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guyfriend problem
okay ive been friends with this guy for a little over a year. i dont like him like that this isnt about that. well we got into a fight bcuz his girlfriend told him i said all these bad things about him. thats not true. he wont take my messages he wont even talk to me. his girlfriend totally ruined our friendship. i wanna no how i can get into his head that i didnt say those things and his girlfriend just said that.
PLEEEEEEEEEEEZ help!! ill rate 5s for good help
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Okay, I totally get what you are going through. Do you have a close friend that is also his friend? If so, have them talk to him. Or, you can try to talk to his girlfriend and ask why she lied like that.
I hope this helped.
X_Amanda_X
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well if he wont listen then i dont know what to tell you but if hes a true friend he'd listen to you just keep tryin to talk to him and if i was you i would confont his girlfriend about it! ♥
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I was in a situation similar to your before. The girlfriend is just jealous of you. She may consider you a threat or maybe she is just jealous that you talk to her boyfriend a lot. I'd leave your friend a message (because he may not listen to you if he is trying to get his point across simultaneously) on his cell phone or online (AIM) and tell him that hes your friend and your not that type of person. Tell him to talk to his g/f and ask her why she would make things up like that because it really hurt you. GOOD LUCK! =) -- Kate
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next time you see him jsut talk to him and try to tell him that none of that is true. if he doesnt beleive u then tell him that his girlfirend jsut told him that because she is jelous that ypu guys jave a good friendship and that she doestn want you to 'take him away' a lot of girls feel that way...i hope this helps =]
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Some people touch our lives only briefly...while others leave a lasting impression and are never forgotten. Just leave him be and let him figure it out on his own. If you have the urge to tell him make sure he gets the mesage. Try to find a moment when he is alone and approch him. Don't let him walk away, talk firm,clearly, and know what you are going to say before you say it. If there is need, approch the GF and ask her what she has against her. If you get to know her, maybe she will not see you as a threat. I hope I helped, and please rate me so that I can see how I did.
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I would just try going to his house and explain it to him. Just be like," I never said those things! I mean come on, we've been friends for almost like, a little over a year! Why would I say stuff like that about you? I know your girlfriend hates me, so maybe she told you that stuff so I would be out of the way, but I'm not trying to blame anyone, I just want to be friends with you again, and I want you to understand I did't say anything about you.." because then you won't be exactly blaming his girlfriend ( like you will, but not in a rude way, ya know? ) Because that shows you're not trying to get him to break up with her.. which shows you're trying to be a good friend also...hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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well i've been trough this before, where if you email him, he doesnt even read it, if you call he wont pick up and i say, leave him alone for a while. If you two are really as good of friends as you think, he'll start to miss you and sure enough, will want to hear your end of the events.
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well u know the saying friends come before girlfriends or boyfriends? well tell him that say u'll be here after shes long gone...now who are u gonna trust?
hope i helped!
♥BLAiR
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Seems like his gf cant stand you and wants him all to herself. Well try to talk to him in person and tell him that all those bad things were made up from his gf and that you want to be his friend you dont want to harm the friendship.Another way can by probably by telling his friends about it if he doesnt want to talk to you i know they will tell him.Tell him that his gf is trying to be all selfish and probably doesnt like you. If he doesnt believe you and thinks you made all that crap up then you dont need to waiste your time trying to convince him .Hope I helped. Good luck. ♥Kate
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