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very confused...what is he doing?
i've developed stronger than friends feelings for this guy i like. i know you hear this A LOT. i asked him recently to check this restaurant out w/me,and he asked if i've asked anyone else amongst our group of friends,i said i hadn't and he said okay that's better anyway.so i left it up to him to set the date to meet,and we had dinner on saturday night.the thing is,we hung out from 7pm to 3 am!and there never was an awkward moment,we were so comfortable in each other's presence,i didn't even feel time pass until my parents called haha,so then he hugs me and we part ways.oh yeah and by the end of the night(or should i say early morning)i was secure enough to ask of his past relationships:he's only had 1,and that was 3 years ago.he called a few days later to make sure i didn't get in trouble,but he never said he had a good time we should hang out again.it's been 3 weeks and no sign.he hasn't called or mentioned another get together.but i thought he had a lot of fun,if not then why would he extend our dinner till 3 am?!if he was tired w/me he could have cut it short.there's a few more details,such as little favors and paying full attn.to me when i'm in the room,but i don't understand, is he interested?i've never been in a relationship before,so for me to initiate all this so far felt bold,and any advice would be great!thank you so much for taking the time to read,i'm sorry it's long lol.
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I think he is interested in you and it sounded like he had a great time. He might be shy to say anything but maybe you should talk to him more and I don't know if your shy or not but you can bring up in the conversation that you had a fun time at the restaurant. And he should say something back. So I hope everything works out for you.
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I think he is in a very hard place right now. it seems to me like he is interrested in you but he dont know how to go about the problem. im guessing the relationship he was in before was deep and when he go out he was a little hurt. just give him time dont rush the issuse. from what you said i know he had a great time with you and no he is not bored with you. he might be kinda shy about what he wants to do. he dont know if he wants to move foward or not yet so just give him time. if to much time go by you should ask him these questions. i know you might be a little shy on the subject but trust he will want to talk as much as you want to.
good luck hope i helped
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