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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

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i was with my friend at the beach in july n somethings happened now my friend n me arent friends while i was down there last night a boy felt my boob n im dating my boyfriend for about 4months n i told him it didnt happen bc he found out by my friend so i lied to him and now i dont know what to do my friend said she has pic to prove it im scared plz help =[

Ahh, this sucks. Well, honestlly you shouldn't of lied to your boyfriend but it's too late now. I personally think that your friend will not have the picture. Who ever takes pictures of something like that!! Unless you're like a stalker or something.. but I bet that she is just saying that to scare you off and I think it's working. Just tell her alright we'll see who's right and have some confidence in yourself and just make her belive that it didn't happen. If you truely love your boyfriend or just like him a lot, I would tell him what happened. You should just tell him he DID do that but you didn't really want him to and it only lasted for about 2 seconds. Say the only reason you didn't tell him is because you were scared he would break up with you for something you had no control over for that short period of time. You could eather tell him now or just wait and see if your friend "really" has that picture. But, just do what ever you think is the right thing. Everything will be fine babe! Good luck!

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If you are wearing foundation, can people tell if you are blushing?

Yes people could tell. If you are blushing just a little then it wont be that noticable but just wear some blush on your cheeks. If people ask are you blushing just say no and that you have blush. I always wear it so no one can tell! Lol =)

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Ok. Here's my problem. There is this boy that i like that is like 2-3 years older than me and I really like him!!! What should I do??? I just don't know what to say to him. I dont know If i go up to him and say hi and he'll ask me how old I am I don't want him to think I'm a little too young for him. Does it really make a difference in age??

Well how old are you and how old is he? I mean 2-3 years is not a big age difference at all. I dont think he would think anything like that. Just take the risk and go up to him or something and say hi. Start talking to him and get to know him and what kind of person he is. Good luck babe!

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ok im in high school and i was wondering what's more useful? 1-2 inch binders or folders?

thanks!

ps - and why one is better than the other

1-2 Binders because papers wont fall out and you can put a lot of things in there. You can also find things and assigments faster and make it neater.

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heyy i was just wondering if anyone could tell me if clear mascara actually looks good? Is it really worth buying? Where can you buy it? thxxx

Yes it does work. Its not much different. You just dont get black all over your eyes and stuff and it works best if you have dark long lashes. But yes its worth it.

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how much are web cams.. i hear there really cheap.. and where can i get them

They are around $50 but you could get them for cheaper. You can buy them at Best Buy.

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my nipples hurt. i havent started my period and my boobs havent grown. what is happening?

They are growing. It takes time and if you keep track to see if they are growing you wont be able to tell. It happens natrually you just have to be patient babe. =D

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hey everyone. so in my opinion, im friends with the "popular" people at school. Like, im in their group and sit with them at lunch. we're bffs lol. now, in your opinions, does this make me popular?? ill rate!!!

I would consider you popular. =)

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when i do my crunches, i get headachs afterwards. whats up with that?

That happenes if you are going way to fast and if you dont put your head all the way down. Just do it a little slower and dont do too many at once. You'll see that its why.

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hey this is the girl about making a cd for my bf. The kind of music he likes is mostly rock, punk rock, alternative, emo......idk stuff like that.

Uhm, I`m not good with songs lol but I just listen to rock and stuff and I dont pay attention if its about love or not but I`ll try.

I`ll just tell you some bands and you can search some of their songs.

Any songs by:

Fall Out Boy
My Chemical Romance
Taking Back Sunday
The Used
Green Day
Head Automatica
The Killers
Senses Fail
All American Rejects
American Hi-Fi
Bowling For Soup
The Click Five
Sugarcult

Those have really good sweet songs! Sorry I didnt give you any inperticular.

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Hey everyone. Well over the summer I started wearing makeup everyday, but my mom said that once I go back to school she doesnt want me to be wearing makeup everyday. Does anyone have any ideas to make myself look prettier besides wearing makeup. And for the guys out there, if im 13/f and wore makeup everyday..what would be your opinions on that? Thanks! I'll rate!

Make up doesn`t make you any prettier, it just makes your beauty stand out. =) Anyways, you don`t have to be wearing a lot. It all depends on what you put on. You can use eyeliner, some eyeshadow, mascara, lip gloss and you would still look very pretty! You can make your hair look different every day. Style is different, wear cute clothes and just pamper yourself! Now, I can`t really answer the guy part but some guys like a very natrual girl. Meaning not too much make up. All guys are different.

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hey for me and my bfs one year anniversary im making him a cd with all love songs on it. What are some good love songs that guys would enjoy listening to too?

I honestlly don`t know because I don`t know what kind of music your boyfriend is into. If you guys have a song then def. put that on the CD. You can also put some of the songs you are into. Sorry I couldn`t help much.

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Hey people i was wondering could everyone tell me what they think of a 15 year old going out with a 13 year old girl?

tell me ur honest opinions please

I don`t find anything wrong with that. It`s only a 2 year age difference and that is def. normal.

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im embarrassed to have an orgasm infront of my boyfriend, any helpg etting over the fear?

Hmm.. getting over that fear might take a while but you just have to get more comftrable with him. A lot of guys find is sexy when girls do have orgasms and such. It might take you some time but you'll get over the fear trust me. Good luck babe!

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How can you make yourself believe? Can you write "I Believe In God" a thousand times on a sheet of paper? Because I've been having trouble believing lately.

You can't just MAKE yourself belive. You can say it as many times or write it down as many times as you want it wont change. It wont make you belive. Beliving in something is in your heart and you just have to figure that out.

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How do you know if you believe in God or if you just think you do?

Okay this is kinda diffucult. You eather belive in God or you dont. This is something you should know in your heart not your mind. Its also not something you have to think really hard about. I`m not really sure how to explain it to you but anyways. It`s also part of your religon. I`m not sure what you are but I`m Catholic and I def. belive in God. You shouldnt use God's name in vein at any time. If you pray at night then thats one of the things that makes you belive in him. There is no reason not to. He is the one who gave everything life and put us on earth.

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13/f- ok well i have a boyfriend and i really like him and he likes me a lot too and we go to the movies all the tym and we cuddle and things like that..lets call him fred..well whenever we are together fred kisses me and stuff but in the movies he acts like he wants to makeout with me but i thinks hes nervous that he will make me upset. i want to makeout with him too but it is kinda awkward..wil he just start making out with me or should i make the first move i dont know! thanks so much!

If you think he is nervous then he probablly is. I think that you should make the first move though because he is afraid to mess up. So just go for it.

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what are some things to do by yourself on summer
hi i am 13 years old and it seems like i never go anywhere with my friends i guess its because they are to young there like 12 but i have a 15 year old sister and she goes like every where with her friends i was wondering if i am just going to stay like this with my friends never going anywhere without there parents

You have plenty of time to grow up and right now stick to the little fun things. Like: movies, mall, bowling, dances things like that. Just talk to some of your friends and ask them to hang out. Rent movies and have sleep overs every Friday or something. Just do whatever you like and enjoy. Play sports together. Good luck!

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Just curious, not being offensive or rude, I was wondering where in the Bible it said that masturbating was a sin? I read your answer, and was automatically curious. I don't do it, but I'm curious. If you know the reference, please share. Thanks. :-)

To tell you the truth I never fully read the bible, BUT I am Catholic and I do go to Church every Sunday. Like I said before I got confirmed the pastor talked to us and told us the sins. He mention masturbating and that it was a sin. If you do masturbate you wont go to hell or anything. It is a normal and healthy thing and its natrual. I still dont see why it is a sin but I just know it is.

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im 13/f and i am a very strong believing catholic. i masterbate once in a while. im wondering if that is a sin. i read in books and stuff that its completley natural but i wanna make sure that its not a catholic sin. please help. i rate high!!

Acually it is a sin. Before I got confirmed, the pastor talked to all of us about these things. It is a sin and it says so in the bible. I dont really see why, although everyone has done it. Well a lot of people have.

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