Member Since: January 25, 2005
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Last Update: January 25, 2005
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my boyfriend asked me to makeout with him and i dont want to but i dont know the right way to tell him and he keeps asking me what should i say that woudlnt hurt him??? (link)
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Why in the world would you NOT want to make out with him?? He's your boyfriend right?? Are you not attracted to him or something? If that's the case and you're just not feeling the same way about him as he is about you (because he's OBVIOUSLY into you if he's constantly trying to make out) then you need to break up and be with someone that you DO want to make out with. It's as simple as that....
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me and ryan* have been dating for about 6 months now. these past two weeks, it seems like he's been hitting me a lot lately. i mean, half the time we're joking.. but he's been kicking me.. we were walking down the hallway and i said something to him, a joke.. and he kicked me in the back of the leg.. i couldn't walk right the rest of the day.. he kicked my other leg yesterday before algebra ended.. and today, my friend jacki was over and he kicked me in the hip (very bony) so i started to cry and all. is he considered abusive ? what do i do ? (link)
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This guy kicking you is obviously a childish way of trying to get attention. It's like when you were in the 2nd grade and the way you show a girl that you like her is by hitting her. It's kinda like "kiddie-flirting". Apparently, this guy is very immature and hasn't outgrown this hitting & kicking stuff. So, no, he's not being abusive....he's just being immature.
Now, if you sense that this kicking is being done of of anger towards you, run. Get away from this person ASAP because that is the start of a physically abusive relationship.
What you should do is simply talk with him and TELL him to stop. Let him know that you don't like what he's doing and if it continues, you're gonna break up with him and that will be that.
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