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Hi guys! :] I'm Lauren. I'm 15 years old. I've been through a lot in my life, so I can always relate to your problems. I love giving advice to people. :] So please ask away.Peace and love |♥♥

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I have a friend and he is thinking of suicide..I try talk him out of it,but he won't listen. He has problems in school,family life,relationship problems. I don't want him leaving me. We have been best friends so long!
HELP!

This is serious stuff & i know you think you can only keep it to yourself but you cant. you need to tell your parents & then they can tell his parents. He should get into therepy. I hope i helped. & good luck. much luhhv, Lauren

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Hi. Iam 15 and i have a lump on my boob. I just noticed it today.. I'm pretty sure it just appeared today. I don't know what it could be. I mean, girls my age don't usually get breast cancer. I know it's possible, but i guess it could also be beningn. My mom told me that she had a benign lump about 12 years ago. Hm, maybe it's that? I haven't told her about it, though.
Please help, what do you think it is? What should i do?
thanks

♥ Tell your mom about it && go see a doctor. I'm not really sure what it could be, but to be safe take my advice. G00D LUCK ! X0X0 ♥ Lauren

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i love Cumbers. i eat them all the time. my friend said if i eat them all the time as i do i can get cancer is that true? im scared now

N0T TRUE !
♥ Lauren

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well me and my friend went to this concert, and then we met up with some other friends..and one of them i happen to like..so we sat next to each other..and he was all cuddly toward me..and my friend said he was acting like he liked me..so we started talking after the concert through email..and he said mabye we should hang out sometime..i want to tell him how much i like him..but im just not sure if he likes me..i dont know how to take it to the next step...help please..

I would hang out with him & see how it goes. then ask one of his friends..but tell them not to tell him you asked because you dont want to sound desperate. If he happens to like you which i think he goes =) tell him how you feel and he will probobly tell you how he feels! Maybe you two can go out! hope i helped! ♥ lauren

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Okay well My problem is I like someone that is about 3 yrs older and i dunno what to do about this cuz my b-day is soon so i will be 16 and he is 18 now so this makes me only 15 and i heard it's jailbate, so should i still date him? I really like him a lot and he treats me so good...
~confused lover~

Hey! I think you still should go out with him. If you guys love and care about eachother, then why not? I dont think 3 years is that bad. But if things seem awkward then maybe you should stay friends. G00D LUCK ! ♥ Lauren

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is it true that lice is attracted to clean heads?

thanks

♥ yup. i know its weird. Lol. hope i helped.

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i like this guy
names dakoda choate hes 1 grade higher than me
i cant stop thinkin about him
he is so sweet to me
he flirts nonstop
he acts like he likes me
i asked him out
and he said: i really can't right now but i promise you i will get there i just have alot on my mind right now
so ok
i wait............ my friend asks him if he likes me not and he says:
look i like girls my age ok?
does that mean he only dates his age
he doesnt like me, he moved away from me, he just wants to be friends,


i think im gonna cry
what do i do about this?!

ya. theres nothing really that you can do =/ i would try talking to him about it but dont sound to desperate. If he doesnt do anything i would just move on. maybe he will change his mind. guys do that. hope i helped! xoxo
♥ Lauren

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ok so i have acne and i've tried some stuff but its not working.. its not that bad but still i'd like for it 2 b gone.. so wat do i do?

♥ I would go to the dermatologist. I know your acne doesnt sound bad but you should still go. I also would use stridex pads because those seem to work & i think htey are normally for people who dont have that much acne. Hope i helped!
♥ Lauren

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hi im a 13 year old 5"2 or 5"3 girl and i weight 125. Am i overweight?

nope. your fine babe. dont worry aboout it. im pretty sure your about average. xoxo ♥

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well i was wondering is all the drama from laguna beach actually real.... cause it seems to perfect ... like if it was palanned 2 be true

♥ YA. IT IS ACTUALLY REAL. I TOTALLY AGREE THOUGH IT DOES SEEM SO PERFECT ! UHH THEY'RE ALL SO LUCKY ! L0VEALWAYS, LaurenXOXO

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there is a song and its like " I CANT MAKE IT ON MY OWN," repeat i cant make it on my own. and its like two guys playing guitars. so can you guys tell me what its called and who its by??

thanks in advance!!

♥ HEY ! THE S0NG IS "OHIO IS FOR L0VERS" BY: HAWTHORNE HEIGHTS ( H0PE I SPELLED IT RIGHT ) H0OPE I HELPED ! X0X0 Love, LAUREN

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Ok I have this PIT feeling inside of me--I think that Britney and Justin should totally get back together..I know that some of you may not be their biggest fan, but please don't reply to this unless you want a negative rating. I think that they BELONG together..and this feeling is really bothering me..I hope that in the future they will get back together...I don't know why I'm feeling this way but it seems like it's meant to be. Now, I know I have no right to decide who should be together since I don't know what really went on in their relationship...but If they're not together, it seems like everything isn't right. I love Britney Spears..she's an inspiration to me...and Justin is just amazing also. I'm soo sorry if this is long but I just need to get it out. Don't you think they belong together?? This feeling in me is really strong..

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i broke up wit my exgirl a couple months ago but i cant stand bein away from her i want her back i feel like i cant live wit out her wut should i do?

AW. YOU SHOULD GET BACK TOGETHER WITH HER. ASK HER BACK OUT AND TELL HER EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER ! & HOPEFULLY she'll say yes! ♥ LOVE, LAUREN

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Why are boys so... i dont even know what word to use.. i mean they tell you they love you just to get in your pants! and they are sooo confusing, they bring so much pain but i still want them! ... grrr, am i making any sense? all i truley want is this...
i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything.
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
who calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with me and remember each one.
a boy who notices girl's haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesn't send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.

who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.

who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dad's handand look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me i'm beautiful.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who tells me i have a nice laugh,
and a smile that lights up the room.
a boy who's simply mine to hold."
that is exactly what i want!
why cant i get that?

ME TOO GIRLFRIEND ! ME TOO ! I WANT THAT S00 BAD. BUT UNFORTUNATLY GUYS ARE INMATURE & THEY ARE WELL STUPID RIGHT NOW! IT DEPENDS ON HOW OLD YOU ARE. IM 14 & THATS BASICalLY HOW THE GUYS ARE->PERVERTED, DISCUSTING & INMATURE. WHEN THE BOYS MATURE WE MAY BE ABLE TO FIND SOME THAT ARE THOSE THINGS. & THEY ARE ACUTALLY SOME OUT THERE THAT ARE LIKE THAT ! HOPE I HELPEd!!! XOXO

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I have a boyfriend but it is extremely hard to spend time with him since I am so busy in the summer, and have to spend time with family. I feel like we are growing apart from each other. Should I break up with him, or stay together?

STAY WITH HIM A LITTLE LONGER ! THEN IF YOU GUYS DRIFT APART EVEN MORE..THEN DUMP HIM =/ XOXO G00D LUCk!!

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i got clean & clear advantage acne spot treatment but i am a little confused on how to use it? HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!! i need to kno so when school comes around i will be free of it!

signed,
confused

♥ TAKE A LITTLE AMM0UNT 0F IT & PUT IT ON Y0UR FINGER & DAB SMALL AMM0UNTS ON Y0UR PIMPLES ! THATS BASICALLY IT. TRY N0T T0 USE A L0T ! Y0U D0NT WANNA DRY Y0UR FACE 0UT ! H0Pe I HELPED ! XOXO LOVE, lAUREN

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Who thinks that this site should be for helping people, not senslessly being jerks? Say I.

♥ i

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sometimes my face would get like really oily, and I'm starting highschool in september, and I really want to get rid of the oil. what can I use or do to get rid of excess oil for a long period of time, or atleast long enough to get me through 7-8 hours of school

Make sure you wash your face two times a day. & theres these wipes that you put on your face & they absorb all the oil. & they're not messy they're just littleclear paper lookin things & they wont wipe off your makeup or anything & you can just put them in your purse ! they're really convient. you can get some from victorias secret at the makeup section or at the store ! hope i helped!

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whats the best coverup.. like the coverup to cover your pimples..?

I WOULD USE CONCEALER TO COVER UP SPOTS. THEN AS A BASE USE MAC ! IF THATS TOO EXPENSVE THEN USE TRU BLEND! IT COVERS UP YOUR PIMPED AND ITS LIGHT ON YOUR FACE SO YOU DONT EVEN FEEL LIKE YOUR WEARING MAKEUP!! HOPE I HELPED ! xoxo

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Ok I want to get my hair like kristen's on laguna beach..like how its styled..but what should I tell the person that does my hair?? Like not everyone watches laguna beach and im not gonna just be like yea i want it like kristen's..so what should i tell them?

thanks so much
steph

AH ! HER HAIR IS S000 CUTE. SH0W Y0UR HAIR STYLIST A PICTURE 0F HER....JUST BE LIKE..I WANT IT LIKE THIS. LOL..& THEY SHOULD BE ABLE T0 DO IT ! AW Y0UR G0NNA LOOK CUTE! XoXo

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