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i like 2 guys
14/F
has anyone ever liked 2 guys at the same time?
Its a killer.
Anyways ill get to the story
Lets call one guy Jon, jon is my best friend, and we do everything together....were best freunds! We went out once, and after that i liked him for a really long time, even after he dumped me...i still have feelings for him today.
Then theres Paul.
Paul is extremely sweet and we went out for about a week once before, we said i love you and suff, and i really meant it. I had to dump him becuase JOn wanted me to. He never told me why,, he just said that paul wasnt a good person....then wen jon asked me out a second time (after i dumped him) begging for a second chance, keep in mind i still liked him, i said ok. Jon got furious, and these kids are best frends, so i said "If pauls your best friend, how come you wont let himm date who he wants".....then jon admitted to liking me. I said if you like me so much why did you dump me the first time. He said it was because he never gets to see me, but now that were best friends we wont have that problem anymore. But hes in 8th grade, and im in 9th, and hes going to come to the same HS as me, so he wants to wait until then to go out. Mean time, i still like paul too! I have no idea what to do and im massively confused. Paul ... i think i lovr paul. Jon.....him too. I dont know what to do....please...please help me.
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Ok you need to think about this. You can't have two boyfriends, well you can but that wouldn't be very good. Anyways, you need to sit down and think about it. Who do you really like? You can't keep bouncing back and forth with those guys. Sooner or later those guys will get tired of chasing after a girl who can't make up her mind. So all I'm saying is think about it. I hope everything works out for you.
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before dating either again, and making the situation even sticker, you need to think about who you truly want, now and later on down the road. don't have one of those stupid relationships that only last a month because you only like how "hot" he is. i'm not saying you're that type of person, i'm just saying avoid that. really think about your decision. i really hope this helps, i'm sorry but i can't just pick a name and tell you thats the best choice, only you know for sure.
good luck :D
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