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me and ryan* have been dating for about 6 months now. these past two weeks, it seems like he's been hitting me a lot lately. i mean, half the time we're joking.. but he's been kicking me.. we were walking down the hallway and i said something to him, a joke.. and he kicked me in the back of the leg.. i couldn't walk right the rest of the day.. he kicked my other leg yesterday before algebra ended.. and today, my friend jacki was over and he kicked me in the hip (very bony) so i started to cry and all. is he considered abusive ? what do i do ?
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I would consider that abuse.. i would tell him to stop it if you dont like it.. because it hurts your feelings to see your own b/f doing that to you... tell him how you feel about him doing it and just explain to him that you dont like to be treated that way and if he doesnt understand then maybe he isnt the one
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you really should leave him because he is abusive!!! it could get serieous! If he says he will kill you if you leave him get tell an adult or a guidence counsiler at school...
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i wouldnt consider that abuse.. it seems like he thinks of you more as a friend.. because thats what guys do around there friends they act like that.. talk to him about it and be like stop and stuff.. i dont know what else to say i hope i helped xOx jiLl
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i wouldnt consider him abusive but i would talk to him and tell him that you dont like being kicked and stuff
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OMFG yea hes abusive .. are u retarted ? if your man loves you he wouldnt do that ! ugh dump him .. i bet u can get some one
way better than that
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Omg u should dump him no person should ever EVER do that to you! You can find somone even better that wont hurt you. I hope it works out.
luv always,~*Missy*~
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Yeah this guy is definately abusive. I would dump him ASAP. I think its a disgrace when a guy hits a girl..especially when they are a couple! Lose the guy, trust me in the long run you will be happy you did because its not going to get better...
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I would talk to him ask him why he is doing it? If he is only messing around then tell him to stop it! If he says it's bevause he enjoys hurting you then tell him to hit the road and don't come back.
Never let anyone hurt you! No matter how much you love them it just isn't worth it.
You can find someone much better who will respect you and your body!
Take care!
Mel
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Talk to him and ask why he's been hitting you latly... if he keeps doing it maybe tell a parent or teacher. If he keeps doing it ditch him hun.
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You need to talk to him and let him know that what he is doing is hurting you. If he continues to do it walk way because you'll know then that he wasn't joking. Never put yourself in a dangerous place where you can get hurt both emotionally and physically.
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I would say he is abusive, talk to him about it first, and if he said it was a joke, ask him to stop. If its not, then you better get away from him as fast as you can, now he might hug you and say he'll never do it again, but it will happen again. So don't give him another chance if that wasn't a joke, but it probably wasn't. But all girls who go through abusive relationships end up getting hurt and giving second chances. Its just like a replay of the first time it happened. So, I suggest you don't plan on him being in your life, I hope you take being abused seriously, because there is no good reason you can give me why he would even lay a hand on you.
-TheTeenGirl
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I think it's time to drop your nigga! you betta let him kno! and when he hits you again "playfully" or not, you betta hit his ass back! and be like "WTF is wrong w/ u??? Hit me again and see if you'll have kids when I'm done w/ you!" juss one kick and I swear He wont hit you anymore!
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I had A friend in which she had a boyfriend who would be playing around and hit her and then he would get mad at her and hit her and at the end say he didnt know what he was thinking and that he was sorry and it would end up getting worse and he would hit her more and more and wouldnt want her hanging out with hre friends or anything and what I told her is that she needs to break up with him befor he ends up really hurting her and if they grew up and got married then he would beat her and beat her kids as well, so if i were you i would leave this guy, hes not worth it, if any guy can hit a girl then they are not worth it at all because a real man wouldnt hit a girl no matter if they were playing or not, one minute its playing then the next its serious, so dump this guy, thats the best thing you can do and just stay away from him. I hope this helps!-Nikki....*Feedback is greatly appreciated*
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no crap it's abusive... i'd ditch him and find one who would apreciate your presence
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This guy kicking you is obviously a childish way of trying to get attention. It's like when you were in the 2nd grade and the way you show a girl that you like her is by hitting her. It's kinda like "kiddie-flirting". Apparently, this guy is very immature and hasn't outgrown this hitting & kicking stuff. So, no, he's not being abusive....he's just being immature.
Now, if you sense that this kicking is being done of of anger towards you, run. Get away from this person ASAP because that is the start of a physically abusive relationship.
What you should do is simply talk with him and TELL him to stop. Let him know that you don't like what he's doing and if it continues, you're gonna break up with him and that will be that.
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tell him this is bullshit that your not gonna put up with. absolutely no guy has the right to physically hurt you. if you've told him to stop and he continues to kick and hurt you, break up with him before things get worse.
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First of all, you shouldn't put up with this. You don't need a guy kicking you and making you cry. This is very abusive and if you don't stop it, he could get even more abusive. I think you need to dump this guy, he doesn't seem too nice if all he does it make you cry. Find someone who will treat you right and won't make you cry. You're worth it!
♥ Krissy
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I dnn't know how old you are or how old he is. The reason I ask is that some of my research in college was on Human Sexuality and we had shown that some of the paraphilias begin at a young age (paraphilia is like different things that bring "sexual" excitement- you know like some people like feet etc.). I'm not going to go into all of that now, don't worry :).
The best thing that I think that you should do is remember what was his response when you started crying. Did he apologize constantly and just hold you and keep apologizing. Did he not take it seriously? The second thing is to tell him that you really don't like being hit all the time, and find out what his response to that is. If he agrees and apologizes- then things should be cool. If he keeps hitting you and seems to like you- then I would say that this is just a bad characteristic that he has that no one should have to put up with it (he could have picked it from a lot of different places). No woman ever deserves to be abused physically or emotionally. You deserve someone who will protect you not hurt you.
Hope things work out for the best.
Yours,
Arun
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Tell him to quit kicking you, Idiot.
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you shouldnt have to put up with that shit if he is gunna hurt you and make you cry then just dump him a.s.a.p its best for you
and remember no man is worth your tears
hope i helped let me know if i did from feedback
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