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Q: Why to u all come to this web site to ask questions these people know just about as much as u
The people that need help come here for the help that they dont know or might learn some extra information.. seems to me like your asking a question and im sure you already know the answer so i got you caught ;) ~~trix~~

Q: By the way, I don't care if I SEEM desperate.I just want to help people if they want help...sorry for spazzing out before but you guys can get really harsh even if you didn't mean to.
Helping is good and every advicenator on here can relate to this-trix

Q: what are some intelligent, in depth questions i could ask a world war 2 veteran for an interveiw
Go to askjeeves ask about important events and dates-trix

Q: ok im an african american girl. i go to a prodominatly white school. and im not racist but some of the kids think like all the black people that go to my school are racist. im not racist against white people i like everybody n if i hate you its not because your race its because i hate you. or if i like you.. yea you get it but anyways im not racist but the white kids at my school say some racist comments and they have a lot of sterotypes about black people and then they watch to much tv. they think that all black men are in jail which is not true because i know alot of wealthy successful black men n then they think that all black women are video hoes.. n that aint true because i know alot of successful black women. and alot of their comments are just stupid and unnecessary and it pisses me off. like to the point where im ready to just beat them down. because they go by what they hear and not what they know. so i need a different way to over come there lil racists comments because if i do beat one of them down i already kno its gonna be shame on me and not shame on them because thats how my school is. and like i said i dont have anythin against white people but at my school if somethin happens they go to the black kids before they even try and think about anybody else. I NEED SOME HELP!
Tell them to get their facts straight and to go by what they know and not by what they hear... i totally hear you out.. some white people hated me because i was related to 3 black people.. it was herb and 2 sisters of mine.. but they didnt no crap they were racists and those people will never be gone in this world. But maybe you could go to your consolar or transfer schools with less assholes :) i hope you speak up!-trix

Q: But the people they don't understand

No, girlfriends, they can't understand

Your grandsons, they won't understand

On top of this I ain't ever gonna understand
Thats good-trix

Q: I'm 13 and I want a dog. I have never had one in my entire life. I need a friend because no onle likes me, what should I do? PS I know who you are!
creepy.. not really you could be one of my friends if so.. hello... if not... freaky but just tell your parents you need a friend and you'd like a dog-trix

Q: I think I'm addicted to the internet. I'v been on for at least 6 hours today. The thing is though, I don't know if me being on this long partly has to do with the fact that I hardly go on all week becasue I don't have the time. Is there any way somebody can help me. The time is 12:07 am right now and I got on at 8:30 (probably only taking a 30 minute to an hour break)
I feel so crappy!
Well dont worry everybody gets caught up with the internet! it is like its own lil world!-trix

Q: ok.. does anyone else get lyk.. rEaLLy dumb questions.. but when you delete them or wutever.. tha people IM you and get mad??
No never happaned to me.. I answer my questions all the time the only time i reject is if it got asked twice-trix

Q: i have been tryin my best to give you guys good advice and i hope im doing a good job..but no one seems to be answering me back...does this mean im no help??...could someone help me and tell me how im doin??
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I am sure you are doing just fine courtney dont worry there are alot of us advice helpers so not everyone is going to come to you so dont worry ~trix

Q: i normally get my period every 21 days like clock work. I was supposed to have it 4 days ago and haven't gotten it yet. I'm really worried that something is going on. To be possibly pregnant right know would not be good. My parents would not take it well at all. Me either actually. I don't feel any different,except no period. Tell me what you think?
Well get a test... i was Really really late like 4 months late.. thats because i was really active.. if you are active during the summer or whenever and is in sports then that could be why.. but if your extremely worried like i was after about 3 and half months i talked to my mom and about a week or 2 later i got it... it was a cawinsidence maybe..-trix

Q: I know this may sound very stupid, and I knwo there's nothign us girls can do about it...but just let me vent...
Am I the only one who thinks it's irritationg that only girls go through periods, having the baby (even though its a blessing, but it hurts), and they are the one's who are mostly aboused by men adn get made fun of sometimes for doing certain things that men are usually known for doing most of the time, even thuogh women can too. It just makes me so mad, becasue the boys rub it in our faces and the only thing that hurts them is when they get hit in the wrong place. I'm sorry this is just stupid and I don't have anything against the males about this but I just wanted to get everything out and see if I'm the only one who feels this way.
Your not.. and plus honestly we the girls are the only ones strong enough to have a baby because they would cry.. they cant handle that pain and there voice cracks haha thats funny! and we are allowed to show our emotions but if a guy does... then its kinda wierd but you feel bad for them anyways.. but your not the only one your not a random wierdo-trix

Q: My period is a few days later than usual...and no I know what you're thinking...Im a virgin so I'm NOT pregnant...I'm just nervous because Ive been sick and I don't know if that has to do with the fact that I am sick...or if its just normal because I'm kind of new to this....please help!
Well if you just started to get your period you will be irregular for 4-8 months and i read in a magazine its gunna come at funky times until your at least 18 or so-trix

Q: Okay, I have a question now. Here it is:
How can I feel the fire?
(*thinking* If only Gackt were an advicenator!)
(*Sings* I need to feel the fire, fire, fire! To keep me warm, I got to feel the fire!!!)

URQUAT!!!!!! TOG!!!!! Okay, I'm done now. (^_^;)
You could get burnt so dont feel the fire just be near the fire!~trix

Q: I know this person, he's not a real being, more like an anthropomorphic manifestation, but I feel he doesn't like me. What can I do?
Well talk to him and be nice... compliments help :)-trix

Q: Hey I have a question it seems no matter where I go I hear a song by Hilary Duff and I see her on Tv. Naturally I have nothing against her or for her. Now What is so great and what isn't? Don't tell me she is a good role model because a good role model would encourage a person to be comfortable with themselves and she isn't example: height. Think about your future example Bys a 400 dollar vintage shirt for a "BOYFRIEND" so just comments would be great.


Cspinoza1
Yeah exactly I understand there and the way she plots her makeup on... I think other then jessica simpson lacking knowledge... she's a good role model she isnt slutty or anything-trix

Q: I recently found a poem at my school of some girl who wanted to do suicide. I didnt know what to do so i did nothing and i regret it som much- knowing i could have, just maybe done something to prevent ther suicidal and then in my schools avice column i read some girl talk about how her friend cuts herself and how she used to but stopped. Whenever i read about suicide, i feel guilty in thought she killed herself. How can i feel better?
Well why dont you try to find out who did it and you can't help what happaned it might have already been to late and sometimes people do joke around like that just to get attention or to be funny to see how people react to something like that-trix

Q: dodododo....stop.....and go.... in your eyes... stop... and go.... let me go...
Why are Llama's Man-eating Spiting machines?!
What song is this from...
Leave me alone... I'm in control... I'm in control... Girls act too much... Boys act to Tough... Enough is enough... We're on the minds of other men I know she was... I said jsut take it or leave or take it or leave or take it or leave or take or leave it oh just take it or leave or take it or leave it?!...
A) Weezer ... B) The Strokes... C) Phantom Planet...
D) other...
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Q: My boyfriend, we'll call him *Bob*, and i always fight...like seriously, we can't get through a day with out fighting about something. but i love him with all my heart...and couldn't break up with him even if i tried...but what should i do? i can't handle all the argueing?
Well just stop and think before you speak and watch what you say and talk to him about it but maybe it means you may need to take a momentarily break for the time being-trix

Q: hey im only 15 and everyone thinks i have done like eveerything wit a guy and i want out wit alot of guys and all we did was just kiss on the lips but no make out and my longest relationship was 5 weeks and we didnt do much but anyways my last bf was for 2 weeks and it was 3 weeks ago and he still likes me but i dumped him cuase i didnt wanan make out wit him cause i thought i would be bad at it and now i like him and i wanna make out wit him..and he told eveyrone he wanted to and i dunno wat to do any tips pelase help me
Go back out with him and if he likes you he will respect you for what you are willing to do-trix

Q: Ok, I talked to the guy online. Ive hade two coincidences where he seemed to like me. I was sitting there like "Everyone at school hates me..." And then he came up with "Well..I dont hate you." SO you know I was like frozen. So then later I was talking to him on AIM. I said my stepsister was like "Oh, now that I have my own friends, I wont hang out with you. I dont need you." He was like. "Oh.." And I was like "Yea." So then hes like "Well you can hang out with me." Is it just me or does he like me? You kinda have to know him to know the way he said it and they way he is. But, from what you know, what do u think?
He may just have been just been being kind i dont know if saying he likes you is pushing it but it could very well be-trix

bio
bAhAmAmA0250
My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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