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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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okay this is kinda hard, but i REALLY like this guy like ALOT and im not sure if he likes me. i have asked him out in the past but he has said no. im at a loss... i odnt know what to do anymore. i think hes shy around girls and he cares about what other people think too so0o.. i odnt know im just sooo confused. PLEASE HELP ME!
confused and distressed.

He's probably shy around you because he doesn't know you too well. You should start a really strong friendship with him first. Maybe start hanging out with a bunch of friends and him, going to the movies, the mall, etc. Then try to start a relationship with this boy. If it doesn't work out, it's totally okay. You'll find a guy that will be perfect for you, you just have to give it time, I promise.
♥ Krissy

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who was the first guy you got a homerun with?

And you should know this because?
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I have more of a comment then a question right now...I look at this site as a great way to make new friends and to get helpful advice so i can see what im doing wrong in my life and how i can improve it....I love asking questions and getting feedback but what i dont like is opening up answers and seeing rude remarks and dumb comments....Thats really not helpful and in some cases it makes me feel lower then i was before i asked the question...Im sure im not the only one who feels this way but i think this needs to stop...If you think its funny to make fun of peoples personal problems then go make fun of your own because you obviously have them if you feel you can say some of the things that i have seen said to people....Im open for any feedback but please i ask that this comment not be deleted because im trying to get a message out about how i feel and if you delete this then you are just as bad as those who leave rude remarks...Thanks alot...Xo~CaReBeAr~oX

You're totally not the only person who feels this way, a lot of people do, including me. People who are just in this for giggles, shouldn't be on this site at all. If all they want to do is put people down, that's their problem. They're the ones acting like idiots! They're probably just trying to give people rude comments, because they aren't happy with theirselfs. People who call other people down and say rude things and just not worth your time. If you do feel like these people shouldn't be on this site because all they do is give rude advice/comments, you could report them.
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i have been friends with this guy lets call him john. and we have progressivly over a peroid of 8 months began to tlak more and goof around more. he's a very out going type and so am i. on AOL we talk alot and when we get together in public there is talking but not as much on AOL. and i am wondering is he justt alking to me to hummor me or is he intrested? he's kinda of a perverted kinda guy but has that sweet sensitive side to him! hes nice but can be a jerk but what guys can't be? he's been to my house and to all my parties and has offered to keep me company when ever i needed some. i dunno what to do what do u think?
thxs
*me*

You like him right? You need to tell him. Maybe he thinks the same about you. He could think your just talking to him to hummor him too. This could work both ways. Best thing to do is to tell him you got feelings for him and that your interested. Then see were it goes from there. Don't let this chance pass you by.
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 2 months,and he wants to kiss me, but I'm not sure if I should. My mom would freak out, but i really like him. What should I do?

Try explaining to your mom that it's just a kiss and you guys have been going out for 2 months. If she still doesn't allow you to kiss him, do it anyways. He is your boyfriend.
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me and ryan* have been dating for about 6 months now. these past two weeks, it seems like he's been hitting me a lot lately. i mean, half the time we're joking.. but he's been kicking me.. we were walking down the hallway and i said something to him, a joke.. and he kicked me in the back of the leg.. i couldn't walk right the rest of the day.. he kicked my other leg yesterday before algebra ended.. and today, my friend jacki was over and he kicked me in the hip (very bony) so i started to cry and all. is he considered abusive ? what do i do ?

First of all, you shouldn't put up with this. You don't need a guy kicking you and making you cry. This is very abusive and if you don't stop it, he could get even more abusive. I think you need to dump this guy, he doesn't seem too nice if all he does it make you cry. Find someone who will treat you right and won't make you cry. You're worth it!
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Me & my friends played a prank on this girl in my school that was picking on me, and she turned us in. Yesterday, I wasn't in school and the guidance conselor called all my friends down to the office, turns out EVERYONE was sayen I did it, even my best friends. I did do most of it, but not all of it. & I admitted to it. Are they real friends?

No, they aren't real friends. They shouldn't be blaming it on you, when they did it too. I think you should talk to them about it and tell them how you feel. They should have backed you put and said it was all of you guys, not just blaming everything on you. But even though, talk to them about this! Just don't lose your friendship with these girls over something like this.
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I'm going to dye my hair a brownish color, I was wondering if anyone could tell me any cheap but really good brands of dyeing stuff. Thanks

Nice 'n Easy and Loreal are great hair dyes, there also cheap!
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my boyfriend asked me to makeout with him and i dont want to but i dont know the right way to tell him and he keeps asking me what should i say that woudlnt hurt him???

If you don't tell him, he's just going to keep pushing you into makingout with him. So I think it would be best to just come out and tell him. Just say "I'm sorry, but I just don't want to makeout with you". Tell him your not ready, (If that's the case). I'm sure he'll understand. If he likes/loves you, he won't push you into something you don't want to do.
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if you had to give a blowjob to a crossdresser for 2 billion dollars would u?

Yes, you know me. I don't turn down blowjobs.. I mean, money. *Laughs*.
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and heres the final question! have fun n we love you

Thanks guys, that was way too much fun! I love ya's.
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say 5 things tops that you like about us

Jon: I love how you laugh, I love how your always there for me, I love how I can call you at 4am and your there to listen, I love how you sing to me. Jake: I love your nerdy ways, I love how you're always there to catch me when I fall, I love how you call me your baby girl, I love how there's never a weird momemnt when I'm around you. The last one is, I love how you both can always make me laugh, no matter what kind of mood I'm in. You both always have the power to make me smile.
♥ Krissy

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who do you love more then anything?

Duh. You guys.
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if u could be anyone who would you be?

I'd be Eminem, he's so cool. But, I wouldn't want to be a guy. So, probably Mandy Moore; she's a sweetheart!
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if any of our flys were down would u tell us?

Nope. Jon's fly was down a couple of days ago and I didn't tell him till the day was over, since I'm cool like that and all.
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have you ever had an orgasm?

Mmm, yes. Have you? ;)
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Yo Kriso. Its Jake n Jon, were bored so were gunna ask u some questions..ANSWER THEM ALL! we love yoooouuu

Okay guys. This should be very interesting!
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This is an odd situation. Just for a little background info, I have a boyfriend. I've been dating him for over a year. Valentine's day will be 15 months.
Okay, I just got the lead in the school musical, and I have a love interest (duh). My love interest is a guy half the girls in the choir have had a crush on (except me, lol). That isn't really the point, just a bit of background.
My problem is this: We rehearsed, and we ended up practicing a scene in which we kiss. I didn't feel bad about it yesterday, but today I feel like...awkward, and wrong, and like I was cheating on my boyfriend, but it wasn't me that consented to the kiss, it was my character. My boyfriend knows about the scene, but he doesn't know we actually kissed yet. I was gonna talk to him about it today but he didn't come to school.
The thing is, the director thinks stage kisses look fake, and refuses to use fake kisses. So it was real. But I feel soooo bad about it. I shouldn't, because I have no feelings for the guy, but I do.
Any advice for me?

It's totally okay to feel weird and bad about it. It does feel like you'd be cheating on your boyfriend. But just remember, it's only a play and it's not a real kiss with feelings. Just tell your boyfriend that you have to kiss this guy and you have no feelings for him, it's just a simple kiss. Your boyfriends going to understand, don't worry. You've been together for so long so he should trust you!
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Hey, you know that new movie coming out, Hide and Seek? Well, I think it looks awesome!! During the day I'm all psyched and excited to see it, but at night I dont wanna see it anymore. This happens with all horror movies. Help? Should I see it?

Signed,
Psyched and Scared

I think you should see it, have some friends with you though. Maybe by watching it at night it will help you get over your little "fear".
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any one gotta clue where to buy low rise jeans in the mall that arent that expensive like maybe under 25ish? tell me the store and how much they cost, why thanks!

Stitches has a lot of nice jeans along with Old Navy, $15-20. I don't know if you have the stores, Eclips or Jeans Experts but they have great prices on jeans. They range anywheres from $20-25 and $30-40. The less expensive ones are the same as the expensive ones, if not, even better and nicer!
♥ Krissy

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