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Q: will drinking a lot of water help you lose weight?

I really doubt it. But if you excercise you will loose alot of weight. But the one thing I've learned is that if you exercise to loose weight, you have to do it every night for a while for it to work. Just keep it up and you will be cool. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. Please rate!

Q: Hmm do you think guys are more attracted to girls with Straight hair or Curly ??

guys are more atracted to girls that are natural. I know because when I just act or dress or do anything natural, I can always tell that they like it, they always stair. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. Please rate!

Q: my mom and dad jsut spilt up and my bro lives wit my dad and i live wit my mom iu didnt realy get a chance to pick who i want to go with and i want to go with my dad but then my mom wil be alone and the readon i want to go to live with my dad is caus emy mom has a b/f and we go out and they alwayz kissin and hguing and caling each other baby its so anoying and i dont like going out wit them but its ether that or my granma house and omg its so boring there and nuting to do so i want to move in wit my dad but i feel bad for my mom watshould i do?

Talk to your mom about it. If she knows that you are bothered by it, she might try to talk to her bf and maybe they will stop being so sicko. If it doesn't improve and you still want to move in with your dad, call him and ask him if it is okay. Your mom won't be alone any more if she is with her bf, and make sure that she realizes that it isn't anything personal. She should understand. I hope I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. Please rate!

Q: my parents are so over protective. im 13 and they wont even let me jog aroung my block or go to the mall with a friend it gets on my nerves cause my dad always bring up these stories of about these 25 yr olds who get kidnapped raped and killed i told him to sign me up 4 self defense if hes so paranoied but he just gets mad he wont listen. Please help @ this rate i will be a prisoner without freedom and locked away in a tower at age 45.

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My parents are the same way. All you have to do is set them down and ask them if you can proove that you are older and that you can take care of yourself. my dad was a little help because he would always let me cross the street to get some food at the store or something, and eventually my mom figured out that I had grown up and was responsible. tell them that you will go with someone if it makes them more comfortible. other than that, I think that it will just take time for them to reallize that you won't always be a kid. And try not to bring up that you will be out the house soon, it will just make it worse. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. Please rate!

Q: will walking or jogging cause us to loose your butt or just lift and tone it?

sort of both. but you have to do it every day. and if you want to make your butt tighter, I would go for a bike ride. And you can make fun out of it by asking some friends to go with you. It would probably be best if you didn't go alone. but other than that, I think that you would have alot of fun. I hope I helped. Remember that my inbox is always open.

Q: I'm a hugeeeeeee tomboy. I always wear t-shirts and long shorts, my hair is always pulled back, and i dont wear makeup. I mean, im not fat, just bulky and muscular. I dont wanna change any of this. But i've never had a boyfriend, and maybe its cus i act too much like a guy. I really want a boyfriend, but i dont wanna change. What type of guy would i go good with? WHAT SHOOD I DO!!!

Don't worry about it. If you don't have a boyfriend it is because they are too shy. Lots of boys like it when girls like what they like. The only thing that you need to do is talk to someone. the only way that you are going to make firends is by talking and acting interested. In one way boys are just like girls, they like it when girls like what they like. Just remember, if the boys don't like for the way you are, don't bother with them. Don't ever change your appearance for someone else. The worst mistake you could ever make is to change your appearance for the sake of someone else. Only change if it is for you, and I don't mean so the boys will like you, I mean for "YOU". I hope that I helped,and remember that my inbox is always open.

Q: hey , well this guy has told alot of people he liked me but was scared & he was afraid that he got on my nerves too much that thats why he hasnt already asked me 2 be his girl friend what should i do ? plz help if u can thx 4 tryin !

Just walk up to him and start talking. If you like him than you can tell him, he will go crazy. Most boys take a while to ask a girl out but if the girl does it first then the boy knows that the girl has feelings for him and then the should get to know eachother. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. Please rate.

Q: 14/f
I am the same girl that asked what to say to my friend who's dad just kiled himself...thank you for the advice! His mom told him and he is angry at everyone...he is taking it REALLY badly! I will be there for him always, and he knows that....We aren't GrEaT friends now, but me and his mom still are! Things have been really bad and this is a HORRIBLE situation, but i just wanted to tell you thanks and that all of your advice really helped me out!

Hopefully my advise helped, and thank you for thanking me! Okay, that sounded pathetic. Well, I know that he will want to be friends still. With a friend like you he will definately come back. Just ask his mom to tell him that you will always be there for him. I hope that you are friends again. if you have anymore questions, my inbox is always open.

Q: Hey guys, i like to read a lot, and i've read many famous books like To kill a mocking bird, Catcher in the Rye, Harry potter, and so on. Anyways does anyone know any really really good books, and authors for when i go to the library next time? And i dont want books that you have heard sound good, but actual books you guys have read and really enjoyed, like an "i never want to put it down" kinda book if that makes sense. Thanks luv ya!

There is this one that I just read that was really good. It was called "The Great Chase", and I liked it because it was about a kid that had problems just like I have problems. Now it is about a boy that goes to church, but judge it because of that, I don't go to church, and I loved it. I hope that you take my advise and read that book. Hope you like it, and please rate. And my inbox is always open.

Q: Heyy! I rate high! I was jus wondering if any one will give me any tips to giving good advice!Please and thanks!

Hi! here is some advise. answer the person's question as if you were the person asking it. make sure that you don't answer it mean because you wouldn't like it if you got a mean answer. and make sure you don't just talk about yuorself. they want to know an answer. you say something like "that happened to me to." but nothing more than that. I hope I helped. Oh, and always add things like "My inbox is always open", and "Please rate" and there you go!

Q: Me and my friend stole some clothes from my cousin and we put the clothes in our bags but didnt take them out of the house. Well they found out that we stole the clothes and my mom and my cousins mom got in a huge fight and now my mom wants to call the police on my cousins mom because she was cursing at us. So will we get in trouble for stealing the clothes even though we gave them back?

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You know that you did something wrong and I think that since it was only your cousin, and you didn't even take them out of the house that you might get in a little bit of trouble but it will only be because you didn't ask. but other than that I don't think so.

Q: what is the quickest/fastest way to get rid of a pimple?

There is a fast way to get rid of a pimpple and keep it gone. You wash your ace every mornig and at night if you really want to keep them gone you can do it in the middle of the day also, then you get one of those alcahol pads and only wipe it on the places you have pimples. I do it everyday, and I'm pimple free. But you have to do it every day or it won't work. Hope I helped! Please rate!

Q: i've been best friends with this girl since 6th grade. and we've always had good time together. but ever since march she's started to hang out w. different people and we've been talking a lot lessand sometimes i feel like i hate her. i'm in florida rite now and i didnt tell her that i was comming down here. and she's on AiiM alot and i havent talked to her...should i talk to her on AiiM? or shood i let her talk to me first?

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I think you should try talking to her, you see. The wonderful thing about friends is that they can grow seperately and yet not grow apart. Ask her if she's mad at you and if not stirke up a conforsation. If she is mad, then ask her why and try to fix it. I hope I helped. Please rate!

Q: okay ive been friends with this guy for a little over a year. i dont like him like that this isnt about that. well we got into a fight bcuz his girlfriend told him i said all these bad things about him. thats not true. he wont take my messages he wont even talk to me. his girlfriend totally ruined our friendship. i wanna no how i can get into his head that i didnt say those things and his girlfriend just said that.

PLEEEEEEEEEEEZ help!! ill rate 5s for good help

Some people touch our lives only briefly...while others leave a lasting impression and are never forgotten. Just leave him be and let him figure it out on his own. If you have the urge to tell him make sure he gets the mesage. Try to find a moment when he is alone and approch him. Don't let him walk away, talk firm,clearly, and know what you are going to say before you say it. If there is need, approch the GF and ask her what she has against her. If you get to know her, maybe she will not see you as a threat. I hope I helped, and please rate me so that I can see how I did.

Q: Im going to visit my family in california and im going to disneyland. Do they have water rides or roller coasters there?

I've been there every year since I was 4 and they have both I would suggest Splash Mountain. It is a lot of fun, and my fave ride.

Q: hey guys...im really scared!! ok...i used to be really good friends with this guy and then we didnt really talk for a while, and in the past few months we have been talking alot and become really close again, well about 45 minutes ago i found out that his dad killed himself...what do i say to him? i mean HE doesnt even know yet...his mom called me before she told him...i used to be pretty close to his dad too...he didnt seem the type to do something like that...i have been crying my eyes out since i found out and when this guy does find out, what do i say to him? please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If he hasn't already found out yet. You can tell him, but then if he doesn't ask you to say or tell him anything else then don't. only listen. My father died about two and a half years ago and I foun that it was releving when people just let me talk. if he asks you something answer. and make sure that you are there for him if he needs you. Never leave in your friends time of need. My advise is always here if you need it.

Q: My bro is in iraq and its hard to deal with cause one of his friends was killed and the other one shot last week. how should i deal with it?

I kind of know how you feel, a lot of my close family are in Iraq, and I understand what you are going through. What I would do is think about other things. Go to a lot of places with your friends and get on the comp. a lot more. that's all I can say, because I don't know what your relasionship with your brother is. The only other thing I can say is hold your head up and always have hope. If you have any other questions just look me up.

Q: Okay well my boyfriend is going through a really tough time right now... with things that are going on with work, baseball, and some of his friends. I am here for him all the time and we tell each other everything. But i want to make him really happy and see the smile back on his face... So you can you guys give me any ideas to make him smiling and happy again. I know he would really appreciate it. And please don't say anything sexual because we have done somethings but not sex, were not ready for that. I just want him to be happy and spend the day together him and me so he can be happy and smile... any ideas on things to do or to give him that would make him smile... I rate high thanks bunches :0)

I don't know your boyfriend, but I think you should make a list of all of the things that you know that he likes. If you can't think of anything, approach him. ask him what would make him happy. get some ideas and then try to make something up that you can do. I hope I helped. If you have an other questions, just look me up!

Q: Hey people! Okey, I've gotten myself into a real mess..again. I'm such an idiot. See, this is the thing..I havn't seen my EXBF for about a year, and im gonna see him in like a week. A while ago i found out that he had a new GF and that she was coming with him to camp (where im gonna see him again) So i've been working really hard this week on making myself look great to impress him. And then i met this guy, who's also going to camp. So i thought (dumb as i am) why not get together with this guy to make him jealous or whatever, maybe just to show that im over him..
Now, this guy is a punk rocker..so to get him to like me i started acting like a punk rocker. And when he asked me if he could do my hair, i said : sure, why not?. Little did I know that by saying that i liked his haircut he was gonna do my hair just like his. So now i have no hair on the sides and spikes in the middle and i am totally and completely FREAKING OUT! I live with my older brother and im not gonna see my mom for about 3 more months so im not worried about her at the moment ( even though i should be ) ..
What im really worried about is seeing james in a week.. I've done everything to make myself look great, and now i look awful! Is there anything i can do? ive already tried looking for a hairpiece, but it loooks soo fake! HELP PLEASE!

So it sounds like you got yourself into a mess. Well, my aunt is a hair dresser. If your hair is long enough you can let it down and put it to the side for a cover, or just ware a really cute hat. You have a week, go to the mall and find a hat that matches a lot of your outfits. If your counseler tells you to take it off. walk up and tell him/her that you are having a major hair crises. If that doesn't work than just tell your crush what happened. Not that you were trying to make him jelouse, but that you didn't know that the other boy would cut your hair like that. He should understand. Hope I helped!

Q: I've had my period for two years now. It's verrrrry irregular. It will skip months and come anytime during the month. I've gone 3 months with out my period. I never know when it's going to show up. I've heard that sometimes if you're skinny that might have something to do with it. I'm like 5'6 and i weigh 105 pounds. Do you think it has anything to do with it? What do you think i should do? Thanks.

I haven't heared of that being because of you being skinny. I guess it could be that but you never know. I think you might want to go to the doctorand ask. it is better to be safe than sorry. I hope that you find out what is wrong.

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Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!