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IM SHELBYYY. Im 15. Cheerleadinggg is my lifee and it has been for 7 years and i LOVEE it :] I like answering questions and helping people. So askkk maynee.




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I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
Thanks

I think you should definatly send the money because even the littlest amount of money WILL help. And you'll feel great after you send it, cause you'll know your helping someone else.

♥ Shelby

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Uhm, ok im not sure what to do and this guy and this girl used to go out and then she broke up with him all of a sudden..Well i think its been a year or so.. But i recently talked to the guy, and he asked me to find out why she broke up with him.. (she broke up with him like over the phone,internet or his friend told him(i cant remember exactly which it was) Well i told him id find out then call him.. Well..I kinda like him, and feel sorry for him (remembering that im friends of them both but they arent friends to eachother)im not sure what to do right now. And im not sure if i act that one or the other would be mad at me. Can you please help me with this?? please and thank you and im sorry if its in a confusing order.. i have a tendency of doig such things like that...and again srry since its rlly long..
~_~ signed: suicidaly mental darkness ~_~

So, your not sure whether you should ask her why she broke up with him, or your not sure whether you should go out with him/tell him you like him, etc?

Well as for the first one, tell your friend he wants to know why she broke up with him, if she doesnt want to tell you, leave it at that and dont bother her. Just tell him that she didnt want to tell you. If you like him and you wanna go out with him, ask your friend, "would u be mad if i went out with so and so?" and if she says no, go for it, but if she says yes, wait a while until shes over him, or until she has a new bf, and then you can go out with him.

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Ok there is this guy and he is 25 and i am 14 we were together for a while but then we had to break up because my mom called the police on him.. we still talk but last weekend I lied to him and he started yelling at me about how I can't stop lying to him... I have written him emails saying I am sorry.. But in an email he sent back to me he said he didnt want ne thing to do with me.. he wrote me back saying that maybe he would be with me.. but not for a while.. should I just give up on him or should I still be friends????

If hes going to be changing his mind every minute and getting mad, then its not worth saying sorry over and over again and begging him to be friends with you again. I think you should let him go because first of all, hes 11 years older than you....

♥Shelby

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ok there is this guy I really like and he really likes me we talk sometimes but only over the internet because I live in wisconsin and he lives in new jersey... I really like him and I asked him to come visit me for the summer.. he said he would love to and he will plan on it... I really like him but is this bad??

I am 14
He is 18

If I were you, I wouldnt get involved with an internet relationship, especially with someone over 18. I mean, its great if yall wanna talk over the internet and stuff, but it isnt safe to invite someone who youve never met to your house. There have been murders and rapes that happened because of internet "friends". The only circumstance in which it would be fine if he came over would be if your parents said yes. And if they were there with you adn him teh WHOLE time.

♥ Shelby

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I wear tinted moisturizer on my skin and nothing else.. except blush. But my question is, since I don't use any powder, would it be bad to use a powder blush? Or should I use a liquid blush.. (or w/e its called.) And does anyone have any reccomendations for fair skin? Like brands that I can buy at Target. Thanks!!

I would definatly use a powder blush because sometimes liquid blush can look over the top and smear and stuff. The blush taht I use is Trucco "One Blush sandalwood" and its reeeally great. But if thats not at target (i got it at ulta) than pretty much any brand is great, you'd probably want a smoky colored blush, or mosaic blush.

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i always have dark bags underneath my eyes. they used to only be there if i havent had much sleep, but now you can always see them. does anyone know how to make these go away or know of any good makeup or something that would cover it up?

[1] Drink PLENTY of water!
[2] cut down on caffeine and salt
[3] the most imp. thing is sleep! get plenty of sleep and try sleeping on 2 pillows.
[4]use tea bags, potato slices or cucumber slices. For a quick fix, try placing two spoons in the freezer for 10-15 minutes and put them over your eyes while you relax.
[5] as for the covering up, use foundation (Loreal True Blend works great) and blend it reallly well, and cover it with a loose powder.
- you could also try out soem treatments especially for bags under eyes.
Good luck! ♥ Shelby

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Hey guys I need some REALLY funny movies? someone help meeeeeee!!!!! What are some really funny movies out on Dvd or Video???

NAPOLEAN DYNAMITE! funniest movie ever. The bird cage is pretty funny too, its about gay people.
♥ Shelby!

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2 of my friends are starten 2 act like whores it dont exactly turn me on and they think it does becouse they are always wherein whorey clothes and acten like they are prosttutes around me and my friends how do i tell them that the whorely style doesnt turn me and my friends on

Maybe when yall are all together, like at the mall or movies or soemthing and you see a girl that looks "whorey" say like, "whoa shes looks like a prostitute. i hate girls who try to dress like that." you know....give them hints

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Okay, i've been using photobucket for a while and just recently my pictures stoped working. I'm pretty sure it's because too many people direct linked to me. Does anyone know how I can know whos using my stuff, and also when my graphics will start working again? Also are there any better sites you know of to use? Thanks if anyone can awnser this.

GJpix.com

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Since its winter time my face is getting very dry , does anyone know any good daily face moisturizers. Thanks

I would sugggest Aura Cacia Sweet Almond Oil. Put it on every night before you go to sleep, and if you want, in the morning when you wake up. It works great! And if you want, add some vitamin E in. Its great for your skin.

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I want to get a cell phone. My mom says if I can pay for it I can get one. Where can I get a inexpensive pre-paid flip phone? Right now I have like $30-$35 dollars. I know that isn't enough but I'm going to keep saving.

Theres these phones called GOphones and you buy them at like Best Buy and you get the phone and you pay only for the minutes you use. Its really easy and conveinent.
♥ Shelbyyy

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I have brown hair a little past my shoulders, and I was wondering what are some cool haircut ideas? Does anyone have any pictures?

well, i dunno but browse the columnists and maybe you'll find a pic of soemone whos hair is coool

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oh sorry i did it wrong

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First star= <
Second star=>
Third star= <
Fourth: >


ok, thanks so much!

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heyy its sherry why didnt the code work? you put the color you want (the hex code) and replaced the stars with these < > right? whats tha prob?

sherry

yah, this is how i did it : (and i replaced the stars) *font color=000000*answer...alallalala*/font*

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Is it possible to make the questions one color and the answers another color on your column? How?

yes

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I know theres Picturetrail, Fotki, and Webshots. But does anybody know any other picture sites that are free/cheaper?? Thanks..

The best site is gjpix.com. Not picturetrail because after like 30 days your account moves down to 36 pics and eventually gets phased out. GJPIX is part of GreatestJournal. So if you sign up for a greatest journal, you get a journal AND a pic account where you can have as many pics as you want!

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Ok I have been trying to convince my parents in getting me a cell phone with minutes..not a plan. but they wont let me! how do I convince them into let me get one! I have saved up 100$ to by the phone I want..Tell me if this is or isnt a fair deal w/ my parents they buy the phone which is 150$ and then I pay for all the other stuff like the 40$ minute cards? is that fair or unfair??? please help me I M 14 and I reallllly want one..and I need one too!!!
*I rate really high if you give me good advice*

Why dont you want a plan? A plan is actually better than calling cards because with a plan you don thave to worry about your card running out of minutes and its way better. If I were you i would let your parents get you a plan. You can find the plan that fits and find out all the information and print it all out and show your parents the costs monthly and the phone costs. Their more likely to give in if your organized and they know exactly what theyd be paying for.

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Ok heres the deal. I start off with a good friend whos real serious with school but still fun to be around. Then I start hangin with these other girls that are smart but fun too but more fun than the other girl. They dont hate eachother but they dont have much in common and they do things differently so I cant be their friend (to the fullest) at the same time. Do I go with my fun friends or my serious friend?

You dont have to choose between 2 groups. You can have days that you hang out with your "fun friends" and a day that you spend hanging out with your serious friend. Sooner or later, maybe you can get your fun friends to like your serious friend and you can all be friends. :D

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Does anyone know where I can find a pen pal at?
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penpalworld.com

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i am beginning to do crazy with all of this rain i have gotten in my area.

i need ideas on things to do at home by myself. i have gone through every board game, read every book, and am out of ideas. any websites i can go to? any other ideas? because with every drop of rain the runs off of my window, a piece of my sanity goes with it!

bored.com has lots of diff websites to go to! or i know this is kiddish but its fun, play the polar expess game at postopia.com and u can use my code - spike49 to unlock teh whole game.

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