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virginity
16/f
okay so i lost my virginity yesterday but it didnt hurt. i just felt pressure and when i got fingered there was more pressure than before. my friends told me that when they lost their virginity that it hurt but i dont get why it didnt hurt me. any suggestions?
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hm,
that's weird.
have you fingered your self before and then later started bleeding?
because you could have done that, and popped you cherry, and when that happends sex wont hurt anymore.
so thats probably why it didn't hurt,
and all your other friends proabably havn't popped theirs yet.
mmmyahh,
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Maybe you were more relax than your friends were.
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It didn't hurt me either.
So no worries, consider yourself lucky!
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It's possible you tore your hymen prior to losing your virginity which is perfectly normal. For alot of girls, that's the most painful part. If your hymen was still intact when you lost your virginity, it's still possible that it wouldn't hurt. I didn't feel much pain when mine was torn. Every girl is different in that way.
The more comfortable you are with your partner and the longer you take to build up to the experience (foreplay), the less it's going to hurt. Alot of the pain the first time comes with being very nervous and tense and not taking enough time with foreplay.
Those could be any of the reasons. Each woman is built differently. Sometimes there are no reasons for why it hurts with one and does not for another.
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This could be one of many things
girls have something that is called a hymen (commonly known as a cherry)you could have accidently broke your hymen (popped your cherry) before by inserting a tampon or something like that. Or you hymen still might not have broken because it might be really think. Ususally when your cherry is popped that is one of the most painful parts of sex. Either that or you have a high tolerance for pain and your friends don't. Also the fear of the pain of having sex could have sunk into your head and you thought it was gonna be much worse than it actually is.
hope this helped
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You're probably just more pain tolerant than your friends. :] No worries.
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