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HeY well i'm 13 and a female... i have a big problem and i dont know what to do about it. The problem is that i used to have two best friends, Allison and Roxy, and we were really close but one of us always got left out. We used to go to school together but then Roxy left so Allison and I got closer. Now we all go to the same school which we thought was going to be the best thing! But actually i kind of didnt want Roxy to come back and there's actually other people who agree with me. I got into a huge fight with Roxy and i wasnt talking to her but since my other Allison was talking to her so i stopped talking to her too. Now i'm getting along with Roxy but shes now not getting along with my Allison. I really want to stay best friends with Allison but not with Roxy. Roxy always gets mad at me when i talk to Allison. Roxy likes to be bossy and control people. She likes to be the center of attention. I'm alot more closer to Allison and at times wish to stop being friends with Roxy...but theres a catch. Roxy is my cousin. Right now both my family and Roxy's family are going through something really hard and we need to stick together so i dont want to get into a fight with her and stop being friends with her because our families will split. Now i have to hang out with Allison in secret and talk to her only on the phone after school in fear that Roxy will find out and get mad at me and our families will split. I'm sick of being scared of her well more like what her actions will cause. I'm not ashamed of hanging with Allison but i always hide the fact that I do...I need advice please please please...i dont know what to do...and right now my family is going through a divorce and i really dont need this! PLEASE help me.
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you should tell roxy that your still hanging out with allison and that shes your friend too. shes gonna have to accept that. tell them they dont have to like each other or hang out with each other but you want to be friends with both of them. explain to them you dont want them mad at you right now (especially roxy) but to please just accept her being both of their friends!
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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hey girl i made a christmas holiday rap for yall..here it is...
just hear those cool christmas bells ring
go under the tree looking for that *bling,bling*
open your presents be so glad
you wanted presents, you wanted them bad,
you looked under the tree you saw them there,
you where goin crazy you needed them bad
and i cant think of anything else to ryme..lol
HAPPY HOLIDAYS
~~your friend Holly~
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heyy! haha cool rap...
'twas the night before christmas...
and all through the house..
not a creature was sturring.. not even a mouse...
HAVE A MERRY CHRISTMAS!
your ister ~
~~StEf~~
p.s. i gotta give you your gift next time i see ya!!
pce girl!!
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iz ther a certain wayy to makeout? like how DO you makeout?! someone said to bit they guys lip or like stick their tongue ACTUALLY down their throt? im sooooooooo stuuuck! (link)
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lol um the thing about biting the guys lip i dunno about that but yeah most of the time you do stick your tounge down the guys throat. it really comes natural.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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ok, i am in 6th grade and all my friens have already made out with a guy (well most of them.) i have a boyfriend and we were going to makeout but i chickened out because i have never done it before. this has happened before and i really wannt to learn. how do you make out? i rate 5 for all attempts! (link)
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i thought the same thing before i made out with someone but i never chickened out. it comes naturally and theres no such thing as being a bad kisser. just try and you'll see how easy it is.
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~
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i have a serious problem.......there 3 guys who like me ......i like them all equally but there might be something more to all three of our friendships......i just don't know....please help me ...i'll rate!!!!! (link)
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well only you can decide which one you like more, what do you exspect? do you want someone to say well i think you should go with the second guy. think about that. but try to hang around all of them seperatly and see which one you enjoy being with the most. then YOU can make YOUR decision.
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~
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hey this is for guys mostly but if girls want to answer ok. so anyways im going out with this guy we have been dating for 2 weeks and i really need 2 buy him a christmas gift but he wont tell me what he wants. guys when u say that what does it mean. and any gift ideas would be soooo great. thanks. (link)
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i think a good gift for a guy you've been going out with is boxers. its sexy and guys love it!
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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Do you neciserrily have to think a guy is cute to like them? Like can you be attracted to just there personality and still have a crush on them? (link)
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you dont have to think he's cute or anything. i personally think you should base your decisoion on who you like on their personallity anyway and if you think their cute, hot ext then thats a bonus!
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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me and my best friend (hes a guy) went out b4...but now we are best friends. but i think i still like him...but im not sure. and i dont think he likes me but it always seems like hes flirting w/ me but it could be cuz we r friends...im confused please help. (link)
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well if you ask me the dating your best friend thing never works. ive never seen it work - ever. but if you think it will for you then i would talk to him - he is your best friend so you can talk to him about anything right? talk to him about it, tell him you like him and you want to go out - you like him as more than your best friend. see what he says.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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Okay so my boyfriend was fingering me and like he saw that there was blood on his finger [not much just kinda around the bed of his nail] I thought maybe I had started my period but just a few minutes I went to the bathroom and I didn't. But it kinda burned and there was like brown stuff [like discharge]. What is wrong? (link)
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he probably popped your cherry, thats all. the itching should go away soon. yea its possible.
~~StEf~~
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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 14 going on 15 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" i've know him sience i was 2 1/2 and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've haven't talked to them about it they kinda listen in my phone conversations with one of my good friends, have you ever got fingered or done it to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate! (link)
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well i dont think its up to your parents to decide, if i were you i would still go behind they're backs and do what you want. im not one to share sex stories with people so i cant help you there but i think you should do what you want to with him, your parents dont have to know.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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Someone told me that dieting wont help you lose weight. IF i eat a salad for lunch everyday, will i lose weight? OR do i have to do other stuff too? (link)
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well it would be unhealthy to just eat salad all the time but you would slowly lose weight, if you do other stufff like excercise then you'll lose more weight faster.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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Me and my boyfriend of a year had sex not too long ago, and we didn't use protection. He said he didn't cum or even pre-cum but I don't think he is a hundred percent sure. Is there a possibility I could be pregnant? What are the signs of being pregnant? I really don't want to be pregnant I am only thirteen! Where are good places to get protection. Oh, and we didn't have sex for long! It only last a minute because we were really worried! (link)
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just go to the pharmacy for protection, you should get a pregnancy test even though you didnt have sex for very long you could still be pregnant. im 13 too and i'd be very scared if i were in your position. i wish you luck. dont ever have sex unprotected again!
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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Okay so here's the deal. There is this guy at school who i have liked for a little while..So today i talked to him for the first time in a while and he was pretty quiet and so was I. He told a friend of mine he would ask me out if he got to know me better. My first question is..since we are both pretty shy is there a chance of this happening, secondly what could I talk to him about because i get nervous..thanks :-) (link)
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just dont asct shy around him and he probably wont act shy around you. start a conversation about something happening at school about a test or a project, maybe a dance coming up or some type of event. then he may become more talkitive around you if you stop acting so shy.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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How mych money do u get paid for babysitting a couple of littel kids for about 3-5 hours?
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about $5 per hour i would say. maybe a little more than that.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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how do u get tested fo a sti?im worried (link)
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go see a gynecologist!!
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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My boyfriend and I are over. He broke up with me and I thought I was okay and didn't still feel for him but I do. He broke up with me because we weren't right for each other but I still love him. I need him more than anything and I can't get over him, don't tell me just to forget it and move on because I can't. (link)
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talk to him and see if maybe he feels the same way, maybe you have a chance of going out again. ask him how he feels and tell him you know that you are right for each other and you think that you should go out again, things might just work out for you.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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Okay.. well there's this girl at school.. and she told EVERYONE i have herpes and that i masterbated in front of everyone and that my boyfriend is only going out with me because i pay for his weed and alcohol *WHICH ISNT TRUE* HE PAYS FOR ME! And NON of this is true.. she is saying all of this stuff because MY boyfriend was her best friends X boyfriend.. and like my bfs X hasn't said ONE word to me about me and my bf going out.. it's just her best friend is sticking her nose into my business and this should be between me and courtney *his ex* The funny thing is.. is that.. my bf.. has been in love with me for like ever.. and we dated before him and courtney got together but i STOPPED talking to him for multiple reasons *mainly all because of me* but like.. he didn't even ask courtney out.. his friend asked her out for him.. and he didn't wanna say like.. no i didn't want him to ask you out.. because that would of hurt her feelings.. so.. he NEVER EVER called her and they only went out for two weeks.. but they never spoke once throughout this whole two weeks.. well.. one night i spent the night with him.. and i didn't even sleep in the same bedroom as him.. i slept out in the living room with his mom watching movies all night.. *my family knows his whole family* and my mom KNEW i stayed there.. so then those 2 girls automatically ASSUME that i slept with him.. and HES A VIRGIN! ugh.. i hate school drama.. well yeah.. i have no clue what to do.. this is the stupidest situation in the world *i think* but it's not cool of those two girls to start rumors about me just because i got my man back! Dumb whores!!! *sorry this was really long lol* (link)
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well you need to tell them off, those bitches! if i were you i would take care of them right away. if telling them off makes them not stop or just get worse then i would start spreading rumors about them, the war is on whores! its time they get a taste of their own medicine.
hope this helped, and destroy them!
~~StEf~~
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So I've been preparing fish a lot lately...but haven't ever had to thaw it. Now I've got to thaw it...and I can't remember the best way to do it. Sound silly? It is. I won't use the microwave...because I just wont. I know my mom usually thaws chicken in a tub of luke-warm water...but does that work effectively with fish? So how should I thaw this thing? Thanks. (link)
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the warm or hott water thing works just fine!!
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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I really like this boy and he says that he really likes me, however he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to hurt her by dumping her. He is always with me and he tells me that he cares and wants to be with me, but I don't want to get hurt. It hurts me enough to know that he has a girlfriend, I have never loved like this before. Everytime he kisses me I seem to melt. I want him so badly, but what about his gf. he is afraid and so am I? (link)
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tell him that he can either break up with her and go out with you or you'll wait for him. what your doing is not right for you, him, or his girlfriend. don't do it. thats the only right thing to do.
hope i helped
~~StEf~~
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well I've known this boy for the last 3 years he is one of my best friends.I really like him and once we went out to grab a bite.and after he's father was dropping me off my friend walked me to the door.we kissed.then the next few weeks he avoided me.I saw him again and I told him to wait up and he kissed.and he ran off i didn't see him after that.what should I do give him a call or something? (link)
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call him or talk to him, if you like him as more than a friend. if you just want to be friends then tell him that but if more then ask him out!
hope everything works out for ya!
~~StEf~~
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