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being pushed...
my boyfriend asked me to makeout with him and i dont want to but i dont know the right way to tell him and he keeps asking me what should i say that woudlnt hurt him???
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Just tell him you're not ready for tha next level..And if he has a problem with it then he'z obciously not tha right person for you..
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kids these days need i say more...
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Tell him your not ready only do it when you are ready if he loves you so much he should respect your wishes hope i've helped roxie xxx
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Just tell him that you aren't ready to take things further.
If he accepts this hold onto him cos you got a real sweetie.
If he doesn't like it or tries to push you into anythin you aren't comfortable doing then get rid of him.
Whatever you do be careful and have fun!
Mel
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Tell him you're not ready for that next step. And if he keeps pushing, hes a person who will pressure you into everything (including sex) and you won't want to turn him don because he gets all upset and sad and then you feel bad, but you're not ready, so tell him that you need more time, he will get it.
-TheTeenGirl
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Just tell him that your not quite ready. If he waits he a keepr. if not... ditch him, if the guy wants you bad enough he'll wait until you're ready. unless he's one of those that just go out witha grl to makeout and all that...
Good Luck!
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just tell him know. If he is pressuring you then that isnt a real boyfriend. If he respects what you have to say and what you want to do then he is a true good boyfriend but if he is pushing you to do something you dont want to do then dump him-trix
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why don't you say no and that you're not "ready" yet. if he's truly into you, then he'd understand. it can also be a test of how much he likes you.
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i don't understand why you wouldn't make out with him if he's your boyfriend.but have you ever considered that maybe it's because you like someone else? if that's not it, and the only reason you don't want to make out with him is because you feel uncomfortable or some thing, then just tell him that: you don't feel comfortable making out with him right now.he sshould understand. if you just keep on telling him no, he'll think something's wrong or something...you know how guys are. i totally hope i helped!:)
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Why in the world would you NOT want to make out with him?? He's your boyfriend right?? Are you not attracted to him or something? If that's the case and you're just not feeling the same way about him as he is about you (because he's OBVIOUSLY into you if he's constantly trying to make out) then you need to break up and be with someone that you DO want to make out with. It's as simple as that....
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Why arent you makeing out wiht him , he is your boyfried, hell break up wiht you if you dont, just do it stupid. How old are you? 4?
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Communication is very important in a relationship. it's important for you to tell him how and why you feel that you don't want to make out with him. if he cares about you enough he'll understand.
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be like "i don't think i'm ready to yet.." or "i feel like i'm being rushed and i don't think now is the right time" and if he keeps asking you although u don't want to do it.. dump him bc thats dumb! hope i helped =)
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why wont you make out with him, hes your boyfriend. are you six?
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Let your boyfriend know you aren't ready. Just tell him gently that you care about him and think he's great but you just aren't ready for that yet. If he can't handle it, as hard as it may be, go your separate ways. You need to be with someone who respects your boundaries.
A Caution: Be careful not to let him manipulate you. If he tries to tell you that if you really liked him you would show him in a physical way, the red flag is up. This guy isn't interested in you, he's interested in what you have to offer. Tell him he's the one who doesn't care about you and find yourself a boy with "a lil bit o' R-E-S-P-E-C-T" to quote Aretha Franklin.
Good luck!
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Just tell him that you aren't ready. If he doesn't respect that, then he doesn't deserve you. You shouldn't feel pushed in to anything.
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If you don't tell him, he's just going to keep pushing you into makingout with him. So I think it would be best to just come out and tell him. Just say "I'm sorry, but I just don't want to makeout with you". Tell him your not ready, (If that's the case). I'm sure he'll understand. If he likes/loves you, he won't push you into something you don't want to do.
♥ Krissy
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