how can i make up my mind?
like i had dream about one of the guys i like but it was totally erotic and well he is my freind's boyfriend. there is another one who i think i just want to make him happy and then leave bc he is a big manwhore. omg i sound like big slut. and well i went out with this guy but i broke up with him bc he moved so fast. and well he invited me to the island for spring break but idk does that mean he wants to start talking to me again? and well another guy who has a girlfriend and wants to join cheerleading and i told him ill help and he said okay. gasp i need help how do i tell myself he has a girlfriend so i cant intervine.
HELP ME
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kiran answered Saturday March 8 2008, 3:14 pm: Ok yeah its really tough to make up your mind but lets get this one straight. Your friends boyfriend, off limits. She is your friend so you got to respect the boundaries. Manwhore one doesn't sound very good so I don't think that would be a good choice. The one you broke up with might be a better choice well because he sounds like he might want to get back together or he wants to be friends and start talking again. And lets see once again this guy who has a girlfriend wouldn't be a good choice. Well because he has a girlfriend. I wouldn't want to be the girlfriend in this case if he was flirting around with other girls. So bad idea. You just need to get it straight to your head that he does have a girlfriend and if you were his girlfriend and he went around with other girls would you like it? So I hope everything goes well for you. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
correspondance answered Saturday March 8 2008, 2:03 pm: well the one who is dating your friend, off limits! sucks but you gotta respect the boundaries, yanno? the manwhore one, doesn't seem like he would be a good person to be dedicated to.
It's not slutty to have a thing for even a trillion guys at once, sometimes us chicks are just attracted to all different types of people.
the one you went out with/broke up with, sounds like he either wants to be good friends or possibly wants to get back together. maybe over vacation with him, you both can discuss this possibility.
the last guy who has a girlfriend already; again, off limits. If your boyfriend flirted around with other chicks, that would be sketchy and i dont think you would like it very much yourself. but sounds like he's interested in you. maybe not necessarily to go out with but to be friends. But who knows! [ correspondance's advice column | Ask correspondance A Question ]
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