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I'm 13, I've had very oily skin since I was 10 *including the black heads and pimples* I've tried so many products such as clean & clear, noxema, ponds, clearisil, (all those otc products) but nothing works to clear it up. I want to go to the derm. but we have no money for it, there for no money for Proactive either. What should I do, is there anything yall recomend ? (link)
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proactive works pretty well..
it seems to give you more pimples at one time...not major though...and after that you get pretty cleared up.
its my favorite.
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i have the hicups what should i do to get rid of them please help i really really need it and i need it bad because i have them for like fifteen hours (link)
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drink some water
hold your breath
suck a spoon of sugar
one of those should work.
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ok, where to begin..i have liked a guy for 2 years now..kinda on and off because my friends have tried to convince me that i dont like him anymore, but i end up liking him again b/c he's so funny...he makes me laugh...and fun to be around and hott.lol well anyways, im 15 and never had a bf and hes almost 16, but in the grade above me. i can never stop thinking about him and how much we have in common and just him in general :-)... i used to flirt w/ him a certain kinda way and ive noticed that hes doing the same stuff to me as i did to him, and im catching glances from him (but that could mean nothing).. I just really want to tell him so bad that i like him and i have for 2 years but i dont want it to ruin our friendship that has somewhat built up over the years. i really want to kno if he likes me back but..i dont kno.... If we ever got together i dont kno if i would fit in w/ his other friends, i mean i kno his friends, but i dont think i would belong. Please tell me what i can do! Thanks! (link)
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you should tell him how you feel
"a heart gets broken by words left unspoken"
tell him you like him, but tell him if he doesnt feel the same way, that you dont want things to be funny between you, and that you still want to be good friends. dont worry about trying to fit in with his other friends, just be yourself around em, if they cant except you, its their loss ;)
^_^
-Nicole
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Have you ever been to second base (fingering, bj) or above? I wanted to know if you can help me, but please only if you've done it!! (link)
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yes. what do you need help with? doing it?
IM me sometime, or send me another in my inbox.
AHH Nicole Is On
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OK.. so i know.. online romances are dangerous.. but this is different. Hes my friends cousins friend! Ive never met him personally but I talk to him online and hes sooo sweet. Hes always telling me how nice i am and that he wished i lived in his town. We joke around and when i talk to him im so happy. we're both 14, and i dont know what to think. we were talking and he said i wish i could see u right now so said me too.. lets run away.. (this whole running away thing was just a fantasy for BOTH of us.. we're not really gunna do it).. and we said we were going to vegas together. and we both plan to go to collage in FL, and if we go to the ones we both want, we'll be kinda close.. miami and tampa. and i really really want that. but idk what to do. should i tell him how i feel?.. if i should .. how do i do it?.. im usually very outgoing.. but with this im kinda shy. and wow.. so please just give me your honest opinion on the whole situation. I rate high for advice I like, and i dont rate at all if i dont like it.. i dont like lowering peoples ratings for one question. Thanks in advance! (link)
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well, im glad you know how this can be dangerous.
but i really cant so "noo! dont do this!" being that i was in a situtation like this, so i sort of know what you are going through.
crushes are a cute thing to have, but sometimes all it is is a crush, i dont wanna sound all negative. but dont get your hopes up, just incase meeting up doesnt work out.
but you shouldnt hide your feelings, so i think you should tell him how you feel. im shy when it comes to expressing myself too.
so say whats in your heart. and also if he feels differently, tell him you still want to chat, and you dont want things to be "weird" between ya's.
hope things work out great for you. =)
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can i use a layout for xanga on myspace or will that not work? (link)
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i do that sometimes
it works for the most part, you just might have to do a little bit of ultering.
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i NEED some flirting tips! does anyone know any great way to get a guy's attention?? (link)
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just be yourself
and a guy will love you for who you are
when a girl flirts with someone, a guy tends to think they are something they really arent.
so just be yourself. =)
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well there's this really hott kid that wants to hook up with me and i've never kissed a boy and im really nervous
any tips??
i rate 5's 4 good answers (link)
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i was nervous with my first kiss too. and there really isnt a reason to be. its quite easy
so dont be nervous, haha.
its a thing you just know how to do when it happens.
just go with the flow, and it'll be fine =)
just dont think about yourself being bad, and dont try to be good, or you might end up doing bad.
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okay well this guy i really like is going out with the prettiest girl in my grade. He isn't a hottie or anything, but I've liked him since 6th grade, and I'm in 8th. The night she asked him out (at a school dance) I was going to work up enough nerve to ask him. I feel like, if I asked before her, he would have said yes; only because we are so close. I was up practically everynight i saw or even talked to him, thinking about him. I started cutting myself i liked him so much. I cut myself only to make myself stop thinking about him. But eventually it just got worse. I want to stop cutting myself, and start taking it like a normal person (link)
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cutting is bad, i used to do it too, you are really gonna regret it when your older. so im glad that you wanna stop.
dont dwell on the past, how are you gonna ever see the future?
if you really like him, wouldnt you want him to be happy? no matter what?
try other ways to get him off your mind, go with a few chick friends to the mall or someplace n find guys, and try to meet new people.
even a few website like myspace is a great way for anyone to meet friends/people close to you..
keep your options open. and your mind clear. there might be a great guy with a crush on you, but you dont realize it cause your too worried about this one guy.
when you are upset dont cut yourself, go for a run, or beat up a pillow/teddy bear..or a stress ball, or write poetry or draw. there are much better solutions.
sorry if that seemed a little harsh or snooty. heh, didnt mean to be.
hope you stop cutting soon, and i hope things get better too. =)
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Hey, this is classicbetty. I just dyed my hair and it came out way darker than expected. I know it'll fade soon, but I was wondering if any of you knew about how long that would take? Thanks! (link)
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i noticed that hair dye tends to fade after about 2 weeks after you dye it.
if u want it to start fading sooner, i would wash it, a lot.
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I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 15. I know that it's ok and that I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy, but I really want one. I see how happy my friends are with their relationships and I just want to feel that special feeling, you know? I don't wanna sound conceited but i don't think looks are the main problem. My friends tell me that I'm not flirtatious and outgoing like them. Its just that I feel awkward being flirtatious and always question myself like omg he doesnt like me and stuff. How do I become more flirtatious and outgoing to get a boyfriend? thanks so much (link)
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hey
i am just like you. lol. i had that same problem
just be yourself, dont go searching for a boy.
get confidence, try working out a little, that helped me to be more outgoing.
when school starts back up again, just talk to people in your area, small chat. like you would to make a new friend.
and maybe even join a few clubs to meet people outside of your classes
you dont need to be a flirt to get a boyfriend either.
like i said, just be yourself, and someone will find you and love you for just the way you are. =)
hope i helped.
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hey my name is ashley and im looking for some cool new things 2 add 2 my profile like quotes or daily tips. I went 2 google and everything and i cant find anything so would someone please give me some quotes or anything i can put on my profile! thx i appreciate it.
O u can Im me on AIM its modeltownerfan (link)
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hey
great quote site...
http://firehotquotes.bolt.com/
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ok for some reason on my xanga site everytime i write the word a** it changes into a link (a pron link) i dont know why it does it i delete the site and it goes back.. and then in another entry i wrote the word movie and it changed into a theater link and i dont know why this is happening.. does anyone know if it is from my computer or is because of my layout or what can i do to stop it.. someone please help me!! thanks (link)
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this happens to me too sometimes, and i have no idea why it happens. but i think it may have to do with certain layouts. cause i noticed that, that happened with one layout, but not the other. its weird. what kind of layout do you use?
just try and type the word in a different way maybe if it keeps up.
sorry, this isnt very good advice. lol.
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Ok my hair is curly and a little past my shoulders! I have some questions about it.
Does leaving it in a towel after a shower make the curls less.....well curly? lol
What are some ways to make the curls less intense after its wet without the use of a relaxer?
Thnx! (link)
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i have natual curly hair too, but mine hair is short and i straighten it all the time.
i'd say towel dry it well, then brush it out and just put it up somehow. that usually made my hair not so curly.
or when its totally dry, just straighten it out a little bit, just so that it is a little wavey/less intense.
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Ok,well i haven't my period yet [[and im 13..]] My mom got it when she was 13,my sister got it when she was 14. Does this run in the family that i'll get it either this year or when im 14? or would i be different? i really just want to get it over with instead of being afraid it'll happen when im in school or somewhere everyone can see it !! (link)
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i honestly dont think it is something that runs in the family. just relax, and dont worry about it. and when you get it the first time, it wont be that much, so if it does happen in school, it shouldnt be noticeable, esspecially if you catch it early. just always carry a tampon/pad(i'd say start with a pad first) with you in your bag for school.
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i aLways want to get my hair like this but it never works w/ a curling iron..any other alternatives or ideas? thankss
http://www.actustar.com/photos/messingdebra1.jpg (link)
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well when you are curling it with an iron are you using hair spray/gel?
if the iron doesnt work, use curlers..the kind that you can heat will probably work the best.
or just the regular kind n sleep with them in
then they will get to be like..ringlets, so straighten them a little.
hope i helped. =)
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My periods normally go for five days, but it's been really heavy for like 8 days now and it's just not stopping! It's never changed how long it goes on for like this before, what's going on? (link)
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have you just started getting your period?
it doesnt seem like much of a problem, to me anyways, but if its really bothering you, or keeps up for a while, talk to your mom so she can talk to a doctor or someone.
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This is kind of a long story. So I've been friends with this guy for about 5 or 6 years now. Best friends at that. Well recently I found out he was going to be moving a long way away from here. I've been through so much with him, but now I hardly speak to him and he's moving in less than a week. It all happend so suddenly. I've always had a big group of friends and people that I also consider best friends as well, but he was sort of in a league of his own friendship wise just becuase of everything we've been through. Now I'm always with these other people that he use to be with as well, until we found out he was moving. In the past month I've become so close to two of the people, and so much futher away from him. I don't feel right talking to him anymore, but I feel even worse when I don't. I haven't hung out with him in awhile, and now he's moving. I just don't know what to do or say. Once he's gone it'll be too late but I don't know how to approach the subject now, before it's too late. And the last time we did hang out, every little thing he did seemed bother the he.ll out of me. Which doesn't help my situation at all. Any advice would be greatly appreciated :) (link)
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since i dont know how old you are (either of u anyways) i think u should maybe go to the mall (if your youngerish --new word, hah. sorry) or ask him to dinner if your not youngerish. (sorry again)
and when he does something that bothers you, just ignore it, and keep reminding yourself that this is probably the last time i am going to see him, and we've been through so much. i'm sure you'll end up having a good time if you do something once again before he leaves.
hope i helped a little
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hey does neone know how to do the heart things on a myspace? i know its like ♥ .. but im not sure.. can sumone help me? thanks a ton! (link)
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yup, & hearts ; (no spaces)
then to make them bigger you type < font size= number between 1=7 > and color u type < font color="a color" > just with no spaces, except u keep the spaces between "font color" and "font size"
hope i helped
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i don't know that its exactly healthy but i was wondering if there is anything else (like a household item) that i can use that would work kinda like a dildo or a vibrator? i mean it doesnt have to move or anything...just feel good. cuz my parents would freak if they found a dildo or vibrator. is it unhealthy to use anything else? can i sterilize other stuff? if so, how? (link)
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ive never heard of many things being unhealthy to use as a replacement for a dildo/vibrator..except some of the obvious ones...
make sure what u use, there isnt some kind of lotion on it that can give you skin irration..that wouldnt be cool..
get condoms and put them over whatever you use, that way if its to say.."break" it wont end up inside of you, and u have a little lube so its easier to use.
a lot of foods work...
cucumbers/bananas/carrrots..ect.
im guessing ull want something rounded and sturdy..
id imagine mostly anything would work really...but like i said, just put a condom over it first..
theres a show sometimes on the "oxygen network" called "sunday night sex show"
...its not porno..its a sex education show, with sue johanson, she talks about things like that...
anyways, hope i helped out a little
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