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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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Hey im 13 years old and im a size 34B and i like to wear sports bra because they are most comfortable on me. The problem is that when I put them on my nipples show through the shirts even when Im wearing a bra. I dont know what to do and I dont want people to assume that im a slut or anything because i think this is gross too. What should I do as far as this issue?
Padded bras would help you with that problem. But since you like to wear sports bras, maybe try getting thicker shirts.
♥ Krissy
Everytime i talk on the phine with my boyfriend and we discuss sexual stuff, like maybe taking our relationship to the next step, i start to shake and i shake like i'm really cold, but i'm not..and even hours afterwards i keep shaking. What's going on?
You seem a little scared about this hole deal. If your not ready hun, it's not a big deal. He should wait till your 100% ready and if he loves you, he'll respect that!
♥ Krissy
Can the guy or girl get any type of STDs from fingering?
Nope, you can't get any STD from getting fingered. Only way you could if the guy had a cut on his finger then fingered you.
♥ Krissy
When getting fingered.. what do you do.. as the girl..
Sit there and enjoy it, kissing him would be one of the only things you could do.
♥ Krissy
If given the choice between Italian and German...which one should I pick to learn?
German sounds really cool when they talk it. My friends German and when she talks it, it's amazing. But Italian is great too. I'd go with Italian, but it's really up to you!
♥ Krissy
ok this might be stupid but im going to ask anyways..me and my boyfriend have only been together for 8 days..but i know its love..its hard to explain but we've known eachother for awhile and last night i relized i was in love with him.hes my entire world..could this be love?
You can be in love. It doesn't matter if your going out for a week, month, or year. You can fall in love at any point in a relationship. It's great that you fell in love. Being in love is the best feeling in the world.
♥ Krissy
I'm 14 years old, and I want my hair dyed. Like I want a drastic change SORTA. My hair right now is Dark Blonde. I don't want like blue pink colors though. I'm white, and my face is sorta red usually. I'm not really tan, I am sometimes. But not always. Whats a good hair color for me =)
I think a lighter blonde/brown would look cute. Since your already a dark blonde, light blonde would look nice. Not too light though, maybe like a strawberry blonde?
♥ Krissy
how come some people dont have a column but they have a column name..every time i try to view like a few peoples columns but it says - No column was found with the specified username, or there was an error in the username specified. If you'd like this name for yourself, register at Advicenators.com and start your own free advice column! -->what is this?
It could be many things really. You could be spelling their name for their page wrong. Sometimes when they have spaces between their name, you don't see it. It could also be because they deleted their column or they haven't updated it in a really long time.
♥ Krissy
My aqquaintance *Ashton used to be my best guy friend, we would talk to each other on the phone till 1:30. Sometimes for 1 or 2 hours. He started getting cocky and we starting distancing from each other. One day I just decided "THAT's ENOUGH!" Finally I got the guts to confront him. Except I didn't do it in such a nice way. "Yah your pissing me off. Excuse me but your being a cocky son of a bi*ch. and we are all getting effing tired of it. so give up your not hot sh*t like you think you are." OKay that was real rude of me but I mean't everything I said. I don't want to forgive him because I really want to let him know I mean what I say. Though it sucks because I sort of miss his friendship. HELP ME PLEASE!! IM me if you feel like it; pinkishmango24
P.S. I am in desperate need of advice.
* - Different name, this is satefy of embarassment of either of us.
You have to talk to him and tell him your sorry for being so rude. You just had so much anger built up in you because of him. Then when you finally let it out, everything came out the wrong way. Try explaining to him in a nice way what is bothering you, then maybe both of you can become friends. Even though it's going to take sometime, I'm sure he's worth building your old friendship up again.
♥ Krissy
How do you put a link to your Picturetrail/MyWebshots Site on your advice column?
Go to "Profile Settings". Scroll down to "Part 111: Stuff We Show To Everyone". Where it says "Website URL", put the URL of your Picturetrail/Webshots in there. Then underneath where it says "Website Title", put what you want your clicked link to be. Ex: My pictures, picture page, pictures of me. Then go down and click "Submit".
♥ Krissy
I have stretch marks on my boobs!!!!! Is this normal? Do most girls have this? What causes it, and can I get rid of them???
This is normal hun. Most girls have stretch marks because your boobs grow too fast. To get rid of the stretch marks you can use some cocoa butter on them everyday. Then after awhile the stretch marks will fade.
♥ Krissy
i like this kid but the thing is that i have never talked to him and hes a year younger than me and i just think that he is nice and all that but i really like him..what should i do?please dont say go up to him and talk to him because im really shy around new people..
Since you don't want to go up and talk to him, you could get one of your friends that knows him to introduce both of you guys. Then maybe that way you won't be so shy having your friend with you. And then you guys can start hanging out and such!
♥ Krissy
no, and my name is spelt ashleigh
Alright. It'll be up tomorrow, no worries!
♥ Krissy
i already looked, its not there
il0v33m0
Ahhh, damnit. I deleted it when I changed my picture page around. I'll make a new one tomorrow, promise. Do you have anything you want it to say?
♥ Krissy
wheres my salute?
il0v33m0
It's on my page hun! Check it out. (I hope I spelt your name right).
♥ Krissy
does anyone know of any good s/n ideas. i'm looking for a new screenanme and i was wondering if people could just give some random ones. i asked beofre but people only gave ideas like "pick something that is your fave and some of your numbers before and after it".... well that didnt help to much. so please and thanks.
xMizz.Sexyx, *Little_Ladiie*, xCuteThangx, -Baby.G-, *Hot*N*Sexy*, x.(Your name).x, DropItLikeIts_Hooot, ~QT~, *BabyThang*, xxOne&Onlyxx, $PerFecT$. If you need anymore, just AIM me!
♥ Krissy
hi i'm 14 year old girl and my friend has this boyfriend who she's been dating for 11 months and he totally cheats on her! i;ve told her about it many times! finally she asked him about it when i told her he frenched one of my friends! after she talked to him about it she said it was ok cause he said it was only a friendship kiss cause she was down in the dumps! i told her that it was on the lips tounge and all and she was like i know! she believes EVERYTHING he says! wut should i do? she won't listen to me! can't just sit there and watch him cheat on her!help plz!
If she doesn't want to believe you, it's her lost. She should beleive her friend over her boyfriend any day. Next time you see him cheating on her, call her up and tell her to go where he is. Then she can see with her own two eyes. Or maybe even catch him in the act. Take a picture if he kisses some girl and show her the picture. It's a picture and pictures can't lie. Even though, just keep being there for her. She'll need you when this boy does break her heart. Then she'll realize what a good friend you are in the first place, by trying to get thru to her about the hole cheating deal.
♥ Krissy
I know this sounds stupid but here it goes..THere is this guy at our school that FLIRTS with all the girls, but he flirts with me the most and all the girls say so to. I really like him too. He always plays footsie ne and like he always drinks out the same cup as me and then he is like oh sorry but I can tell he does it on perpose and he tries to hold my hand. THe only thing is we are not going out, and this has been going on for about 2 months and I just cant stand it why wont he as kme plz type back
He could be too shy to tell you that he actually does like you. Drop him some hints and flirt more then you usually do, maybe he'll get the hint. If he doesn't, tell him you like him, make the first move! Maybe you chould ask him to a movie sometime then see where it goes from there.
♥ Krissy
i have this crush on a guy in my class and i have liked him the whole year. I dont know if he likes me back. Some times i get mixed signals like one time he called me and asked for homework for no reason b/c he really arleady knew that we didnt, but also i would love it if we were really good friends but i dont know how to ask him. Plz help if you can thanks
Girl, he called because he likes you. He didn't have anything to say, but yet he called you and made something up, just to hear your voice. That's cute. Make the first move. He's probably too shy to do so. Ask him to a movie or to come hangout at your place sometime!
♥ Krissy
I'm supposed to go to the movies with a guy I've liked for awhile now, tomarrow. We've hung out before and stuff and we've make out and some other things and he told me he really liked me. So, on my birthday he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with some of our friends and of corse I said yes.I went and it turned out he never went so my birthday kind of sucked. Then he asked me again another day if I wanted to go to the movies and I said yeah. Ended up that he never even called me about it.Oh,and he never appologized either time. Do ya'll think I should trust him to come tomarrow, or do you think I should just invite somebody else?
You should go. He could actually come this time and if your not there, you'll be standing him up. Give him this one last chance and if he blows you off again, too bad for him. Like the say, three strikes your out! I hope he goes with you tomorrow, good luck hun.
♥ Krissy