been on lots of websites. 5's to any good help thank you soooo much!
http://www.mirror-mirror.org/ed.htm
http://www.edauk.com/info_guide_1.htm
http://www.eating-disorder.com/
......These all have info about eating disorders
and this one below had news articles about eating disorders............
http://eatingdisordersonline.com/media/news.php
I had done a research paper on eating disorders earlier this year so i hope these sights help
Send me any more questions you have or answers you may need for anything
hey
im currently 13 and my boyfriend and i have been going out since i was 12. today in one of my classes, my friend asked my if this other person told me something. i said no and she was like, good because ***** didnt want us to tell you. i put enough pressure on her to finally get some words out. she said that he desperately wanted to make out. i mean, we've kissed before but not like SERIOUSLY seriously gone there. he has made out with some girls in the past but i havent made out with anyone yet. in my school, making out is a big issue for everyone. they say if you dont make out in 7th grade, you'll never survive in the school we're going to next year.
its not like i dont like him enough to do it, but i dont feel ready. i know im just thirteen but im a lot more mature mentally and physically than my peers. i have had the oppertunities to make out but none of them felt right so i didnt.
im going out with him to the movies on friday night. what if he makes a move then? what do i say? i dont want things to be awkward. i dont want people to think im a loser. and i definitely dont want him to think that i dont want to take things a step further. i do, but i dont... if that makes sense.
has anyone been in my position? please help me out.
Well im 14 right now and i have definitely been in thi situation, yeah it was earlier than 13 but i am goin to be completely truthful because to give the best advice i can, im not going to lie to you. Well first of all don't feel like it is wrong to make out with him, its not like you are marrying him. The only way it would be wrong is if you did it and you werent ready, then you would probably feel bad (then again it may help you realize you are ready) but you are teh judge of that.You do what you are ready for when you are ready for it. If he makes a move then just don't return it, tell him you really like him and if he REALLY DOES like you then he will understand that you dont want to do it right then. Don't stress it. When it comes to your friends hassling you about it or saying mean stuff because you decided not to make out with this guy, it is not their business. Stand up for yourself and don't be scared, try not to be mean or anything but be firm. Tell them that you ARE NOT them and you can do WHATEVER you want and do it WHENEVER you want to, its not their decision.
Hope I Helped
just tell me if you need anymore advice,
im here for you
ok. im 12. somewhat skinny, and 100 lbs. i havent eatn in about 6 days,but i drink water a lot. i want to eat, but then i feel bad and ill just make myself throw up. i geuss im afraid to eat or gain weight. i keep passing out and only a few ppl know why. help anyone?
THIS IS VERY BAD. I know you dont want to gain weight and feel bad but you have got to because i have studied this and it gets extremely bad and does nothin but worsen. There are centers to help this, i know you are probably scared to tell your mother but if you dont want to face it alone then tell someone you trust ( best friend, family friend, teacher, relative, etc.) and they will help you talk to your mother or father so you dont have to face this alone.
This is very unhealthy and these are some dangerous effects-
1)your body will eat away your fat, then muscle(makin your extremely weak), then it will make its way to your internal organs, eating it away trying to get energy.
2)You will lose hair and the hair on your body will change along with the rest of your body because it wont be able to keep yourself warm.
3)You lose blood cells and parts of you that keep you healthy (making your body less immune to diseases and illnesses)
You need to get help immediately. If you have to show this letter to your parent. You have to get help as soon as possible. This could become extremely painful and unhealthy causing permanent damage, it could even kill you. I know it will be hard but you have to get help, there are rehab centers for this and you have to check into one before it is too late, you cannot fix this the safe way if you dont get PROFESSIONAL help(such as hospital, rehab centers, doctors)Please get help, i know its scary but it will be worth it. If you need any more help or have questions than just ask me or send them to me.
okay so i have this shirt and i am having ppl sign it for the end of the year well my ex b/f keeps wanting to sign it so i finally let him and he said "ass" so i changed it to "ask" well after my last period at school he was waiting outside my door for me and he asked me how i liked what he wrote i said i liked it but i changed it to "ask" then he was like well let me wright something nice on it so i let him it said "fuck u" and he was laughing well then i changed it to "have fun u" and now he wants to change it again he is even trying to get inside my pockets to get the marker is this a sign that he likes me still (he was the one that dumped me)
Yeah well i dont know this guy but he does sound like he may like you, im not sure, then again that just may be his personality. My htoughts on him is that mainly he is prolly just bored and wants attention. Whatever you do, DONT GIVE IT TO HIM, the more attention you give him the more he will act this way. Eventually he may want to get back together but you will probably just be in for another bad breakup. Yeah but just remember to NOT give him the attention he is dying to get!
How do you know when you are in love with someone? And how do you know if it is true love?
Yeah this is definitly a confusing thing in life. It is always hard to tell if it is true. Most people dont understand it or are in denial but there is truly NO age limit for love. It just happens, sometimes its real and sometimes you just think you are. I cant tell you if it is real but i can tell you this, you can be easily decieved. Sometimes when you are being treated like never before or if that someone is making you feel special then you tend to think its love. I know ive been through it. They treat you great, make you feel great about yourself, and give you lots of attention, TRUST ME ON THIS you will undoubtedly fall for it sometime or another. Every girl loves attention and feeling like someone really truly cares about her, and that often causes people to see something thats not there. But hey, its worth a try, maybe its just in your head, but if you always believe that it IS just in your head then you may let something GREAT pass you by. You will be heartbroken, but trust me, a couple heartbreaks is worth it if it helps you find the one that will fix it.
Sometimes you have to forget what you want, and remember what you deserve.