Ok, I miss this guy that I like, really badly. I haven't seen him in like almost three weeks because he hasn't been at church or anything. I don't have his phone number, AIM, or anything like that. What should I do? It's not like I can just go over to his house or anything like that. I could see him in a few days if he goes to the church stuff, but what if he's not there? What I am I supposed to do?
nothing, all you can do now is keep yourself busy. but next time you do see him ask him for his s/n, ask him for his number and say you would like to keep in contact. lol, keep busy, you'll be fine.
lotz o' luv,
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Ok one day I was skateboarding and I turned because my friend called me and the skateboard ran into something and I fell off. I was having pains in my knee after that(I landed on my hands and knees) so I went to the doctor and it turns out I tore ligameants in my knee and have to wear a knee brace for 1 month! I dont know what to do. I skateboard all the time and rollerblade(and play TONS of sports) but now I cant do any of the things I love for a whole month. I hate it. Any ideas on how I could play sports & skateboard again?
15/f
i am sorry, but the only sport i see fit for you at your condition would be golf. my opinion, find another hobby temporarily, paint, write, w/e. but i know this will last a total of 5 minutes a day so just spend more time hanging out with friends and keeping myself busy.
good luck,
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how do i get the kids to behave? yelling just isn't working anymore.
i am a frequent babysitter, and believe me it isn't easy when the kids decide to act up. but i have a simple warning plan that never fails! it has 3 strikes, everytime they misbehave they gain a strike. when they get to 3 strikes they have to go to their room for the rest of the day/night. this never occurs though because once a strike has been givin, they can work it off by doing something good. cleaning the room, helping with dinner. my kids really like the responsibility and always obey to this system.
good luck,
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ok I go to church with one of my friends, and there is this guy there lets call him "mark" well I have thought "mark" was cute for awhile but i never knew what his name was or anything i just knew he was cute. Well at like the middle of November I became friends with his girlfriend, but I have never seen her in person, I only talk to her on Windows[MSN]Messenger. And the other day I introduced myself to "mark" cause she was always telling him about me but he couldnt figure out who I was so I just told him, I was like "hey im (so and so)" and well the other day one of my guy friends that also goes to that church was saying that another one of our friends,that doesnt go to that church, is goin to try to "steal" "Mark's" girlfriend away from him. So is it wrong for me to like "mark" and be friends with his girlfriend? sorry if this does not make sense
o it makes so much sense. and no itz not wrong at all! you are allowed to think a guy is cute. and itz ok to be friends with the girlfriend, you haven't made any indecient moves. Just ignore what some jerk with too much free time on his hands says, as long as you don't act on your crush your completely fine!
lotz o' luv,
PinkLady4863
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is it true that after 16 a girl stops growing?? if this is not true then what age it is?
it is differant for everybody. my mother grew 3.5 inches after 16. my friend in college is 21 and has just recently grown 2 inches!but in contrast, my friend tabitha is 13, and isn't suspected to grow again. so as you can see, it mainly depends on genetics. and there is no set age
lotz o' luv,
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my family is very religious. so when they found out that i had sex with my ex boyfriend a while back they went crazy. i promised that i wouldnt do it again, but now that i am seeing someone else it's getting harder and harder to say no. i'm only 17, i know thats young, but should i wait until i am married for my family? or should i just give in for myself?
if you are religious you know you have to make sacrafices for the best. and i am going to tell you to wait. believe me, you will apreciate it in the end.
lotz o' luv,
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Hi, right off the bat if you know nothing about the looks of classic cars from the early 70's and back dont even respond, if your going to respond just to say a color and dont know what a valiant looks like, go to google and type in 1968 valaint and look for one you lazy bum, but onto the question. Does anyone know of any good colors to paint a 1968 Valiant100 4 door sedan. i do ont want two tone, nor do i want metallica, also i do not want strips just one straight color that you think looks good on a valiant, you can also look at my profile picture and you will see my car.
i luv cars and i can say yours is a classic! where did you find that baby!!!! well anyway, to answer you i would have to say a baby blue would look best or a straight bold red. and when your done with it... give it to me, jk
lotz o' luv,
PinkLady4863
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So I've been preparing fish a lot lately...but haven't ever had to thaw it. Now I've got to thaw it...and I can't remember the best way to do it. Sound silly? It is. I won't use the microwave...because I just wont. I know my mom usually thaws chicken in a tub of luke-warm water...but does that work effectively with fish? So how should I thaw this thing? Thanks.
with my family, we have always took the fish out the night before or in the morning and placed iot into the fridge. Then, it slowly thaws and still stays fresh.
good luck hunnie,
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i use nyc eyeliner and everytime i use it it comes off easily so i have to bring my eyeliner to school and put it on there. my friends thinks its annoying cause i need to go to the bathroom or use their mirror in their lockers to put it on. whenever my friends put the eyeliner i use on, it stays on for them but it doesnt for me. i tried many kinds of eyeliner but i still cant find one that will stay on, someone please help!
p.s i dont want to use liquid eyeliner or very expenisive eyeliners
it is simply because you perspire around your eyes. it is very common, and almost undetectable. but your eyeliner is most likely going to smear. but, if you lay on a coat of baby powder on before the eyeliner, it will reduce moisture, thus, make youe eyeliner last longer!
good luck,
PinkLady4863
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OK... I just wanted to see if anyone else has heard of this or knows what it is...
On my upper inner left thigh ther are these really strange marks. They look liek branches and kind of like scars. they are indented into my leg and pruple-ish. I never scarped my leg there or cut it but they look a lot like scars. By indented I mean if you run your finger along it it's like carved into my skin. Does anyone knows what they are, or how they might have got there? They just came up this past 3 months. thanks for ANY comments
those are stretch marks hunnie. it could mean you are overwieght, gaining weight, or just getting taller. (most likely taller, don't worry)
lotz o' luv,
PinkLady4863
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When I was 8, my grandfather died of cancer. It is now 6 years later and I still am extreamly upset about it. I was very close to my grandpa, I always remember him joking around with me. He'd always tap me on the head when I wasn't looking and then I'd turn around and he'd be looking around pretty much making it obvious that he did it. He'd always give me money even if I didn't ask for it and he was just a very happy grandpa. The night I found out he died, I was devistated. I was in my room listening to music and I heard the phone ring but didn't think much of it. My mom called me and my brother into her room and she told us to sit down. She looked a bit shakey but I still didn't think much of it. She held my hand and looked at me and said Papa (that's what we called him) just passed a way. And I looked at her in disbelief. I was in too much shock to even cry. Once I started crying I coudln't stop. I fell asleep crying, I woke up crying and I cried for the next 4 days straight. This happened six years ago and I'm still upset about it. Everytime I go to my grandma's house and I see his pictures I cry. Can anyone help me? It's been 6 years and I'm still not over his death. Please help.
there is absolutely nothing wrong with this, i personally am not over my great grandmother noni's death. but here are some ways to cope: do not think of him as "gone" but more as in heaven
he didn't leave you, he is there, watching over you always. Also, you need to realize he doesn't want you to still be dwelling over him, he led a good life. he wants to see you enjoying life as he did. do you really want him looking down to see you are wasting your life on his account? well, i wish you the best of luck,
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I have lost so many important and special people in my life that now I don't know who to trust anymore. I am getting really close to someone (everyone I get close to is an adult) and I am afraid of getting hurt by her like everyone else I get close to. I have told her this and she says that shes not like the other people, but how do I know. This is a person that I wish were my mother because she is just so incredible and my mom doesnt care about me. What do I do?
obviously you have trust uissues, that is no secret. but i don't think it is the person, i think it is you. you put all of your trust in one and when things occur you are left heartbroken. You need to find a balance. Someone who you can trust, but not with every aspect of your life. I have many secrets best kept to myself, that is how a normal mind reacts. and maybe your issues come from your mother, try talking to her, asking how her day was and etc. i realize by asking a simple question is never going to cure your trust issues but it may open new doors with your mother over time. Also, maybe it would be time to scope out some friends your own age, the very best friends can be trusted i can promise you that. good luck hunnie,
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I really like this boy and he says that he really likes me, however he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to hurt her by dumping her. He is always with me and he tells me that he cares and wants to be with me, but I don't want to get hurt. It hurts me enough to know that he has a girlfriend, I have never loved like this before. Everytime he kisses me I seem to melt. I want him so badly, but what about his gf. he is afraid and so am I?
first of all, it is time to wake up. if you are kissing him and all, you are a booty call hunnie. i am sorry to put it so harshly, but i am sure his girlfriend loves him too, and he wouldn't be with her if he didn't feel the same way. does his girlfriend really deserve that? and most of all, do you deserve some sleeze that dates girls behind their back? i really think you can do better, move on before you and many others become hurt.
good luck hunnie,
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okay I know this is random, but like I have really weird hair thats in between being curly or straight (but it doesnt look good lol) and I was wondering does anyone know anything that will make your hair straight or curly w/o too much use of a straightener or a curling iron? Thanks soo much! (Please dont delete!)
knowing hair is one of the most important things to girlz i have so many tips for you! you could take showers at night and leave your hair in braids as they dry overnight. Or scrunch your hair. Also, i have straightening balm that you smooth over wet hair then blow dry it, itz fast, easy and gives your hair a nice shine. There is always the option of perms and perm. straightening if you are desperate. good luck hunnie!
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My boyfriend wants to go farther than i want to go and ya but i rele like him and hes soo cute and the only reason he wants to is because his brother makes fun of him and yay so should i have sex with him
honestly, no. you should never, ever do anything your not ready for just because some older brother is teasing him! If you are not ready tell him, and if he says anything sassy back break up with him. it may seem bad but believe me, you won't regret it. although, if you do decided to sleep with him, you most likely will regret it.
lotz o' love,
PinkLady4863
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i am balimic and i don't know if it is bad or anything! You are the only one i trust with this, i know your good at this and alot of others aren't at all! please, you are the only one that can help.
i know how you feel, i once had that problem. many would say to tell someone, but that just made everything worse with me. This is a personal battle. Balimia is bad, it ruins your throat and can easily kill you by lack of nuitrition, or holes formed in the esophegus. you are never too fat, or stressed to hurt urself in such ways. i joined cross country, and ran and quickly lost that weight and gained repect for myself. i am here for you, e-mail me any time any question i am here, you can't do this alone.
with love and luck,
PinkLady4863
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well i like this boy right and he's spanish and i have no problem with that b/c he''s really sweet and cute. but all my friends do b/c im like white and we're totally diff and some of my friends are sort of racist. i don't know what to do b/c i rlly like this boy...what should i do
forget what others say, if you like him go out with him. if i were you i would make just wait until sum1 sad something so i could explain what a racist bitch they are being. if you like him, stick to your guns and ask him out. do what you need to to be happy.
good luck hunnie,
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when i finish blow drying my hair straight, i do my make up. After I do my powder for some reason my hair gets really staticky. Is there a way to keep it from getting that way?
of course. first of all, there are so many hair products!. straightening gel, bed head is the best for hair. but if you want to stay all natural i would say take showers at night, let ur hair dry naturally, then straighten with a straightener in the morning. whatever you decide, do not put water in your hair! it looks greasey and bad.
good luck hunnie,
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okay so heres the thing.....i am really depressed, and i know it and so i cut myself....but not my wrists or anything just my legs and my ankles.......and i think about death alot, but not ohters just myself....what do you think i shuld do
most would say to tell someone, but once i felt like that and telling just made it worse. so my opinion, look for brightnesn, look for something to make you happy. whatever is making you depressed isn't worth dying for. you've got alot to live for, and hunnie, this will soon pass and life will be better i promise!
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Hi, my name is Lacey, and I just moved from Washington to Wisconsin, and i HATE IT!!! everyone is against me, what my so called my friends did to me is writed me a note and told me that i am a slut face hore. How should i tell my parents that i want to move out of this hell hole?
explain to your oparents that you are not happy here! but they most likely will not listen. so just make the best of it. work it out with your friends and maybe if they think ur a slut, slow down ur sex drive a bit lol. it seems bad now, but it'll work out. sry, im just tryin to tell ya the truth.
good luck hunnie!
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