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Sometimes you'll have bad and good days but someitmes there will be a mixture, but as you grow up you'll have some unforgetable memories that will always be with you... The friendships you make come and go, but as you look at all the flash backs there's always something about eachone you can't forget... You'll move on in life, parents will seperate and you'll feel pain the you didnt know even existed... You'll leave old friends and make new, leave ur house you lived in yer childhood and become something you didnt imagine, but now that you can see what its like, just remember nothing last's FOREVER-- thank you for listening to me!


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ok i just dyed my hair dark brown and it looks almost black and i was wondering of some cute wys to do my makeup so it doesnt look bad it is a rly big change and i dont kno what to do!! (link)
Black eyeliner/mascara and curl them up.. uhh.. light brown eyeshadow if uw ear it.. or none and clear lipgloss.. just dont go overboard =)


Well,i have a problem.

Me n this boy started going out. He was so sweet to me, and so damn nice, i really loved him. Then he started to get a lil more being a jerk. Thats just him, i let it pass, because he was just being a guy. He said a few things that bothered me, i told him, he told me he was sorry millions of times. You know. i let it all pass. Then he broke up with me, cause " He didnt want a gf" We've been going out for 3 months and he was my first boyfriend and i really loved him alot, he seemed like he really loved me to. I was heartbroken. Then about 4 days after we broke up, he went online and i was talking to him. He told me " God i cant take it anymore, I love you more then anything, will you be my GF again?" and just because im stupid, i said yes. Should i stay with him and risk getting hurt again.. or break up with him.. IDK what to do, cause i really love him..He even told me if i broke up with him he'd practically kill himself because he couldnt live without me.. please help! (link)
Ehh, i think u should dump him.. and i dont think u can love someone when its your first boyfriend, you will find someone BETTER than him! and you will find someone who wont b with you every other 5 mins, i, personally think hes playing you... sooo just be single or find someone new and thats trust worthly, and that will stay with you for longer than 5 mins! hope i helped...sry if its harsh


im bored and i really cant call muh friends and every time i get on the phone muh lil sister is always there tellin me to get off its like she's muh boss what should i do she bosses me around every where and everything includin muh fiance' and i dont no what 2 do anymore and i give her so much and the sad part is she understands everything that happens she's 13 plz write me back (link)
tell her to grow up and to leave you alone its your life not hers! and if that dont work just completly ignore her.. =)


muh lil sister , is always tellin me what 2 do and i've tryed almost everything to let her no that im older and that im not always gonna listen 2 her but she still finds wys 2 push me around can sum 1 give me advice im out of option? (link)
Don't let her.. be the older one or just completly ignore her =) hehe thats always fun!


I'm friends with this one guy and I like him alot. I've heard that he used to like me too, but I'm not exactly sure if it's true. he is the only guy I've ever felt this way about, and I know it sounds stupid of me to say that because we are only 14. In the past, he has hurt me bad emotionally and once physically. But now, everything between us it great we talk all the time I just don't know if I should tell him how I feel, just forget about him, or keep it a secret. Please help. (link)
If you guys are best friends.. dont go out with him.. believe me.. its the WORST thing you can do.. no offense.. its just my opion cuz it happened to me.. and it sucked sooo** much when we broke up cuz we never talked after that.. and i used to tell him *Everything* n now we dont talk.. and if we do its always "hi.." 'hi' "whats up?" 'nuthing you?' "Oh thats cool" BEEEEp end of convo.. it sucks.. but hey.. he even promised we would talk if we broke up.. so I hope you get the right advice.. =) and that everything works out.. but u still should tell him how you feel.. or ya'll could just be 'friends wit bennifits'


ive been goin out with this girl for over a month now. i havnt talked to her in like 4 days and everytime i try to she never answers and i send her messages and she dosnt get em
ive evan tried talkin to her but she won't talk back
what should i do?!?!?!?

(i really like her so much)
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call her over and over and over and over again til you get her =) it will get soo annoying so she will have to.. haha it works for me sometimes..


does anyone know of a way to get an anti-depressent(i.e. Zoloft©) without going to see a doctor??? I need something along those lines but i can't tell my parents that i need an anti-depressent for certain reasons. My depression used to be just the common teenage cliche of {boredom + no life + no friends + girl troubles = depression}. Earlier this week i realized it was a much more serious problem when i was alone(drunk + depressed) and for some reason got to thinking that i dont want to live anymore.......So i went downstairs, got a knife from the kitchen, went back up to my room and proceeded to stab myself in the wrist numerous times. It bled all over the place for a while and then i turned really pale felt really cold and also a bit numb....then i just kinda zonked out. The next morning i woke up in a puddle of my own blood, and thats when i realized that i cant do this anymore. So yea my question remains is there any way to get an anti-depressent along the lines of zoloft or ya know something like it without seeing a doctor???

(p.s.) - anyone who says "you should tell your parents" gets a rating of a 1 and i automatically dont like you.... (link)
Okay.. i dont care if you give me a 1 cuz that doesnt matter.. what matters is if you are okay! you need to tell your parents! You need to tell someone and you need to see a docter! sometimes the depresents dont work and they give you some side-effects ive had them before and they madde me loose 28 lbs in a month in a half.. you need to look it up on the internet for more information.. becareful with your descions.. you should see a therapest or a counciler.. it will help you! But if you care about your health- your life- your family- your friends- then you should tell your parents and get some help immediatly... ! I hope i helped.... i hope everything is okay for u, i pray for u =)


okay my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months.. the thing is.. he recently went on vacation for a week and he just got back last night and we only talked for a 1/2 hour this morning from the whole week and he didn't sound happy but he said he had a good time.. plus he didn't sound like he wanted to talk to me and he was grumpy so we got off the phone i said i would talk to him later. Ever since i have been trying to call him ALL day and hes not picking up his phone. His dad did once and i told him to have him call me back but he never did.. i tried callin till 11.. now i think hes gunna dump me!?.. one friend told me he thinks its cuz hes bored.. cuz we haven't made out yet.. but i don't think thats it.. but now im afraid next time i talk to him he'll dump me.. i really love him!
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omg.. i feel.. SOO bad.. the same thing happened to me.. exscept i went on vacation and my bf.. well ex dumped me 2 days after i got back.. =/ it sucked sooo bad!! cuz.. well i guess i could have done some stuff wit these 2 guys that were really hot.. i didnt do nething.. but now i wish i did! lol just haha.. go over to his house.. tackle him and makee out wit him =P or.. talk to him.. at least try to..! hope everything works out


Okay I am in love with this guy. We are friends but he doesn't know I like him. He is a year older than me but in the grade behind me.. ya not the smartest person and he is coming to my school next year. So, he thinks i'm hot but he doesn't like me. But I really like him do you know any way I could tell him and keep our friendship the way it is like not change it and do you know anyway i could maybe make him like me a little bit more (link)
tell him how you feel.. but u just wanna be friends and all that stuff..... and like flirt with him! ;) thats always fun! hehe


Okay,me and my bf had been going out for like a month now..I love him somuch and i think he feels the same..well he definetely said he did.And like today i was just like "do you think maybe we should just be friends since school is starting in like 2 weeks?" cuz he lives like 25-30 min. away so i only see him like twice a week :( and he was like "i don't know :( what do you think?" and i was just like "idk either cuz i think ur gonna like other girls at ur school" and like i just wanted to see if he would wanna do that and I dont know...we did break up and now i feel horrible..everyone that talks to him about it says that he is really heartbroken and he loves me a lot...but i dont know!We live far away and I think just maybe hes hiding his feelings :/ but I just dont know..help plz.. I MISS HIM! (link)
Just ask him out again!! and tell him what you just told me!! Do w/e that would make you happy, you BOTH happy!! i hope it works and hey.. if you love each other 2-3 days should be enough! besides there is ALWAYS the weekends! and then there is spring break... and thanksgiving and winter.. and yeah! all that neat stuff!! I HOPE IT WORKS FOR YOU BOTH!!


okay so there is this guy (grant) who is 16 (and im 15)that i have been talking to for about 3 n a half months and before school got out he told my best friend that he wanted to wait until summer to get with me that way he has more time to spend on me since hes busy w. school and now..its like he doesnt have enough time for me. i like him sOo much and he knows it but it seems like hes even more busy now that school is over. i dont know if i should wait for him or find somebody else but everytime i look at another guy i compare him to grant and there is just no 2nd place. some of my friends tell me that i should give up and my other friends tell me that i should wait but grant is everything that i ever wanted in a guy..HELP! (link)
Well tell him how you feel.. and that you really wanna do something with him during the summer and that summer is almost up and you really would like to get wit him.. haha that sounds weird.. but i hope you know what i mean.. and i hope everything works out with you and grant =)


i cut myself a lot just to make the pain go away and i told one person and they told me to tell my parent but i dont want to i wanna stop but i cant its just hard i need help can someone tell me wat to do please (link)
so.. your a cutter? eek... well... that sorta scares me.. but i'll try to help you.. go to a google.. and type in "cutters help" or the official name for it.. i dont know it.. and they will probably give you counciling things and you can probably tlak to your parents before you do this.. i really*** hope everything works out for you.. ill pray for ya! ;)


I love your advice.i mean well thanx u answered mine 2ce lol!but ya by now u no its Romeo and that the gurl i was talking about in the internet gurl advice well it was you.take advice from me i took urs.Give it a try,wat do u got to lose!lol u no u want me lol jkz but hey it was worth a try.well ttyl write back k?>
RoMeO Aka Me~ (link)
Oh... its you? lol really? haha i really didnt know.. umm i dont your colum and i dont know what to ask for advice at the momment.. but give you your colum and ill ask when i get the chance or have soemthin to ask!!!! thanks =)


what r some good products to remove makeup? say how much urs cost n where u got it plz! ill rate u!! also, how do u use ur products to actually get the make up off?? i need help to get my eyeliner off (both top and BOTTOM LASHES!!) i dont want my mom to think i look slutty, cuz she says ppl do when they were eyeliner, and sumtimes when i try to get the eyeliner/mascara off, itll take out sum of my eyelashes! i hate it cuz theyre my best feature n i dont want that happenning!! so plz help! (link)
Soap - 2$
Water - Free
Washcloth - 5$
Make up... Gone


This year my mom gave me a budget for school clothes, only 500 dollars. Last year I got twice as much and this money includes clothes, shoes, accesories, bras and panties! I'm spending my money wisely but what should I spend the most on and where should I go?
I spent 200 bucks today and didnt get hardly anything... I went to Buckle, Hollister, and Gadzooks! I need fashion HeLp please!! (link)
HOLY SHIT!! thats all i gotta say.. thats sooo much money!!!!!!! my god!!! jeezus your rich.. haha i barly get 100!! and i barly go school shopping only for stuff that i NEED*.. soo.. haha dont ask me!


My 14th birthday is comin up soon and i want to get my belly button pierced for my birthday because i have a nice body and with my belly button pierced, it would look really good. My parents said i couldn't get anymore piercings cuz i already have three piercings on my left and right ears and one more piercing on the top of my left ear. I really want my belly button pierced and i dont know how to convince both of my parents to let me get it done. Can someone please help me out lol? One more thing, if anyone would like to tell me how you get your belly button pierced like how they do it and etc, that would really help so i can show my parents and maybe they would let me get my belly button pierced.

Thanks (link)
Getting your belly button hurts a lot..!!! and you have to take care of it 24/7 you cant have NE ONE touch it.. not even yourself.. and if you do u have to wash your hands before and after!! you have to wear lowwww* pants so rubbing against it doesnt bother it but you can wear regular t-shirts! its nothing* like getting your ears pierced cuz its a lot* more work.. and i guess it is also worth it in the end cuz it does look good =).. sry if this changes your views.. just making you aware of what your goin to get into..


Does black really match with anything? (link)
Matches wit everything =) that or white..


Help guys, I'm scared to go to the club with my friends because I don't know how to dance! Like even when were just jokin aroudn and dancing I won't do it because I don't know how. I don't know how to move my arms, legs, or stomache. I honestly need help!
Thank You sooooo much (link)
Invite one of your friends over.. and tell them this.. =) you wanna have fun dont you? =) OR you can go to a dance class.. but that maybe even more uncomfertable for you


I'm 15, and I'm a 32D/DD. I wear a pant size 3 tho. I'm not FAT. I need to know if anyone knows any good stores for swim suits! I have a problem where I can never find a good suit because either the top is too small or the bottoms are too big. I like it when they sell them seperately. A lot of stores dont sell Xlarge tops too. I NEED HELP (link)
Delias, Deb, Pacsun, California sunwear - very expensive!!, umm target, marshells, macys, jcpennys!


kool aid as hair dye.. anyone ever try it? should i try doing it? i only want something temporary b/c schools all strict and stuff about hair color. i just wanna find out if its worth doing and what color would you think best on blonde hair? (link)
Kool aid does work!! ive done it before! red koolaid = pink =P you have to boil it and then stick your head in the pot! lol well it lasts for like 3-6 months or longer! so if u wanna do it go for it!!!!




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