I have plenty of clothes but I never can find something to wear. I'm overweight and its hard to look decent without looking weird. It takes me sometimes 2 hours to find something! Does anyone have any ideas?
Well theres aome cute clothes for over weight people too.. i would suggest maybe some regular pants like girls wear but maybe get em in a size bigger so it isnt skin tight on areas you might not want to show..and i would suggest maybe guys shirts.. some girls looks right dressing like a thug girl or a tomboy.. i do sometimes.. but i guess if your not the hip hop type then i dont really know what to suggest.. Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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16/f. I've been really curious about tanning salons. I really want to go to one, but my mom is kind of hesitant to let me do such a thing. Aside from it looking "fake", is it as dangerous as a tan from the sun, or is it less harmless? Also, my arms are tan (I have a "farmers tan") from wearing short sleeves, but I can't wear tank tops, show my stomach or even wear low cut tops (I don't want to wear TOO low cut tops, but right now, everything under my neck line is white...) and I want to get rid of that, so how would I even it out in a tanning bed?
Wear a bathing suit.. a bakini.. or get in it naked..Much Luv..~*DEZ*~
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a couple weeks ago my parents went out of town and me and my sister had the house to ourselve. so we invited some people over. this guy came over and we endin up having sex but he has a gf. i think im startin to like him. what do i do? and do you think his gf should know?
Well hello you probably should of waited til you liked him to have sex with him.. but anyways let him stay with his girl sounds like she not a hoe.. and yes his girl should know and beat the fuck with you.. take out your spine and stomp on it..Much Luv..~*DEZ*~
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uhh... well several day's ago i met a guy, he asked me for my phone number, and we've been texting ever since, i'm really confussed, he seems as if he likes me, and i'm starting to like him too... but i don't want to rush thing's but i want to know if he see's me as just a friend and thats all, or if he wants to actually maybe turn it in to something more... i don't want to straight up ask him because he told me he talks to alot of girl's, so i'm thinking maybe i'm just another friend, but i don't want to be, can anyone give me any advice on something to say/ask him other than asking him straight out??? thanxx.. msbrightsiide
Well if he's like doing a constant thing with texing you.. he probably likes you more then friends..But um i dont know how this guy is or anything but he might do that with alot of girls.. sounds like hun you might need to forget him.. or maybe talk to him in person bout this.. dont be shy..and dont feel stupid.. jus be open with this guy anyways be real with your feelings.. make sure your not wasting your time.. you have to talk to him to find out.. um you could ask him how he likes you.. and if he enjoys talking to you and what not.. and ask him if he's like that with alot of girls.. or are you the only one.. jus ask him.. dont be shy hun.. hope i helped i tryed my best..Much Luv ~*DEZ*~ ThugGirl041790
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My twin and I need help finding something to get our boyfriends for valetines day!! we need HELP!! If you have any Ideas PLease Post Them!! Will Rate HIGH if i like them :) Thanks!
Get like a gift certificate for a store that you know they like.. didnt put enough information so i could help you out more.. ~*DEZ*~
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Hey all! Okay, well there is this boy who I work with. I went out with him for a long time..9 months..and then we broke up. I had felt too tied down and he had really been starting to annoy me. Well I was talking to him a few days ago and he wants to get back together. I really don't want to, but when I tried to tell him that, he didn't take no for an answer. He still thinks I wanna go out again regardless of what I say. What should I do??
Well you cant do anything.. dont go with him if your not interested he'll get the hint..much luv ~*DEZ*~
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What is the difference between a "padded" bra and a "cup" bra?
thanks.
-confused
a padded bra makes you look bigger then what you are.. and a cup bra fits you the way you are and dont make you look bigger.. Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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Ok well i met this guy when i was 13 and know im 15.we met each other at a resort.we talk all the time(internet and phone)the only problem is he lives in Iowa and i live in minnesota. August of 2004 he asked me out. i said yes of course.its really hard though.we live about 7 hours away so its hard for us to see each other, plus we both cant drive yet.I dont know what to do i really like him a lot, so should i stay with him and see what happens or should i dump him and forget all about him??? i'll rate you!thanks for your help.
Well dont forget all about him.. but maybe you should break up with him.. cause long distance relationships dont work.. and you might jus get hurt anyways.. and its jus kinda dumb to be with somebody for so long that lives so far away..Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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13 female.....my boyfriend and i broke up like last december and i still talk to him and we flirt once every now and then were still freinds but i think im starting to like him again, and i wanna go out with him again i just dont kno if he likes me and i dont kno how to find out.
Damn lil mama you only 13.. dont worry bout it enjot being thirteen and having fun.. dont worry bout guys right now.. cause later you'll realize that was a waste of your time.. Much Luv i know i aint answer your question but i was puttin my owrds into what i wantsed to say..~*DEZ*~
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I havent been eating lately, not because im anorexic, im just depressed. My parents think i am anorexic and their really worried. i try to tell them im not but, they dont believe me. What should i do?
Maybe eat anyways.. So they wont think thst.. or make em think that you eat..Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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I have been sexually active for almost 6 months abd I want to be put on the pill. My parents dont know im having sex. I hate using condoms.. so we just make sure he pulls out. I have a few Questions.
A. How much does it cost?
B. How much do they give you at one time?
C. How can I get it without my parents knowing im gettin it? Like a place you can go without parental permission.
Thanks sooo much!
A.Some places free if you go and say your a teenager with out insurance but i pay ten dollars a month cause my mom pays for em..
B.They give you 28 pills at a time..
C.Just find a place and they wont tell your parents..
Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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I'm 16 and in high school. Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up at the beginning of September. I had broken up with him because I wanted to be with someone else. It didn't work between us and I have been single for quite awhile. I really like this guy that I know, but recently me and my ex have been spending alot of time on the phone. I don't like him as a boyfriend anymore cause I like someone else. My ex flirts with me and calls me all the time. I try not to be mean or anything but I don't like him like that anymore. I have a feeling that he might ask me out again. I don't know how to tell him that I like someone else. What should I do? Please help me.
~Confused Chica~
Jus tell him that you only like him as friends.. and thats all you ant with him.. you probably should of told him that from the beginning when he first started talkin to you and callin you everyday..Jus tell him that you like somebody elase and thats all you want is friends.. Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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i went to a club with my friends the other day and we did have alot of fun but my ex was danceing with tons of other girls and i still love him lets just say his name is jake but i love him and i have no clue how to get him back
signed plz get me a clue
Well maybe you should talk to this guy.. But i wouldnt have this type of conversation in a club.. i would on the phone or outside of the club.. jus tell this guy how you feel.. if he's the type of guy that dont seem to care or anything i wouldnt waste my time if i was you.. Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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this is sorta werid. im 15/f and ive been havin some dischage but im not newhere near my period. i know its not a yeast infection but i need to know what to do. help please!!!
Well maybe you should go to the doctor.. atleast thats what i would do..MuchLuv ~*DEZ*~
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ya you know how eyeliners if you turn the top the crayon thing like.. it gets longer.. well ok i wanted to make my longer so when i did it was too long buh when i tried to make it go in again it wouldn't go in and then i broke the tip of it off *wasn't that such a smart thing to do?* so then now the spinny thing on the tip is jammed or something does anyone know how to fix it?
No i dont know how to fix it.. just buy a new one.. and throw that one away..Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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i like this guy but hes taken! Hes gone out with his current gf for a year and 1/2. All theyve done is kiss...not even made out! He told me that he wants more physical things in a realationship like possible making out after a year n 1/2 of dating...then he asked me how far i would go with someone i really cared about...as if he was hinting toward something...I told him i'd go far...I don't want to be the cause of a break up of a realationship that has lasted for such a long time....But i think he may like me....what do i do??
Just see what happens.. dont feel bad bout their relationship getting messed up cause if it does it sounds like its her fault..but since you like him maybe you'll get what you want.. but hopefully things work out okay Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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Tonight I am going roller skating for the girl scouts. One of my friends who lives in my neighborhood is coming with me. So, I asked my mom if she could sleep over. My mom said yes then she paused. She said the only problem was we are going to church tomorrow and my friend's parents don't like her going to church. One night she was going to come over but once her parents found out we were going to church they forbid her. My friend has only been to chhurch 3 times in her life! It's not fair that she can't go the second her parents find out that my family is going to church. She's the same religon as me so why does it matter? So I'm wondering should I still invite her over? What do I do?
You should still invite her over.. Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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OK here's the deal... me and my two best friends, Julie and Jaimee we had this whole lil group thing going and we all put in our whole personality thing into it... so0o we decided ok we'll invite this other girl Kourtney into it... so kourtney she is the more sluttier of all of us and she has her way wit guyz... no offense to her... so0o Julie has been gettin really close wit Kourt and basically she is turning into Kourt.... she never was slutty AT ALL omfg... u have no clue.... but all of a sudden i mean it's like we have another Kourtney on our hands... I have nothing against Kourtney but I mean you can only have one Kourt... I miss the old Julie...the one that I knew... and I have no idea how to get her back....she's basically being a "pimpette" right now... handling two guyz at once... BOTH of which she doesn't even like... the old Julie would never EVER do this... how do I get her to realize that she's turning into Kourtney and how do I get the old Julie back?? thanks in advance...
Tell her she's actin that way.. you cant really get her back if its not something she wants to do.. but talk to her.. ~*DEZ*~
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I have liked this guy forever. I dont really talk to him in person, but I do on AIM all the time, and we fight constantly. The wierd thing is tho, at school, he stares at me all the time. We just got back from a retreat type thing, and there he always sat pretty close to me, like right in front of me. Yesterday, he IMd me saying "Ive changed, im sorry for being mean to you". But then a lil while after that he asked me if i had done this assignment so he could get the answers. Do u think this guy likes me, or just wants to use me for school related stuff?
Sounds like he is using you hun.. but im not real sure cause i dont know how he acts round you.. other then knowing he stares at you.. he might do that to fool you.. much luv..~*DEZ*~
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Justin and I dated for like, 2 months and one week. We broke up because he said I couldn't trust him, he cheated. But he admitted it to my face.
Now, we both like each other again, after being broken up for about a month and still talking and stuff. He called me a couple nights ago just to talk, which he's never done before when we weren't together. He wants me to ask him out this time though, because he asked me out last time.
Should I do it? Or wait for him to? I mean I'm pretty sure he likes me, he's said it and he even purposely got kicked out of class so he could come see me (I got kicked out of class too, lol.)
Um once a cheater always a cheater to me.. you probably deserve better then that.. i think your going to run back to the asshole anyways tho cause thats how girls are.. your not going to listen to anybody on her your going to go back to him.. sounds like you pretty much made your mind up anyways...Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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