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Very Angry!
I have more of a comment then a question right now...I look at this site as a great way to make new friends and to get helpful advice so i can see what im doing wrong in my life and how i can improve it....I love asking questions and getting feedback but what i dont like is opening up answers and seeing rude remarks and dumb comments....Thats really not helpful and in some cases it makes me feel lower then i was before i asked the question...Im sure im not the only one who feels this way but i think this needs to stop...If you think its funny to make fun of peoples personal problems then go make fun of your own because you obviously have them if you feel you can say some of the things that i have seen said to people....Im open for any feedback but please i ask that this comment not be deleted because im trying to get a message out about how i feel and if you delete this then you are just as bad as those who leave rude remarks...Thanks alot...Xo~CaReBeAr~oX
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i sooo agree with dixyprincess! i meen we dont go to this webb page to be made fun of because of questions we have and answers we need! whatever to all yall that do. you are just fed up with your own lives and have to screw up other peoples to make yourself feel good! go see a theripist!
HyperMickiHAhe
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I know exacly what you mean and support you 100% on that. I have people saying rude stuuf to me all the time and it makes me feel dub! Isn't this site for help?!? Not to be made fun of. I think that if your going to be immature and leave rude comments then don't even bother . . .
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I know exactly what you mean. When somebody is in need of advice and all they hear in response is, for example, "you're a self centred loser. get a life and stop being stupid" in regards to them asking advice about, say, cutting themselves, it's only going to serve to make the problem worse. I think if people aren't going to take it seriously then they should be banned or something.
carebear, well sed you're absolutely right.
Alex
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I completely agree with you!!!
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The level 2 moderators are going to say this same thing to you... they understand how you feel and they can't get rid of them unless they liek use obscene language or something. I psoted a /comment/ like this about a week ago becuase I fele the same way. They all told me the same thing. They said that since I posted the question the peopel are going to want to do it more b/c they do it for attention. I think however if enough people say this then they can be banned like they should. I'll tell you this before everyoen else... if you have a complaint post it wherever you post the complaints. I guarantee people will tell you the same thing and give you a link to leave your complaint. I fele the same way!!! Good Luck!
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I know it's hard but just rise about it!
For every idiot on this site there are 10 great people, just ignore what the idiots have to say and what ever you do don't correspond with them - you'll only add fuel to their fire!!!
If they have nothing better to do than leave negative replies then just think how crap their lives must be!!
Keep smilin!!
Mel
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Carebear,
I understand what you are talking about. I really like this website because I think that this is a great way for people to ask questions that they may not be able to ask other people directly. I know when I was younger it was hard to talk to my parents, friends, teachers etc about all the issues that I was going through. I'm really impressed with a lot of the people on this website and how intune they are with themselves. There are a lot of issues that young people esp are going through that they aren't very sure what to do- and at least the way that I see it, I can give some advice that may help direct them to things that they may not have been aware of. I really wish that there was a site like this when i was younger.
As for the people who only come on here to ridicule serious problems that people have- its the way that they deal with their own problems. It is a defense mechanism. They probably have a lot of problems too, or they feel like the only way that they can put value on themselves is by degrading other people. These are the kind of people who when they do get older, will learn that you can't degrade people, because it will adversly affec them, and then they switch to another defense mechanism that may include drinking, drugs, and other behaviors that are not acceptable by social standards.
Don't worry about it too much. There are a lot of people here who genuinely care and they outnumber the ones that don't. The people who do ask questions- you should be commended on being so intune with things and not just letting them go.
Best of luck,
Arun
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You're totally not the only person who feels this way, a lot of people do, including me. People who are just in this for giggles, shouldn't be on this site at all. If all they want to do is put people down, that's their problem. They're the ones acting like idiots! They're probably just trying to give people rude comments, because they aren't happy with theirselfs. People who call other people down and say rude things and just not worth your time. If you do feel like these people shouldn't be on this site because all they do is give rude advice/comments, you could report them.
♥ Krissy
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If you start to let those idiots bother you than they are winning the battle. Don't allow yourself to be manipulated by their comments. They are probabaly miserable people who need to bring others down with them. just concentrate on the positive feedback you get back and work on doing what's right for you.
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Yeah, I know EXACTLY what you mean, and the best thing you can do about that is just ignore them, and don't even rate them. They already know they're horrible at advice, and I think the only way to get the losers off is to just not even rate them. Like you never saw it, and about feeling low about it, just know that that person is going to walk through life with more problems, and then they even might try to get advice and then they'll get rude comments, and they might even feel low. But giving them a rate and a reply just lets them know you saw it and you're hurt. But theres not much you can do except say at the end of each question "I don't rate losers who give kindergarten intellegence answers, like rude comments" something along those lines. And they might back off, but otherwise, just don't even listen to them, they obviously have nothing better to do than make fun of people, meaning they rpobably have not much of a life. Some of them just like to be funny, but they'll learn omeday its not funny to very many of us. I hope I helped.
-TheTeenGirl
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