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Recently iv been having some mental issues (looong story) and now that im over the depression and feeling happier generally getting back to how i was a few months ago, i was telling my freind what was on my mind and remembered a few things about back in school like when i had these dreams about Dark figures pulling me towards them without resistance no matter what i tryed.
If you'v ever seen the game "Shadow of the collosus" you'll get what i mean when huge shadow'y figures pull me towards them, the main figures outline were like those monsters on the game.
There was also another dream i had when i was with one of my old school mates outside his house doing somthing and this car drives past and i run back in to the house the man in the car chased me untill he had my leg locked up with my face pressed in to the stairs, my friend and his family were stood behind me for ages just chatting about what was happening quite calmly while i was still on the floor obviously struggling for help.
there's a couple of other times i'v had dreams like this but its only happend 3 times in my life.
Im 19 Male. any other info needed?
You should talk to a counselor about it. There's plenty of reasons why you could have been having those dreams.
Me and my boyfriend have been together almost two months, but we been friends for nearly a year. His parents approve, mines don't. Mines are hardcore Asian parents. Race matter to my parents, perfection matters, but those are like parts of the reason they don't want me to date him. Also age is. I am 19, we both are. They say we are too young and wants me to focus on school. Well I do focus on school, but I also want a boyfriend. but they are like no, either boyfriend or move out. Well I tried to tell them I can do both. But they want us to end our relationship in the end. So since we want to be serious and our relationship is serious, he told me to move in with him and his family. I been considering because of all the restrictions put on us. I am 19 my parents treat me like I am 16. I have money saved but no job, and he has a job. We are planning on me moving out tomorrow. But I am scared if it might be too soon. What do you think I should do. I want my freedom. Should I wait a few days.
You have to think about what would happen if you guys were to break up. Could you easily go back home? Would your parents kick you out permanently? If you break up and your parents won't allow you to move back in, you shouldn't go then. You wouldn't have a place to live and if you guys weren't together anymore then frankly he probably wouldn't care. If he would always help you out and your parents would allow you to live with them again, then you might want to consider it.
so theres this boy ilike at my skool & way before itld him iliked him we were like iquess berly getinq to know eachh other like when we would see eachh other we woulddd huq & sometimess txt & so ya he had told my friendd tht he thinkss im kute & he would like to get to know me but it doesnt seem like he does:/ so itook ashot & tld him ilikedd him & he said exactly this'haha they had tld me(;
Ask him how he feels about you. Believe it or not, guys normally like girls who are straight forward with them. Also, you don't want to waste your time on someone who doesn't feel the same way back. If he likes you, you'll know.
My computer says that I'm not connected to the internet when i try to download things but i am connected to the internet. The internet works but it doesn't allow me to download anything and it doesn't allow any downloads to work. I was wondering what can i do to resolve this problem. Thanks in advance.
It's probably your antivirus program. Check the settings and see if it disables downloads.
What does it mean to see a future with someone? As in your significant other. Does that mean marriage and kids?
And I understand that for different people it means different things, but I hear people throw this phrase around all the time so I'm asking what it means in the mainstream sense.
It means that you see them in your future. That doesn't necessary mean marriage or kids but just that they're with you.
I will try to make this short and sweet. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 and half months now. In the beginning he used to tell me how perfect, cute, amazing and incredible I was. Used to text me till he fell asleep and every morning. Now after we have become official he does not tell me all the cute mushy things as much anymore. I am scared he is loosing interest or is this a common occurrence between couples? The only thing that has not changed is when we are in person. He always has his arms around me and tells me he loves me in person and we always have amazing times, but I lost the part where he would tell me his feelings all the time and say cutesy things over text and aim. Advice please!
Don't fret about texting and aim messages. What's important is how he treats you in person.
In December I finally got up enough courage to dump my boyfriend of two years. Probably the main reason we were even dating for that long is because he was a manipulative asshole. He was also 8 years older than me, I'm 19. He twisted my life so much that by the end of the relationship I didn't even know who I was. I knew who I had been and wanted to be, which was, IS and always will be: happy. But I was miserable because he managed to make me forget that. Much drama followed though I tried to stay away from him. I've only had contact with him once after that and it was on accident. Anyway, that relationship was my first one, and I think it really messed me up in what I feel/expect/know of and about men.
However, something interesting happened. Soon after we broke up I was at a party in my hometown that my friend dragged me to (I was down on winter break) and I didn't really know anyone. She was with her boyfriend, so not wanting to be alone I started talking to the DJ who I actually found very attractive. I'd also been trying to learn how to DJ so we talked about that, which turned into talking about music, and finding out we have the same tastes...which led to getting a drink and talking...I was also a little tipsy, so eventually we kissed some and then I had to leave. We exchanged information and being a little out of it I texted him that I liked him. He answered back that he really liked me too. I was in no position to like anyone at the time, so when I saw the message the next day, I ignored it. The whole month of January, even after going back to school he was inviting me places (he actually doesn't live too far from my school as it turns out) and I kept ignoring him or being busy because of drama with my ex and my wanting to be "alone" until one day I agreed to go out with him and his friends to an event. That day was probably one of the best days I've ever had in my life. It truly was that fun. His friends were all hilarious, super nice, and he was great. So we started hanging out. I had always wanted a close group of friends just like the people I met and so I fell in love with the atmosphere and crowd. It was a big difference, hanging out with people my own age, enjoying life, not worrying about things. With my old boyfriend we would sit around and do nothing, he would talk about his career a lot, and resent me for ever going out with friends from school. He was rude, obnoxious, condescending, never impressed by anything I did...so this was an amazing change of pace. As me and this boy get closer, it turns out hes incredibly sweet, fun, generous, open, optimistic, loving, etc etc....not to mention he worships me. I felt like I was living a fairy tale. He eventually after a month of dating asked me to be his girlfriend, and me, afraid of it being too soon, said no. Well two weeks after that I said yes because my friends made me realize I shouldn't give up such an opportunity because of a bad relationship. Now its going great and everyday he is sweeter and we have better and better moments. He is absolutely amazing to me, and this is where my issue comes in, I'm having trouble accepting this. I have never met any guy to treat me like he does and do things for me out of sheer want of doing things for me. Its my ex's fault of course, because whenever he did things, they usually had a elfish reason behind them, or it was a test, or he expected something back, or he felt obligated because of so and so reason....this is completely different. This boy adores me, he is sweet, a good guy...I really, truly appreciate him. I don't ever doubt him...its just my emotions, they are dulled.
The reason I am a bit worried is because the other day when I went online to search something on his computer, recent history came up and showed he had searched "how soon do you wait before you say I love you" This is incredibly sweet but it made me realize hes at a level that I am not, even though he has been amazing to me. And I feel that I am not able to be at that level because of my past. He is also only 3 months older than me and I'm pretty sure this might be his first legitimate relationship that hes taken seriously, which may be why he feels so strongly. I do not under any circumstance want to hurt him, but I feel like its going to take a lot more time for me to be able to love, and if indeed he says it and I am not ready to, how can I react? I don't know what I should do, or say...he is the sweetest, most genuine person I've met and I truly do not want to hurt him...
Do not let your past relationship ruin this one. You might not be ready to say you love him yet. That's okay. Don't lie to him either. However, if he does tell you then the best thing to do is to tell him exactly how you feel and that you have the potential to love him as well but you want to take your time with him. You shouldn't freak out when he tells you. You're scared. That's normal. Tell him that. But reacting negatively might screw things up for you guys and it seems like he's a pretty decent guy.
Can you get an STD without sexual intercourse with another person?
It depends. If you think it's possible that you have one, see a doctor and get tested.
I just got a keyboard for the iPad and iPod. It works very well with my iPod but I have this one app called 'Write' and it doesn't work well at all with the keyboard however the normal 'notes' app that comes with the iPod works fine with the keyboard.
Are there any good word processing apps for my iPod that will probably work with my new keyboard? Thanks in advanced?
Check out Apple forums. They always have good topics like that.
telling that special someone you like them & after youuu tell them they stop talkinqq to you
They're probably not ready for a relationship. Give them some space and try talking to them again at a later time.
i have a 3.82 gpa and im earning in the 1900's on my sats. i am a girl and i have been playing the french horn for 8 years now. i have extracurriculars that reflect my skill and interest in music. could i possibly have a better chance of getting into certain schools due to the fact that i play the french horn? is it very helpful? also, do colleges like to see a steady passion for something? im not looking to get into ivy leagues, but maybe schools along the lines of michigan, wisconsin, maryland, etc.
Playing an instrument is a good extracurricular to have. Talk to your teacher about it and see if they can help you with scholarships.
So i stretched my ear two days ago to 10g. it kind of hurts on the right side. It's not red. a little swollen and it hurts more than the other ear. i took it out earlier in the day to clean it and i think i did it a tiny bit too fast because then it bled. (it's a taper so it slid out, but when i took it out, the smaller point ran through so it shouldnt have caused damage...did it?) when i took out my earrings to clean it with antibacterial soap later in the day, i felt a little knot in my lobe. my earring went back in fine though. its not red and there is no puss, no more blood unless i take it out. i dont suppose i damaged the tissue, it wasnt like this two days ago and i havent changed earrings. i just have been keeping the same ones clean.
is it infected or is my ear having a bit of a hard time adjusting ?
It could be either. Did you stretch it yourself? You should go to a place that does that and see if they can help.
Well, we are both in high school and we recently started dating. We both like each other as much as we both can. Almost love. He recently told me he wasn't a virgin. And that kind of really bothered me. We are talking it out and I think I just need some time to get used to it. Naturally, I am a little bit insecure. But this just didn't settle well in my stomach. I guess I assumed he was a virgin because he's really sweet. And I should not have assumed this in the first place. But the girl he had sex with he says it wasn't good and short-lived. It was a few years ago and she told him he was her second which was a lie and he was actually her fourth. That concerns me because of STD's. Well, I'm not sure why I am reacting so badly to this usually I am pretty chill maybe it was the sudden shock of it that I wasn't expecting. I'm pretty tough to break and this just broke me. I never thought that it would matter. And it's actually really weird why this is upsetting me. We are talking about it and he feels really bad and I accept his apologies because I do like him so much still. And I will get over it. I just want to know is it normal how I am feeling? Or am I just being a p*ssy? Thanks, please be easy on me.
Forget abstinence that isn't any part of my question and not what I want to hear. I guess I'm just sad that we can't do this together. And that he won't think of it as special as I do.
That's normal. He had sex and you didn't so you feel like things are uneven and it might not feel right. If you love him, you'll get past it but don't ever have sex until you are ready, regardless of your feelings for him.
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I really like incubus,311,sublime, and kotton mouth kings. I heard slighty stoopid is a good band too but I'm not sure which album of theirs to buy..any suggestions? So basically I want to mostly get advice on what other bands I should check out that you guys think i would like that are similar to this type of music.
Thanks (:
www.pandora.com
It's a radio where you type in a band/artist you like and they give you songs that are similar.
okay so i have 2 friends who really hate each other for no reason at all and one day i said one of their names to the other person and they blew up so i started yelling at her and she started calling my friend a bitch and a liar. i told her if she kept doing that i didnt want to talk to her and now we arent friends sort of. i am best friends with both of them and i dont care if they like each other i just dont want them to hate each other and blow up when i say there name. one of my friends doesnt care if i say the other ones name but the other is getting really annoying about her. i have no idea what i am asking for just help please!!!!!
If either of them are your real friend, they'll tolerate your other friends. If they don't, talk to each of them about it. You should explain the good qualities to them and why you're friends with both.
F/ 18.
HJ= Hand Job.
okay so i was wondering, how i could give my bf a hj?
Since it's a bit awkward to type, you should YouTube it. Or look for it on Google. There are plenty of sites. As weird as that is.
Hi!!! I heard this song my friend told me about but when I went to look for it I don't know what it the real of and what is the remixes or? Can you help me find like an official place to get the mp3 download for free or pay is fine and if there is like a music video of "Friday" by Rebecca Black? I only heard it on a friends music player thing and yeah?
Thank you!
Original- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CD2LRROpph0
The rest are remixes.
Hey, I'm only 11 but I really like this guy. I mean, I have never felt this way about a guy before! I don't know what to do! How do I tell him I like him? Please help me, if you can't that's ok. You probably have lots of questions to answer. TTYL, Maybe.
You should just tell him straight out. It's easier that way and it won't keep you wondering how he feels.
I'm nineteen and I have met the man I want to marry. I know it sounds kinda crazy but we just really click. The only problem is he is addicted to unprescribed pain killers. We've had times where he'd relapse and we'd break up for like 3 days and he was good again. But this time I feel completely shut down and like I can't deal with him ignoring me this time. I'm so sad because he's living with a bad kid currently cause he got kicked out of home but his parents want him home again. We had a really good date night saturday night but then I brought up the him not calling me and letting me know what's going on[I can't call him cause his phones gone] I told him I was serious about the calling because it made me anxious. I live 7 hours away and I want to talk to him even if currently we aren't technically dating. He said he really wants to date and that he loves me so much and wants to marry me one day. He also said he would call me the next day which was yesterday, I never got a phone call or anything and haven't talked to him since. I'm severely depressed and just want him to man up. I'm constantly worried he is just gonna leave me and ill never see him again. Although everytime he has broken up, he's come back within a week. I know he loves me but I know he's addicted and prob can't make me happy till he is happy but I need just any insight or advice. I really love him and I want it to work, but if he's just lying about his feelings then I want to move on with my life as difficult as it might be, it'll be easier than this. Please help me :(
Dealing with an addiction isn't just something you can easily help him get over. It takes time and a lot of patience. You guys should go to therapy, together. It will help you and him both.
i have an iregular period, i am not on birth control, but i get mine every three months for about 4 days. this month i started my period and it was all dark brown, seriuosly, it came out that way, it wasnt sitting on a pad, or in a tampon, it came out brown. i know that brown blood is just old blood, but i was woundering if it is bad if it comes out and emmideatly it is brown. i dont want any comments that say to change my pad more often, because that isnt the problem, but if you can help beyond that, it is very appreciated,
Crystal Rose
That's normal. It's dried up blood from your last period.