There's this boy that i've liked since about 5th grade his name is Brian. I'm in 9th now btw. He's liked me since 2nd. We've been sorta close, but me & my boyfriend of like 2 months broke up. It wasn't serious AT ALL. But, I really like Brian. If I dated him, would it look bad? I mean me n my bf just broke up like a week ago. please help
no not at all. every one would of noticed that you and your ex boyfriend werent serious. i dont see the harm in going out with brian. infact i say go for it all the way hun. good luck.
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lets say u have a boyfriend but some one asks you to dance with them at a dance .. do u ?
thanks !
sure, why not? when he comes over to yu and asks you to dance, glance at your boyfriend and wait for him to give a signal that it is ok. or ask if he minds. if he doesnt want you to or acts jealous about it, then he is insecure about your relationship. it is only a dance. there wouldnt be any harm.
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hey guys. before i begin i must say that all you guys are really great at giving advice. mucho props. okay now my problem. i have this friend chris and i think i did a really bad thing. i flirted with him wayy to much today. it was really bad. good for me but i dunno. it seemed like he was haveing problems. i dont know what my dealio is but i really didnt mean to do it. so my question is what should i do to like i dunno go back to the way things were before i was freaking him out. thanks you all!!!
talk to him about it. just tell him that it was just a sort of "in the moment thing". let him know you didnt mean anything by it and that you had no intentions of freaking him out. and alos that you didnt even know why you did it, but rather that you just did. i'm sure he'll get over it and it will all blow over. no big.
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hey
i just need to kno how to strike up conversations with guyz once the conversation gets goin im fine if anyone has any ideas plz let me
p.s. no conversation starts with clothes my skool has uniforms it sux!! oh umm age is 13 and im a chick
ummm... you could ask about plans over the weekend. about how school life is going. what they like to do in spare time. i dunno. these arent the best ideas in the world, but hey, atleast it is something to go by. good luck. hope these work. and have fun.
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what would you do if you thought your best friend liked your boyfriend? I talked to my boyfriend about it and my friend knows, but i can't tell my best friend how i feel about everything. help pleaz
if she is your best friend then you should be able to talk to her about this without having any worries. just let her know whats on your mind. if your feeling really awkward, tehn tell her that. talking to her is prolly the best way to handle this. she is your BEST FRIEND so she will understand. if she is true to you, then everything will work out ok.
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when you give a hand job are you supossed to stand? or lay down..like how exactly are the guy and girl positioned? thanks.
usually both are sitting. some standing. you could do it anyway you feel comfortable doing it.
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Boys like the fact of girls being virgins right?
it all depends on the guy. some guys like virgins so they can be their first. some guys like a girl with some experience. but all in all to guys, sex is sex, so most guys dont really care as long as they are getting a piece of ass.
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OK. See me and my b/f have been going out for a little over three months...everytime i see him all we really do is make out. i mean he has gone up my shirt, but he hasnt tried to go any farther than that. im starting to get tired of the same old thing everytime i see him. why wont he go farther with me? another thing is... i want him to finger me and i know he wants to because he told my friend he wanted to but he never has, and he told her this when we had only been dating a month. if he does finger me tho im scared that he wont like it because i have hair... down there... should i shave it? what do guys perfer? does it really matter? plz answer ill rate sincerely confused
you should talk to him about everything. if you want him to go further, let him know how far you are comfortable with and see how far he is comfortable going. he might not want to go further because he is not sure how you feel about all of it. this shows that he respects you. guys do prefer it shaved, but its not necessary. it is really all up to you. if you are ok and are comfortable shving it, then go for it, but if not, then you dont have to. i think your boyfriend would appreciate it a little more if you did, though. so the choice is yours.
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I don't know what to do for my friends 13th birthday(dont worry im 14) any ideas? she wants me to throw her one
well first you should let her parnets in on this little party. gather some friends and pick a place to throw the party. maybe someones house, rent a hall, a park(weather permitting), a few freidns to a restaraunt for a dinner... Talk it over with some parents to decide the best place. then determine how big of a party it is going to be. the amount of people, how much supplies are going to be needed, etc, etc. also, you will want to figure out exactly how you are going to plan on getting her to arrive at the party, wherever it may be, and what to do with her to get her away from all of it so she doesnt know about it. once you figure out those key things, throwing the party will be a piece of cake. once you figure these things out let me know if ya need any more help with anything.
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Is anyone willing to talk to me about the odyssey on AIM? or msn?
i would and all but i never realy got the point of that story. i sorta just quit trying to follow all of it. so sorry.
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Hello. Im asking advice today for a stupid little problem i have, but im not sure if there is any way i could control it. If im in school, or with my friends, or whatever (by the way im 14), when they mention "mom" or "dad", or "family", my eyes start to water and i just about cry. Not the "WAA-WAA" kind, it is just the red face, tears coming down and stuff, no squeaking or any of that crazy stuff. I cant say anything about parents or anything. When i talk about my family when someone asks, my voice gets shaky and i choke, and it makes me very uncomfortable because crying in front of the class isnt really a fun interest. I cry because my family has...problems. I just feel like i want either them or me to die. I feel like i hate them so much. Its not some "im mad at them because they took away my cell phone" kind of thing. Its more of a love issue. Im seeing a therapist but that is not working, she's not changing them. Well, in a nutshell, whenever someone talks about their parents, and when i talk about mine, i cry. Umm, i hope someone can help me with this, if its possible. Thank you.
well when they are talking about parents and whne they ask about yours instead of thinking the usual things about them, try and remember one of the good days you have had with them and describe them from that particular day. try not to see all of the bad ties. try and remember some of the good ones. trust me no one has a perfect family. everyone goes through some bad times. hopefully in your case things will all get better sometime.
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A few days ago i spent the night @ my friends house and she has a bro so he always has friends over too! and my friends mom said that my friend (13/f) is not aloud to have friends over when her bro does cuz were getting older and everything, and my parents feel the same way! the thing is that i like going over there when her bro has friends over cuz it's fun and stuff! HELP! i rate high!
well you cant exactly get them to change their minds. you're just gonna have to except that. maybe try getting together and hanging out at a different place. or sleep over one of the other friends houses. i'm sure that atleast one of their parents will allow their kid to be around kids of different genders and not have such a big fuss about it. but if not try going to like the mall or the movies together or something like tat. sorry this wasnt much help. i was never in the situation. i was allowed to be around guys when i was younger. so i hope this helps.
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There is this guy I like that he knows I like him.Today he was near me during the first 2 class periods and every time we look at each other we either smile or do small talk.I really like him and he sweet and so smart.Well today when we were going off to 7th period he was beside me and said "you want me to ask you something?" And i was like No then i went to class and I've been thinking bout it all days.I'm just wondering if he likes me then how can I approach him or what can I say?PLZ help and thank you!!!
well just approach him tomorrow and be like hey whats up and all that small talk. and then say so what was on your mind yesterday. what did you think i was gonna say to you and what made you think i wanted to ask you a question then? di you want me to ask you a certain question or something? see what he says. then ask him if he'd like to hang out one day, just the two of you. see how that goes and take it from there.
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ok so i was best friends with my neighbor steve from first grade until about sixth when he moved to a different neighborhood. during his move and after, we kind of grew apart and now i want to ask him to this big dance my school is throwing in may and i want to be his friend again because he's moving back into my neighborhood. i never see him in school and we're both in the eighth grade. how can i start talking to him again and get to know him enough again by late in may? please help me!
send him a white a carnation. in your note give him your number and tell him to call you so you can talk to him. find out where some of his classes are, so that you can meet up with him and talk to him. maybe make plans to do soemthing over a weekend or something. or just see if he is even interested in being freinds again.. and if he is moving back into your neighborhood, cant you talk to him then?
hope it all goes well. good luck and have fun.
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Hey i know this guy and hes like always talking about how hes never been kissed and asks about it to people and im always there. We used to be best friends until a fight but now we are becomeing friends again... i used to like him a lot while we were best friends. I want to kiss him soooo bad cuz he keeps on complaining bout not being kissed yet but i know he'll think Ewww if i do and i mean im only 13 so i dunno. I just always want to kiss him wen i see him.
well one day when your not around a whole bunch of people or it is just you to, ten just go for it. kiss him. dint ask him if you can kiss him. i dont get the big deal.. its only a kiss. its not like you are going to do anything wrong. he wants to be kissed so kiss him.
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i'm forteen and i have never really had as serious boyfrined. Is there something special to look for in a guy? How do i know if hes the right one??? help please
girls look for different qualities in a guy. some go for looks andothers go for personality. personality play a much bigger role in it though. you want a boyfriend who likes you for you. thats the most important thing. and trust me, your not going to find "the right one". you are 14. you are not going to end up spending the rest of your life with your first boyfriend. you have a shit load of time in your life to find the person you will spnd you life with. but you shouldnt be looking right now. you should be out there exploring all your options in life. you just need to get a boy that you like, and who lkes you back and hook up. your not going to find anything serious the first day you are together. it takes time to get really involved with each other and to have a serious relationship. it isnt something that just happens. so stop worrying so much about finding the "Right One.". just get out there and date around.
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ive been going out with my boyfriend for a long time. he never pressures me or disrespects me. but the other day in the movies he started touching my boobs which is really unlike him. then apologized throughout the whole movie for doing it. we went out to dinner and i flipped out on him and he started CRYING. this morning at school he decorated my locker saying "im so sorry i love you" with hearts all over it. i found out that he stayed up all night making it. he was crying all day in school, and he wrote me a long apology letter. everyone says im overreacting. should i get back with him because i really want to...
you should forgive him and get back with him. he seems like he is really sorry. i mean not too many guys will sit there and cry infront of someone over a girl. and not to many would decorate a locker with hearts and "i love you" and "i'm sorry" signs. he seems like he is such a sweetie with you. so give it another try and if he pulls anything else that you are uncomfortable with then tell him that its over. let him know that f he pulls shit like that again that it will end for good. that way he knows that you were being serious when you said you were uncomfortable with him and that he knows that if he wants to keep you then he wont do anything like that to ya.
but i think you over reacted a little this time.
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i tried out for a PLAY AND I GOT A BAD PART WITH LIKE 1 WORD AND MY FRIEND GOT THE BEST PART AND SHES BRAGGING ABOUT IT WHAT DO I DO?
well tell her that you are glad that she got the part and that she deserves it and be would be great for the roll and all but that you wuld just prefer if she quit braggin about it, because people find that bragging is very annoying. and just be happy for her. if she fits the part, then she deserves it. and alos, you should offer to help her learn her lines and all. good luck with the play!
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OK, my family is getting rid of AOL, which has my aol e-mail account. Through that account, I have my AIM screenname. I don't want to lose that screenname, because everyone knows it and it will be a hassle. How can I keep the AIM screenname even though I am deleting the corresponding e-mail account?
go to aim.com or aol.com and download AOL Instant Messenger. And then put your current screen name in when you register as a new user. it is easy and only takes about 15-20 depending on how slow or ffast your computer is. if it is slow, then it may take a while longer, it if it a pretty decent running computer, then it wont take long at all to do this.
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I have a boyfriend, and we kiss and make out, but he never says he loves me and he never really payz attention to me when we are wit his friends. On weekends he sayz we can hang out, but then sometimes he ditchez me. Does he really love me or is he using me?
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All these little kids answering your question dont know what they are talking about. Granted, I don't know how he really feels about you. But...
Just because he doesn't say that he loves you, doesnt mean that he doesnt like you or doesnt care for you. Why do all of you guys think that it is some unwritten rule to automatically say i love you right off the bat to each other. Well guess what, its not true. Love is a word that gets thrown around alot and people say it and they dont mean it. Maybe he wants to mean he loves you when he says "I Love You".
And maybe he is just trying to act cool around his friends in fear that theywill make fun of him or something. i dont know. only he knows why is all different around his friends. he may not admit it but there is a reason to it and he knows it. well maybe sometimes things happen to come up and he has to cancel. once again, there is no written rule saying you have to spend all of your time together. if you spent all your time together and not got the chance to miss each other, then you would never know how you really feel about each other. a relationship doesnt have to be the two of you spending every waking minute together and thats not what it should be. just chill out for a while and see how things go. if he doesnt care about then, he will break up with you. if he was using you, i am sure he can find someone else to use. did you every think that if he didnt care about you and you were just using him that he would want to find someone who would do more then just kiss or makeout. well trust me, there are prolly soem girl out there in your surrounding environment who would do more then kissing. if he wanted to use someone, he would be using one of them. so just dont worry about it and dont get your hopes up either. just go with it. you will be fine. if it doesnt work out then it wasnt meant to be. "there are plenty of other fish in the sea.". you will find the right guy for you. give it time. your young, you have the rest of your life. dont rush your life away. live you life the way it was meant to be.
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