i was with my friend at the beach in july n somethings happened now my friend n me arent friends while i was down there last night a boy felt my boob n im dating my boyfriend for about 4months n i told him it didnt happen bc he found out by my friend so i lied to him and now i dont know what to do my friend said she has pic to prove it im scared plz help =[
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Monday August 22 2005, 8:15 pm: Ahh, this sucks. Well, honestlly you shouldn't of lied to your boyfriend but it's too late now. I personally think that your friend will not have the picture. Who ever takes pictures of something like that!! Unless you're like a stalker or something.. but I bet that she is just saying that to scare you off and I think it's working. Just tell her alright we'll see who's right and have some confidence in yourself and just make her belive that it didn't happen. If you truely love your boyfriend or just like him a lot, I would tell him what happened. You should just tell him he DID do that but you didn't really want him to and it only lasted for about 2 seconds. Say the only reason you didn't tell him is because you were scared he would break up with you for something you had no control over for that short period of time. You could eather tell him now or just wait and see if your friend "really" has that picture. But, just do what ever you think is the right thing. Everything will be fine babe! Good luck! [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
kaylasays answered Monday August 22 2005, 5:13 pm: hey,
if she does have pictures you're gonna have to own up to what you did, just explain to him that you completely regrt it and you hope he can forgive you because you dont want the relationship to end over one of you're goolish mistakes.. or something like that.. [ kaylasays's advice column | Ask kaylasays A Question ]
AskConnor14 answered Monday August 22 2005, 4:51 pm: Well honestly, you should never have lied about it, you should have said it was unexpected, i didnt ask/want him to he just did and i hope in my heart you can forgive me...but its too late for that, if he's really worth dating he would understand if you still told him that now, but you would have to add stuff about apologizing for lying to him, and that you were scared that he would leave you and you really dont want that to happen
P.S.- making up with your friend would help, that way not only would you be friends again, but she might also consider not showing him the picture
Hope I helped!
~ Connor [ AskConnor14's advice column | Ask AskConnor14 A Question ]
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