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Yesterday me and my friend were play fighting and i think he accidentally hit my thumb the wrong way and it hurt very badly. now i can still bend it but it hurts when i do (not THAT much though). could it possibly be sprained or did i just bruise it? (link)
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Yeah that has happened to me once. Not to long ago either. You may have sprained it or bruised it, it could be either. Just put ice on it or wrap it up. That would probably be the best idea.
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14 F and I was wondering.. what are some activities I can do outside of school.
I cant do a sport in school,because its just complicated but I cant. So what are some things i can do with my life besides being a boring person. Things like modeling, karate, and stuff like that. I really need to find something. (link)
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Well it depends where you live. Like I use to be in karate and I loved it but then we couldn't afford it anymore. So it depends on money too.
So karate is an option.
Dance? Like if there is somewhere around you where they have dance classes that would work.
Well you were saying you can't do sports in school? They have places where you can do sports outside of school.
Thats as much as I can think of. Sorry but I hope this helped.
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I am down and out.I havelost almosteverything that mattered to me in life and now I found out that i am sick very sick.
I have decieded that it would be better for everyone if i end my life
.I know all the reasons not to but the pain in both my body and mind are unbearable.
SO i need to know if there will be any help from the government for my exwife and sons when i do this.Please just tell me if there is someone for her to contact to help them thru this.
Thank you for any help (link)
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You family needs you. Don't do this to yourself. It won't be better for your family. Your kids need someone to guide them. You cannot do this to them and to yourself. Even to your wife. Or ex wife if thats what your saying. But you can't do this. Your kids need you and they need their dad. Work through this but please don't kill yourself. Please!
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I've always been the girl who is friends with the guys. JUST friends. And I need help on what I should do to flirt with them. I've had bfs before, but I can be kind of quiet. What can I do? (link)
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I am the same way. I can be kinda quiet and stuff too. So you just need to get the courage and put yourself out there. But don't lead a bunch of guys on, that can lead to a whole lot of trouble. So I hope everything works out for you.
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How do I forget about someone I'm so crazy about? There's no hope of getting back what I had in the past and my only choice right now is to move on. But I need help on how to do that. (link)
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Its really hard, we all have been there or is going to someday. So I think you should talk to other people. You might end up liking one that you never thought you would. So you can't like someone else if you don't know anyone else right? So I say talk and meet new people and then something great might happen. I hope everything works out for you.
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how can i make up my mind?
like i had dream about one of the guys i like but it was totally erotic and well he is my freind's boyfriend. there is another one who i think i just want to make him happy and then leave bc he is a big manwhore. omg i sound like big slut. and well i went out with this guy but i broke up with him bc he moved so fast. and well he invited me to the island for spring break but idk does that mean he wants to start talking to me again? and well another guy who has a girlfriend and wants to join cheerleading and i told him ill help and he said okay. gasp i need help how do i tell myself he has a girlfriend so i cant intervine.
HELP ME (link)
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Ok yeah its really tough to make up your mind but lets get this one straight. Your friends boyfriend, off limits. She is your friend so you got to respect the boundaries. Manwhore one doesn't sound very good so I don't think that would be a good choice. The one you broke up with might be a better choice well because he sounds like he might want to get back together or he wants to be friends and start talking again. And lets see once again this guy who has a girlfriend wouldn't be a good choice. Well because he has a girlfriend. I wouldn't want to be the girlfriend in this case if he was flirting around with other girls. So bad idea. You just need to get it straight to your head that he does have a girlfriend and if you were his girlfriend and he went around with other girls would you like it? So I hope everything goes well for you.
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ok i told you guys about my boyfriends ex who totally hates me. well i tried to tell her to back off but she wont. even my boyfriend tried to tell her to back off and she still wont. this is what she said to me on msn: look bitch i dont care what you tell alex 2 tell me but you have something that is mine and until you dont give it back im not going 2 live you guys a lone...you have my man and he is NEVER GOING 2 B your MAN OK.... cause he is mine bitch...so im going 2 beg you please go along with Kyle and leave Alex alone so everybody could b happy...i go out with alex and u go out with your little nobody hahaha...: yeah so now you see what im dealing with. can you tell me ways to get her off my case???? i feel as if i dont take care of this soon ill loose my bf. p.s shes a model and shes kinda cocky so yeah (link)
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Ooh. Thats tough. Its going to be hard to make her stop in this situation. I would just try and say something to her to make her realize she needs to get over him and let him go. I'm serious that girl needs a life inside of wasting all of her time trying to get your boyfriend back when he is yours. He obviously like you so he is going out with you. Tell her that he is going out with you because he wants to and he likes you and he obviously likes you. So I hope everything goes well.
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hi,
i am dating this guy for about a week know
and me and him are erfect for each other at least that is want EVERYONE saids
but before me and him went out we were the bestest friends ever.....
but now when i am with him a i am so happy
and i like him alot
but
then when he lives or i have to go
i get realy sad and just wish i was his best friend again, and want to break up
but then a hour later i am soo happy to be with him
and i would do anyting for him
idk but i keep getting these mix feelings
and i have know idea to make them stop
can someone plz help me or tell me want to do!?!?!?!
thanks!
softballbabe2610 (link)
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Just wait things will fall in place. Almost everyone has mixed feelings. Like when you are with him you are really happy and when he is not there you are sad. Yes, we have all been through that. Just give it some time and things will fall in place. So I hope everything goes well for you.
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14/f
alright well i have a guy friend and well i like him alot...and i had it bad for another guy before that really messed me up when he broke it off...but i'm over him...way over :}. but yea well my "friend" acts like he really really likes me...but people in my classes were starting to " carry it on about us liking eachther"...well now he wonders off alot i mean like doesnt act like i'm there..and i think its my fault and heres the story...
we were sitting in class and this girl sent me a note saying it was from the guy i like..it said this is "the guys name" and it said "will you go out with me" but i knew it wasnt from him but from the girl trying to prove that i did like him ALOT. but yeah well she started to ask why i said no and i said because he's a nice guy and he's my friend...and i said that i didnt believe that he really asked that because i knew his hand writing..then all that week and so on his sister said that he "loved me" well i cna tell when she is making stuff up and she was...but it really hurts me to pretend..and another time he was walking me to 7th period and when we saw my friend who is a guy..he said "hey theres your next boyfriend"(the guy that i like said that) and that was like the 10 time he said that for awhile and i said "hey news flash he's not the guy i like!!!" then he smiled and walked away. but i really like him...should i wait until the next chance i have to say i like him...should i tell his sister that i do...or should i just say it the next time my whole class asks if i like him... please help...i know it just sounds like some teen crush...they always do...but i know how i feel.if i dated him i know it wouldnt ruin our friendship...it just couldnt (link)
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Ok in my opinion I don't think you should tell someone in your class that asks. And if you tell his sister you never know what could happen. So I don't think that one would be a good idea either. I think you should tell him personally. Then he may or may not tell you how he feels. But if you know it won't ruin your friendship then I think it wouldn't be very bad. So good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
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I'm really in love with this guy and we've been exclusive for 2 years now.We're both 19 and in our first semester in college. We used to be known as the "perfect couple" but now he's turned into a controlling jerk. He orders me around and tells me he's the boss- he's bipolar though so I've gotten used to the verbal abuse as long as he apologizes for the outbursts. He just told me that he lied about his past relationships, and although I'm hurt, he did tell me the truth and I forgave him. He's also into the name calling- Ugly, fat, stupid, dumbass... and he's just told me that I'm just not attractive to him anymore. I haven't really changed the way I look in the past two years. Is this just a lame excuse? He also has been emailing girls from a personals website just for fun he says. I really love and care about him, and I know he loves me too- we've talked about marriage several times and he's always the one to bring it up. I know he's immature and irresponsible, any clues how can I give him a boost? Please help, I want to save our relationship! (link)
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Well I think you either need to have a talk with him about this. If he is acting like a jerk and orders you around he isn't worth your time. I know you love him and he may love you too but think about it you really don't know what he is doing emailing other girls and why would he want to do that for "fun". Ok I'm not saying he is like that but he is calling peoples names and he is saying your not attractive anymore. You need to break up with him. I know it would be very hard but you either need to break up with him or talk to him. And if you choose to talk to him and he doesn't change, he isn't worth any of your time. So good luck and I hope everything works out.
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Ok, I have gotten replies to my other question and they seem positive. Before I ask her to be my girlfriend, I would need to confirm it to not embarrass myself. Ok. Whenever I look at her, she has a smile. She co-operates very well. We have never had a fight. She bumps into me and she leaned on my back once for 4 seconds. What do you think? Or is there any way of confirming it myself in school? (link)
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I think you should go for it. It sounds like she likes you. So good luck and she probably will say yes. Have fun!
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hello,
i am 14 years old.
okay, well my boyfriend broke up with me because he liked my best friend, but she does not like him. she likes my ex boyfriends best friend. but now my ex is being really mean to me and my best friend. he is saying things that are not that nice. what should i do?
-Strawberry (link)
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Two words. Ignore him. He is acting like a jerk by saying mean things to you guys. Your best friend does not like him and he is taking it the wrong way. Well acting the wrong way. Just ignore him and move on. I hope everything works out for you.
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I am 13, I am in 6th grade, so here is the question: If a girl bumps into me, and stays touching me, does that mean she likes you? We were walking into class, and she bumped into me and kept touching me until we got into the class room. Our shoulders/upper arms were touching each other until we got into the class room. Also, if a girl bumps into me often, does that mean she likes me? (link)
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It sounds like she is flirting with you. And she may be bumping into you on purpose to get your attention. But I would say if she wasn't leaning on you and kept touching you, she might not have done it on purpose. But thats not the case so in my opinion I think she might have a thing for you.
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14/F
has anyone ever liked 2 guys at the same time?
Its a killer.
Anyways ill get to the story
Lets call one guy Jon, jon is my best friend, and we do everything together....were best freunds! We went out once, and after that i liked him for a really long time, even after he dumped me...i still have feelings for him today.
Then theres Paul.
Paul is extremely sweet and we went out for about a week once before, we said i love you and suff, and i really meant it. I had to dump him becuase JOn wanted me to. He never told me why,, he just said that paul wasnt a good person....then wen jon asked me out a second time (after i dumped him) begging for a second chance, keep in mind i still liked him, i said ok. Jon got furious, and these kids are best frends, so i said "If pauls your best friend, how come you wont let himm date who he wants".....then jon admitted to liking me. I said if you like me so much why did you dump me the first time. He said it was because he never gets to see me, but now that were best friends we wont have that problem anymore. But hes in 8th grade, and im in 9th, and hes going to come to the same HS as me, so he wants to wait until then to go out. Mean time, i still like paul too! I have no idea what to do and im massively confused. Paul ... i think i lovr paul. Jon.....him too. I dont know what to do....please...please help me. (link)
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Ok you need to think about this. You can't have two boyfriends, well you can but that wouldn't be very good. Anyways, you need to sit down and think about it. Who do you really like? You can't keep bouncing back and forth with those guys. Sooner or later those guys will get tired of chasing after a girl who can't make up her mind. So all I'm saying is think about it. I hope everything works out for you.
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My friends do the exact same thing every single day its so annoying.
I need new friends, they tell me to shuttup all the time, and theyre nice and all, but so preidctable it just gets boring, im the only spice to our group. Now i have other friends...but itll be weird if i just waltz right up to them and their friends you know? But i dont just want these people, i want friends from all over the place!
how do i do that without seeming desperate and without throwing my current friends in the dust? (link)
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Yeah I think you should introduce yourself to other people. But when you start hanging out with them more than your old friends, don't totally forget about them or else it will seem like you are throwing yourself in the dust. So when you see them say hi but keep your new friends because your current friends aren't being the nicest people around. But pick a nice new group of friends that seem nice. I hope everything goes well for you.
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okay. my little sister needs something to do online she really doesnt know how to find things and all she knows how to do is sign on. I cant find anything thing good. Can someone help. Also my older sister found dressupgames.com and we need something new. Any help is grateful. :] (link)
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www.neopets.com, Or search for pet games. My little friend always plays on those kinda things. So I hope this helped a little.
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16/f
Ok well my problem is kinda weird, but anyways...
You see I REALLY like this guy and well last semester he was in my science class and well I kinda got his msn and we were talking over that and well we kinda had a fight (long story), but then this semester he was in my drama class and he was acting as if the fight never happend so then things were good again and I started to like him again, but now I actually think I like him even more than I did before!
Except the problem is that he got expelled so now he's going to a different school and well I still really like him. I miss him SO much! And I think I'm the only one who misses him because everyone else either thinks it's funny that he got expelled or they just don't care...
But this is very hard for me because I just don't know what to do! And I really like him!
I can't even deal with this! Like all I can think about is him! It's crazy!
So any advice would be great! Thanks! :) (link)
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Well in my opinion you should try and forget about him. Mainly because you won't see him anymore. If you do, like if he lives by you then thats fine and something might come out with that. You have his msn so you can still talk to him. But I think you should keep it as friends at that point. Unless you actually get to see him. Plus there are tons of guys out there and if you introduce yourself to them then you might find yourself falling for one of them. I hope everything works out for you.
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ok so ive known this guy named mike for about two years now. When we met we constantly flirted ect. and became really good friends. I thought things were going great but was devastated when i noticed after a while he got a girl friend. I didnt care he had a girlfriend because i know we both connected and cared for eachother so i acted as if she didnt exsist. He would constantly invite me places but my mom wouldnt let me go so i lead him on and never showed up. =/ I didnt want to tell him it was because of my mom i didnt go. After some time i guess he got fed up. We slowly stopped talking. I recently im'ed him and said i missed talking to him. which i really do. Before i signed off i told him that i wish he wouldnt be a stranger anymore. The next day i im'ed him but he didnt respond, same follows for the day after that. I know i havent been the nice one in this situation but i really really want to be friends with him like i used too. Idk what to do. I would like to know why he doesnt answer is it maybe because he fears i want more than a friendship and he cant cuz he has a girl. I mean i just want to be friends and i want to get that across to him. =/ (link)
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Well I can't tell for sure what this guy is thinking but he might be thinking that you do want more than a friendship or he thinks every time he invites you to go somewhere that you never show up. So I think you need to get it to him that you couldn't come because your mom didn't let you. I know you don't want to tell him that your mom wouldn't let you go but you have to get it to him some way that he will understand and don't make up lies, he probably will find out. And if he never replies then just stop trying to IM him. He is either a jerk who is forgetting about his friends or he thinking all of those other things. But that might not be true, there are tons of other things that might be going on. But show him you don't want to be more than friends and you just want to be friends. I hope everything works out for you.
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how can i loose 10 pounds before may.
thanks.
im not really dedicated. but im talking like ANY way to loose 10 pounds in two months.
its more like i mainly want to get toned but, yeah. (link)
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Exercise. Try not to eat a lot of junk food and do push ups and sit ups. And go outside, ride your bike, sports or something like that. Eat lots of veggies and drink lots of water too. I hope everything works out for you.
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i've developed stronger than friends feelings for this guy i like. i know you hear this A LOT. i asked him recently to check this restaurant out w/me,and he asked if i've asked anyone else amongst our group of friends,i said i hadn't and he said okay that's better anyway.so i left it up to him to set the date to meet,and we had dinner on saturday night.the thing is,we hung out from 7pm to 3 am!and there never was an awkward moment,we were so comfortable in each other's presence,i didn't even feel time pass until my parents called haha,so then he hugs me and we part ways.oh yeah and by the end of the night(or should i say early morning)i was secure enough to ask of his past relationships:he's only had 1,and that was 3 years ago.he called a few days later to make sure i didn't get in trouble,but he never said he had a good time we should hang out again.it's been 3 weeks and no sign.he hasn't called or mentioned another get together.but i thought he had a lot of fun,if not then why would he extend our dinner till 3 am?!if he was tired w/me he could have cut it short.there's a few more details,such as little favors and paying full attn.to me when i'm in the room,but i don't understand, is he interested?i've never been in a relationship before,so for me to initiate all this so far felt bold,and any advice would be great!thank you so much for taking the time to read,i'm sorry it's long lol. (link)
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I think he is interested in you and it sounded like he had a great time. He might be shy to say anything but maybe you should talk to him more and I don't know if your shy or not but you can bring up in the conversation that you had a fun time at the restaurant. And he should say something back. So I hope everything works out for you.
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