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My boyfriend wants to go farther than i want to go and ya but i rele like him and hes soo cute and the only reason he wants to is because his brother makes fun of him and yay so should i have sex with him
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Uh...no.
You aren't ready obviously, you just said "he wants to go further than i want to go."
If you aren't ready, you shouldn't be doing it. And if the only reason YOU would is because he's cute, that's just not enough to do it for. If he just wants to do it to show up his brother, that's wrong. It shouldn't be about that, it should be because you guys want to.
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ok if you arent ready to have sex then dont do it,sit your boyfriend down and tell him how you feel,and if he really cares about you he will understand.and if he brakes up with you then he is not worth it.
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Definitely DON'T have sex if you're uncomfortable doing it! Talk to your bf and tell him that he should ignore his brother! Whatever you do, don't have sex! Lol. Try talking to your bf and see if he'll slow down a bit. If you loves you, he'll wait until you're ready! Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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You need to talk to him and you really need to tell him how you feel . Tell him that you deeply and truly care for him and that he means so much to you . Maybe you could be clever and add something flattering towards his good looks . Then after telling him this, you need to tell him that sex isn't to be taken too likely . Tell him that you're not ready and that he has to respect that because you respect his decisions . If you have to, make up and example when you've done this. Then tell him that you won't have sex with him just because his brother makes fun of him being a virgin because it's your body and ,like I said, sex isn't to be taken likely . Try talking to him rashionally and maybe he'll understand . If he doesn't, then it's up to you from then on . Hope I was some help and have a MERRRY CHRISTMAS AND A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR !
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Not if you aren't comfotable having sex with him. No offense, but you don't really seem like you're ready for anything further than making out. And you should only make desicions like that if you are mentally, physically, and emotionally ready, not because someone else wants you to. If you aren't ready to sacrafice such a thing as your virginity, then don't do it. Never let a guy make you do something you aren't comfortable with.
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honestly, no. you should never, ever do anything your not ready for just because some older brother is teasing him! If you are not ready tell him, and if he says anything sassy back break up with him. it may seem bad but believe me, you won't regret it. although, if you do decided to sleep with him, you most likely will regret it.
lotz o' love,
PinkLady4863
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You say you don't want to have sex yet, so don't. Just because your boyfriend wants to doesn't mean you have to. You need to let him know he shouldn't be pressured to do things because his brother is making fun of him. You should only have sex when you feel like you are ready.
♥lAuRa
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If you dont want to have sex with him, don't. Just tell him no and if he breaks up with you for it..then he was not worth it anyway! Dont give in to what he wants. Its what you want and if you dont want to give him sex..well that just sucks for him doesnt it! ;)
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If the only reason you want to have sex with him is because his brother makes fun of him then its not worth it. You should have sex with someone who you extremly care for and someone whom you want to give a part of your life and heart too. If your a virgin this is a hard decision if your not then i still think you should make a better decision specially since he wants to go father than you which means he doesn't repect you or your feelings. I hope you make the right decision. XoJacXo
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