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friends?
ok so ive known this guy named mike for about two years now. When we met we constantly flirted ect. and became really good friends. I thought things were going great but was devastated when i noticed after a while he got a girl friend. I didnt care he had a girlfriend because i know we both connected and cared for eachother so i acted as if she didnt exsist. He would constantly invite me places but my mom wouldnt let me go so i lead him on and never showed up. =/ I didnt want to tell him it was because of my mom i didnt go. After some time i guess he got fed up. We slowly stopped talking. I recently im'ed him and said i missed talking to him. which i really do. Before i signed off i told him that i wish he wouldnt be a stranger anymore. The next day i im'ed him but he didnt respond, same follows for the day after that. I know i havent been the nice one in this situation but i really really want to be friends with him like i used too. Idk what to do. I would like to know why he doesnt answer is it maybe because he fears i want more than a friendship and he cant cuz he has a girl. I mean i just want to be friends and i want to get that across to him. =/
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You should definitely tell him the truth, because at least then there's a chance that you two could be friends again, whereas if you don't he won't talk to you.
He may have gotten involved with another girl because he thought that you were leading him on by not showing up to the places you told him you would.
Even if he doesn't want to be your boyfriend, at least he can be your friend once you tell him the reasons you never came around...and maybe it'll lead to more once the friendship starts again without the confusion.
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Well I can't tell for sure what this guy is thinking but he might be thinking that you do want more than a friendship or he thinks every time he invites you to go somewhere that you never show up. So I think you need to get it to him that you couldn't come because your mom didn't let you. I know you don't want to tell him that your mom wouldn't let you go but you have to get it to him some way that he will understand and don't make up lies, he probably will find out. And if he never replies then just stop trying to IM him. He is either a jerk who is forgetting about his friends or he thinking all of those other things. But that might not be true, there are tons of other things that might be going on. But show him you don't want to be more than friends and you just want to be friends. I hope everything works out for you.
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