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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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If I havent talked to someone in more than 4 months, would it be really strange for me to call him? I don't seem to be a good judge about this kind of stuff.


~Nokomis~

Call him hun. Go for it. I'm sure everything will go great!
♥ Krissy

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I have a friend that graduated last year, I dont see him much, would it be too akward for me to call him now even though I havent seen hime but once in the last 4 months?

~Nokomis~

I think you should call him. It's never to late for old friends to catch up on things.
♥ Krissy

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ok i know this one girl who ive known since last year we sat at the same lunch table, then this year we have spanish together..were not close but we do talk here and there. she went out with guy danny whos in 11th grade and they recently broke up after 6 months or so. my other friend had met him in a chat and they talk and so on, and anyways we were going to the mall on saturday and so we went. we come back and shes at my house waiting for her mom to pick her up so were talking to him on-line n seemed nice. so after she left we started talking and all, i seem a lil into him i dk, i saw him be4 like once or twice with the girl who went out with him. i just found out that he was in my lunch last sem and all so i kinda knew who he wasnt, i just never saw him only the back or something when the 2 were leavin the caf. i dont know if hes into me or something i never actually met him or anything, but im affaird to accept if he ever asks me out since i have friends who were friends with who he went out with, plus i also know her as well. then today my other friend who was over my house saturday night says she was confused and i asked why and she said bc she "bc i have a bf and i also like danny a lil" and i said "o0o the one from other night on-line?" and she said "yeah" and i just went "o0o" and she asked "y?" and i just said "j/w" and now i dk what to do, bc i dont want to hurt either of them if he ever asks me, which i know he would never do ask me but u never know.

~i know its long n a lil confusing sry

(btw he is in 11th (which i meantioned) and me n the 2 girls r in 9th)

Since you friend likes him, you shouldn't hurt your friendship over a guy. Guys come and go hun, but friends are there till the end. You never know, he could ask you, you don't know that for sure. But if he does, back off. Because you don't want your friend to hate you over a guy. There's many of guys out there that you can crush on, that your friend isn't crushing on at the sametime as you.
♥ Krissy

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17/f
Hey
My bf of two months (I knew him for a year before that though) and my best friend of 5 years, just don't get on. They are always arguing and, to be fair, it is him who always starts the arguements. They have always been like this but it's gotten far worse recently and it's coming to the point where I have to chose between my friend and boyfriend. My friend wins, hands down, but how do I tell my boyfriend that?
Ta muchly!
Jena xxxxx

Best thing you can do is to tell your boyfriend this. He has to know. Maybe you could break it to him in a nice understanding way. Just tell him that you know your best friend and him don't get along very well. And maybe he chould stop starting some fights with her. He could be mad because you taking her "side", but he has to know. And if he loves you, he'll understand that your best friend means everything to you. Then maybe he'll stop getting into fights with her for YOU.
♥ Krissy

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i'm 15/f and have an amazing boyfriend. i love being around him and and doing things with him sexually, but for some reason i don't want to make out. like, he's a really good kisser but i just don't like it. he wants to make out and doesn't understand why i don't. if anyone has any thoughts or ideas as to why this is i'd really appreciate hearing what you have to say!

Just tell him you don't want to make out. Tell him that it's not him, like he's not a bad kisser or anything. You just don't enjoy it as much as him. But maybe you could make out sometimes, just to make your boyfriend happy. Other then that, he should respect the fact that you don't want to.
♥ Krissy

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I asked this girl out once before and she turned me down for another guy, but she said that she really liked me she just wanted to see if there was anything between them. They just broke up recently. I still like her. Should i give it a try?

She turned you down because she wanted to see if there was anything between the other guy and her? That's pretty stupid of her and not nice at all. Even though, you like her and she likes you, go for it. But just make sure she's not playing you. Don't want you getting hurt again over her!
♥ Krissy

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Ok..I use liquid foundation by maybelline but every time I put it on it like gets "crusty?" and its like gross and it makes my face look weird. Its like it separates into little pieces..my mom says its just "dry skin?" but like i try scrubbing it off with those stridex pads but it takes the makeup off but not the skin stuff. i also used to use noxema but that didnt do anything with it either. i have found out that apricot scrub stuff kind of works. but it seems like it will just come back after my face dries. i have also tried using other kinds of foundation..for instance that new dream matte mousse stuff and also powder kinds. ugh this really makes me mad to see my face all like this. should i put lotion on it?? what kinds?? i have tried some but grrr! also..i dont have bad acne all over but i have kind of a lot on my chin and like one teeny one on my forehead..but is there any good products out there?? sorry for this being so long. Please help! :'( Thanx!!

Bensajel. It works great. Just go to your doctor and ask him/her about it. It helps to clear up all the pimples, takes the oil away and also the dryed up skin.
♥ Krissy

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as said on the subject i have a plugged nose and a soar throat.. the end part of my throat is really really itchy and i can't make it stop ='( and my ears hurt they feel kinda really itchy too i've been rubbing it with a qtip buh it doesn't work wut else can i do? what kinda medicine shud i take? is buckleys good? they advertise it alot.. plz help.. thx

Buckleys does work good. Even though it taste totally gross, it will help you. You can also get drops for sore ears. You can probably get them at a drugstore. I'd still go see a doctor if I were you though. You could have a throat infection along with an ear infection. I'm sure he/she will give you the right medicine needed.
♥ Krissy

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what does IM mean??? i've been told to IM someone... i'm confused!!! lol. is it some american thingy??? coz i'm australian.

Your Australian? That's so cool. What's it like over there? Anyways, onto your question. No, you can't have MSN Messenger and talk to someone that has AOL. You have to have AOL to talk to them.
♥ Krissy

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do you believe in soul mates?

I believe in soul mates. But I don't believe that everyone has a person their suppose to be with. People fall in love with all different kinds of people. When you find the right one, you'll know. Even though it's not the one your "suppose" to be with, your with because you KNOW he/she is the one your ment to be with.
♥ Krissy

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Hi. I met this guy at work. He was really adoreable and hott. So, later on in the week, I'd look up and see him looking at me.
It was like that for weeks, and finally after much advise from my best friend, she convinsed me to ask him to the movies. I did, and he was going away that weekend. He dissapeared for like 2 weeks and we didnt see him at work. I was very depressed, I had gotten very attached to my little curly headed surfer.
Finally he showed back up at work and quit. Me being the stupid person I am, I forgot to get his phone number. ( I was so kicking myself for that later). So my best friend tells me to look it up in the phonebook. I did, and called him. We hung out the next day, and hung out alot ever since then. We've partied together and everything, and he acted like he really liked me.
Finally we made out. Nearly had sex but I stopped myself. We were hanging out another time after that and he told me that he asked a girl out, that he used to go to school with. He had mentioned her before, but just said she was his best friend! I was like WHAT? I was so hurt, but decided I'd let it go. Next thing, was he was moving back to his home-town state and going to college there. Where SHE lived. So (again advise from my friend) I was told if it made me feel better, to write him a letter and let him know how I felt. I did. A LONG LETTER! I didnt give it to him right away, and then I went and hung out at his house again and we made out and did some pretty serious stuff...WHILE he had a girlfriend now. I gave him the letter and I called him two days after and acted weird..of course, I understand, it was a pretty emotional letter. He moved away, and thats been nearly 2 months ago and I'm still now having difficultys getting completely over him. True, we never 'had anything going'. But he came and picked me up everytime we hung out, even when I said I'd drive over there to hang out, and he didnt try kissing me or anything EVERYTIME so he wouldnt just be using me. My friends all say he's a jerk and to forget about him, but I can't! I've thought I've been in love before, but I never knew what "falling in love" meant until I met him. What do I do? I can move on, but I can't forget about him? What do I say to him when I do get in contact with him. WHAT DO I DO?
I need advise, HELP!

You don't have to forget about him at all. But you have to move on. Just because your moving on doesn't mean you'll actually forget everything that went on between you and this boy. Your first love will never die, ever. I know it's hard, but moving on is the best thing. Try getting out there and dating some guys. This guy wasn't your Mr.Right and you need to realize that and everything between you guys weren't ment to be. If it was, you'd both be together right now. Think of it this way, you're that much closer to finding that guy that won't break your heart. You got to have a few bad ones before you get the right one.
♥ Krissy

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whats 1 + 5?

Enough with the stupid questions! Send anymore like this and I'm not answering them.
♥ Krissy

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whats 2 + 5?

7.
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whats 5 + 5?

10.
♥ Krissy

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ok well ive been goin out wit this guy 4 about 2/3 months and we still didnt kiss he alwayz sayz he is gonna kiss me and wen he is wit me he he dont stay by me at all he alwayz makes ^ exuses about y he didnt tak 2 me n stuf i realy like this guy & he tells me he luvs me & he tells his friendz he loves me but i dont this he realy likez me ! he also dont like some of mi friendz i think & he says they r the reason y he dont tak to me and i think it is wrong i am not alowed to have a boyfrend cuz i am only 12 and he alwayz says he wanna hang out n stuff but when we do hang out his frendz alwayz come before me and he ignores me n wen i talk to him about it he says he tried n stuff and im getting tired of it ! i really like him ! so wat do i do !please help mee
is he shy , scared of me or wat?

This guy doesn't sound like he loves you very much. If he loved you, he'd want to be with you all the time, he wouldn't put his friends infront of you (especially ditch you and ignore you). You seem a lot more mature then him and you want a boyfriend you can actually be with and spend time with. This guy is so immature. If he really ment everything he says about you, he'd actually want to hangout with you! Since you really like this guy, stay with him. But if he keeps doing this to you; ignoring you, ditching you, not talking to you or kissing you. Dump him! He shouldn't be with a girl like you. You should be with someone that puts a smile on your face, not tears in your eyes! Remember, you got to meet a few wrong ones before you get the right one.
♥ Krissy

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well, i'm into the whole punk-rock scean. the real stuff (anti-flag, bouncing souls ect.) but anyway my friends aren't they think they are so cool because they listen to Jessica Simpson. So i've kinda grown away from my chick friends and started hanging out with guys but i need some chick friends around to help with the boy troubles and what not. But i can't have a conversation with them without them either getting mad at me or judging me. it really pisses me off.

I'd rather hangout with guys, their a lot funner. If the girls don't take you for who you are, they aren't worth being your friend at all. And if you ever need to talk about any girl things, I'm here for you! Just IM me.
♥ Krissy

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hey im having a superbowl party and should i decorate for the patriots or the eagles..(which one of them will win) IM thinking patriots all the way but what about you guys?

Patriots rule! But maybe you could decorate for both. So the fans of Patriots and Eagles will be happy.
♥ Krissy

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I want to go to this school that like everyone in my family has gone too. But there's this girl that i really like and im in love with her but she kind of sends me mixed signals. Like im not sure if she likes me or if she loves me or if she has no feeling for me at all. It kind of seems like she likes me or loves me but i don't want to assume anything. She's going to a different school than the one i want to go to but i would do anything for this girl. Even if that means go to a different school for her. So im confused about if i should go to the school i want to go to and try to stay close with her if she likes me. Or go to the school she's going to so i can be with her all the time. And i've tried to talk to her to see how she feels about me but she didn't answer she wanted me to not base my decision on her so i was wandering what i should do

You really have to talk to this girl so you know if she likes you or not. If you go to the school she's going to and she doesn't like you, that's going to suck. Don't give up your dreams in life just to be with a girl. If it's ment to be everything will fall into place. Just follow your heart on this one, but take your brain with you.
♥ Krissy

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jon loves youuuuuu

I love you too!
♥ Krissy

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whatcha doing tonighttttttt

One of my friends is coming over!
♥ Krissy

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