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Question Posted Tuesday February 1 2005, 3:34 pm

ok i know this one girl who ive known since last year we sat at the same lunch table, then this year we have spanish together..were not close but we do talk here and there. she went out with guy danny whos in 11th grade and they recently broke up after 6 months or so. my other friend had met him in a chat and they talk and so on, and anyways we were going to the mall on saturday and so we went. we come back and shes at my house waiting for her mom to pick her up so were talking to him on-line n seemed nice. so after she left we started talking and all, i seem a lil into him i dk, i saw him be4 like once or twice with the girl who went out with him. i just found out that he was in my lunch last sem and all so i kinda knew who he wasnt, i just never saw him only the back or something when the 2 were leavin the caf. i dont know if hes into me or something i never actually met him or anything, but im affaird to accept if he ever asks me out since i have friends who were friends with who he went out with, plus i also know her as well. then today my other friend who was over my house saturday night says she was confused and i asked why and she said bc she "bc i have a bf and i also like danny a lil" and i said "o0o the one from other night on-line?" and she said "yeah" and i just went "o0o" and she asked "y?" and i just said "j/w" and now i dk what to do, bc i dont want to hurt either of them if he ever asks me, which i know he would never do ask me but u never know.

~i know its long n a lil confusing sry

(btw he is in 11th (which i meantioned) and me n the 2 girls r in 9th)


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MummuM answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 5:34 pm:
Since you friend likes him, you shouldn't hurt your friendship over a guy. Guys come and go hun, but friends are there till the end. You never know, he could ask you, you don't know that for sure. But if he does, back off. Because you don't want your friend to hate you over a guy. There's many of guys out there that you can crush on, that your friend isn't crushing on at the sametime as you.
♥ Krissy

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Nokomis answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 4:03 pm:
If you're not really into him why would you consider going out with him, don't date just to say that your with someone, you'll be respected more if you wait until you find someone you really click with. If you did date him you might hurt your friend, honestly I don't think its worth it, if it were, you would definately know.

Plus age or grade doesn't really matter.

~Nokomis~

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