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My boyfriend's just changed
I'm really in love with this guy and we've been exclusive for 2 years now.We're both 19 and in our first semester in college. We used to be known as the "perfect couple" but now he's turned into a controlling jerk. He orders me around and tells me he's the boss- he's bipolar though so I've gotten used to the verbal abuse as long as he apologizes for the outbursts. He just told me that he lied about his past relationships, and although I'm hurt, he did tell me the truth and I forgave him. He's also into the name calling- Ugly, fat, stupid, dumbass... and he's just told me that I'm just not attractive to him anymore. I haven't really changed the way I look in the past two years. Is this just a lame excuse? He also has been emailing girls from a personals website just for fun he says. I really love and care about him, and I know he loves me too- we've talked about marriage several times and he's always the one to bring it up. I know he's immature and irresponsible, any clues how can I give him a boost? Please help, I want to save our relationship!
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Well I think you either need to have a talk with him about this. If he is acting like a jerk and orders you around he isn't worth your time. I know you love him and he may love you too but think about it you really don't know what he is doing emailing other girls and why would he want to do that for "fun". Ok I'm not saying he is like that but he is calling peoples names and he is saying your not attractive anymore. You need to break up with him. I know it would be very hard but you either need to break up with him or talk to him. And if you choose to talk to him and he doesn't change, he isn't worth any of your time. So good luck and I hope everything works out.
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