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Q: If you're wearin a condom and you cum and it goes into the woman is it possible to get pregnet?

If sperm gets into the vagina, no matter the situation, she can get pregnant.

Q: okay well i dont want any "you should always use a condom" answers because yeah, i know that. on july 26th me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex. he pulled out both times before he came. then on the 28th we did it again. only this time he didnt ejaculate at all during sex. i got my period the 29th and usually it is heavy and lasts for about a week. but since the 2nd day it has been going a little from about 8 am to 6 pm and then completely stopping until the next day. and then i never got it today. i have went to the bathroom multiple times in the past 30 minutes and its been like that all day. ive been pretty exhausted lately and havent been feeling good. my mom noticed that my stomach was starting to putrude a little bit but i have been eating like a horse because im soo hungry lately. i have also been getting these really bad headaches. is it to early to have all these symptoms or should i go get a test soon?

Those are all signs of pregnancy, but yet, seem too early to be feeling the symptoms.

Plus, i'd be worried if don't get your period next month, because the process of the baby growing has happened yet.

I'd say get a preg test asap, that way you'll know for sure.

Q: my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years and we have never had sex with different partners before. do you guys think we have a high chance of gettting a sti? we have always used condoms but now we want to stop using them because i started taking birth control pills. we plan to be married in the future, but i am afraid of getting an sti or something like. he got tested and nothing was wrong or anything. but i was still wondering how high of a risk i have to get a sti?

I think you mean STD.
If neither of you have a sexually transmitted disease, then you should be fine.

Always be safe!

Q: this question is for both boys and girls.Let;s say you really like someone, and she/he is single.Would you still go out with them even though they have had two or three girl/boy friends in the past?or do people prefer girls/guys that haven't been attached before?
For instance, I prefer girls who haven't had a boyfriend before to girls who have.

I prefer both, for both different reasons.
Well let me tell you i'm a very, jealous type.
I have been with my boyfriend for about 10 and a half months, and everytime he talks about a girl, i get jealous, and i'm stupid enough to ask him questions about his ex's, then i get jealous. (yeah, i'm pathetic)

The reason i like when guys have had girlfriends, is because they know how (or should know) how to treat a girl and how not to, and they are probably a little experienced.

Now, the reason if they didn't have a past relationship is because (well for me) they have no one to talk about how they're ex did this and that. And you are most likely they're first whatever, and guys probably like it because they feel like that are in control.

So both can be good. :]

Q: is it safe 2 masturbate???i mean can you get any thing like aids or something like that from doing it???i masturbate maby once a month and i just want 2 make sure its safe!!

absolutely fine.
no worries.

Q: ok so i wanna lose some weight. im not really fat or anything. im not even fat. but i got some extra meat on the stomach i wanna lose. and i was wonderign if anyone knew a good eating scheuld. like 6 small meals a day ( w. examples) or just eat 3 main meals a day.. something like that. i already have the workout part down becuase i play alotta sports. but .. help and ill be sure to ratee

Well let me tell you that I am in the same position as you, and i took the wrong route, do NOT stop eating, i'm becomming unhealthy, and it is not good at all.

What i would say is to stay active, do some crunchs or jog 2 times a day. Play sports, and stay away from fatty foods, suger-y foods, and greasey foods.

Good luck.

Q: 16/f

okay so i lost my virginity yesterday but it didnt hurt. i just felt pressure and when i got fingered there was more pressure than before. my friends told me that when they lost their virginity that it hurt but i dont get why it didnt hurt me. any suggestions?

It didn't hurt me either.

So no worries, consider yourself lucky!

Q: My boyfriend cheated on me one week after we got together. Now I have taken him back (about 2 weeks after he cheated on me). All of my friends thinks it's a misstake but I believe in second chaces and I like this guy...All advicenators out there do you believe in the term- "once a cheater, always a cheater"??
Was it a big misstake to take him back, should I dump him for what he did to me?

I believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater" because it's always with him now that he has cheated on a girlfriend, duh.

He won't change his ways, boys just don't do that when they "like" someone. I know that from experience.

They tell you they'll change, then if you're still with them in a couple months, "I'm not changing for anyone, if you don't like me the way that I am, then that's your problem".

So, i would say dump him, especially since he cheated on you after A WEEK, it shows no respect.

Q: my birthday is tomorrow and im not sure whether i should get either a ipod shuffle or ipod nano or a sidekick 3 or a nextel...i really want a cell but the nextel i want is kind of expensive i have a sprint phone but it's really crappy and i dont use it i would like to be more in touch with my friends and family and boys...but then again i loove music and the ipod shuffle is really cheap and the ipod nano is not so bad but i was thinking maybe i should get that for christmas (what are the differences between the shuffle and nano) the sidekick 3 is just amazing but im not with t-mobile and its really expensive too. does anyone have the side kick 3?? how is the plan and do you have to pay extra for web, instant messaging and text?? anything else about the side kick 3?? i think i'll probably get a nextel but i really want to know about the other things thanx so much in advance

I think you should go with the Sidekick, because it also has an mp3 player in it, so you can get 2 in 1 with that.

And also, my boyfriend has it, to get unlimited web, aim, and text, it's an extra 20 dollars a month.

I'd pick the Sidekick.

And plus, Nextels suck, they have horrible service.

Q: The main chorus is ::

" do you feel like a man when you push her around do you feel better now as she falls to the ground well i`ll tell you my friend one day this worlds going to end as your lies crumble down a new life she has found

Who's sings that & what's the title, I can`t it anywhere.

The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus sings it.
and the song is called "Face Down"

I love that song. :]

Q: I purchased a ipod video a little while ago, and i recently added a video to it. [ Season 1 episode 1 laguna beach ] and it will play the video but i cant hear anything at all. has anyone ever expeirenced this problem before. can you plz help me? thanx in advance.

- Kayla

it's probably the video that you uploaded.

try another one.

Q: I like to dye my hair but everytime i dye my hair dark it fades like completely out within 2 weeks (i use the $10 boxed stuff) but when i dye my hair like a light shade of sandy brown/blonde it holds and really doesn't fade at all every (well i have had the hair dye in for about 5 weeks and i have noticed no fading)

My question is why is this? my hair is naturally extremely dark brown and my hair was a med brown and i keep trying to dye it back to my natural color but then it fades to a light brown red which isn't even close to my natural color or the color it was before and its ugly and looks bad when my roots grow in.

And it looks alright light but my hair looks really good dark and i want to be able to keep it that way and i want tips so i don't always have to get it professionally colored

try buying a darker shade of brown, kind of like a brownish black, so that way when it fades, it won't fade as much, i've had this problem, and it sucks, but that was what i did, and it's fine now. :]

Q: I need to find sites sorta like my space that i can go on?

www.vainspace.com

Q: ok i am going to be a freshman and im not even going to try and hide it. i am very freaked out. my older sister says its no biggie but seriously i am a very sesitive person and i cant really handle getting teased or picked on without turning red or becoming insecure about whatever whoever happened to tease me about. and i am going to get lost (we dont get our scheds until the first day).
so does anyone have any advice about what to do on the first day or what NOT to do on the first day? advice with bullies, teachers, or red facedness will be greatly appreciated and rated.

Well, being that i just finished my freshman year, (going to be a sophomore now), it isn't a big deal at all. No one bullies you, no one make fun of you, and if they do it's most likely people in your grade. You won't get lost, it's very easy to memorize the school, and i have a huge, brand new high school, so i don't think your highschool will be bigger than mine, but hey, i wouldn't know. All i can tell you is to not stress, and if you are lost, you can always have a security guard lead you to your class, and your teachers won't mark you late because they will understand that you are new to the school and don't know it. :]

Good luck hun. :]

Q: Hey, can you guys help me find Nelly Furtado's song Promiscuous? I just want to listen to it, so an audio version or video version is fine. Thanks so much.

try

http://www.aol.com

http://www.windowsmedia.com

Q: Ok so I have stretch marks all over my stomach because I lost a TON of weight. They're all icky and black because I have darker skin and it's summer and I need to wear my new bikini.
Is there anything I can do because I worked so hard to lose all this weight and fit into my bikini and now I have stretch marks everywhere and they're really visible.
Do you also know a way to get rid of all the flab on my stomach. I have like extra skin over there and I've been doing stretches but I still have all that skin from where my fat used to be... help?

Cocoa Butter might help make the stretch marks blend the color more evenly.

But other than that, you don't have any more options except for surgery, (it leaves scars, so it's basicly pointless) and to wait it out.

Good luck.

Q: um yea i didnt really know what category this question should go under so i just picked a random one....my question is what is the time different between nevada and fl? i know its a couple hours but anyone know the exact amount of time? thanks a lot

3 hours.

Q: How can I send someone a friend request if there myspace is private and you have to know there Last Name or Email Address to send them a request and I don't know either, and I can't ask them?

Then you are pretty much out of luck, the only way is sending them a message asking.

Q: i hav a bf and hes rly sweet and nice, but i like neva get to see him cuz he lives in another town. wenever i go someplace and see a cute guy i always wanna flirt. is that bad since i already hav a bf? and since i wanna flirt wit otha ppl, does that mean i dont really like my bf as much as i thought?

I think you should either call a break, or break up with him.
Your not being truthful to him, nor yourself. Tell him that you think it's hard to maintain a relationship when you barely see him.

Hope I helped.

Q: i always feel so ugly my friends are gorgeous and have boyfriends no matter what i always feel left out or outta place what do i do to gain self respect and a more pretty appearance

That's probably why hun.
You need confidence. Boys think it's a turn on.
Try experimenting with some make-up, and if you do use make-up, try using some more, but remember to stay natural to, boys don't like fake girls.

And if this doesn't help, try asking your friends.

Maybe get a new hair cut, or some highlights.
Or go out and buy some new clothes, that you think you look good in!

Good luck hun!

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The names Ashley. (:
I'm a sophomore this year at Quinnipiac University.
I'm majoring in Interactive Digital Design.
I haven't been on this site in years, maybe I'll pick it up again. (:
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