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I have a boyfriend, and we kiss and make out, but he never says he loves me and he never really payz attention to me when we are wit his friends. On weekends he sayz we can hang out, but then sometimes he ditchez me. Does he really love me or is he using me?
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I think he is using you.. I mean, if he doesn't pay attention to you, and has never SAID he loved you, why would you have any indication that he did.. maybe you should ask him if he really feels that way.. because maybe he thinks that not the relationship you two have.
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i think he is just using u i know u dont wanna hear it but if he loves you he would stop his entire world to be with you hope i helped >brookie<
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All these little kids answering your question dont know what they are talking about. Granted, I don't know how he really feels about you. But...
Just because he doesn't say that he loves you, doesnt mean that he doesnt like you or doesnt care for you. Why do all of you guys think that it is some unwritten rule to automatically say i love you right off the bat to each other. Well guess what, its not true. Love is a word that gets thrown around alot and people say it and they dont mean it. Maybe he wants to mean he loves you when he says "I Love You".
And maybe he is just trying to act cool around his friends in fear that theywill make fun of him or something. i dont know. only he knows why is all different around his friends. he may not admit it but there is a reason to it and he knows it. well maybe sometimes things happen to come up and he has to cancel. once again, there is no written rule saying you have to spend all of your time together. if you spent all your time together and not got the chance to miss each other, then you would never know how you really feel about each other. a relationship doesnt have to be the two of you spending every waking minute together and thats not what it should be. just chill out for a while and see how things go. if he doesnt care about then, he will break up with you. if he was using you, i am sure he can find someone else to use. did you every think that if he didnt care about you and you were just using him that he would want to find someone who would do more then just kiss or makeout. well trust me, there are prolly soem girl out there in your surrounding environment who would do more then kissing. if he wanted to use someone, he would be using one of them. so just dont worry about it and dont get your hopes up either. just go with it. you will be fine. if it doesnt work out then it wasnt meant to be. "there are plenty of other fish in the sea.". you will find the right guy for you. give it time. your young, you have the rest of your life. dont rush your life away. live you life the way it was meant to be.
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Well, since he's never said he loves you then he probably doesn't, but that doesn't mean he doesn't like you. I wouldn't really say he's using him, but ask him why he ditches you and why he doesn't pay attention to you when he's with his friends. I don't think it's too big of a deal, so don't make it into a lot of drama. If it's really bothering you though, might as well see what he has to say.
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He might not love you. But hes not using you. Sometimes things come up, and he rather hang out with his friends. or in front of his friends he want to look "cool" and not be all over you when people are watching. if it realy bothers you, ask him about it.
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He may love you and he may not. It's hard to tell how someone feels when they aren't open. He may very well love you, but he most certainly doesn't appreciate you.
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