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i have blue eyes and dark hair and i really want to bring out the blue eyes. i have so many eye shadows and stuff but i usually dont wear them. does anyone know any good colors or any make-up i should wear? thank you.

a medium shimmery brown will make your eyes pop.

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my tennis skort is white and see-thru.
what do i wear under it?
its adidas, and has the tight shorts underneath it.

my bikini panties show thru. (and they are white)
so what do i wear that wont show thru?

wear a nude/skin color thong underneath.

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Is something wrong with me? There's some blood in my discharge. I never had sex. And I last had my period around the 6th or in that week.

Can masturbating have anything to do with it? Long fingernails? Can being gentle tear/cut something inside there?

yes, masturbating can have a huge impact on that. its possible you could have popped your hymen. no big deal at all. this happens when you have sex. this doesnt mean your going to get pregnant or anything, it just means that a little blood in your discharge is perfectly normal.

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how important are extracurriculars and stuff, really?

they make your college application look better, but they are not absolutely necessary.

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13/f
ok, a couple weeks ago i went to a party in miami.
i used to live there so i knew a few people there.
but there was this one guy that i didnt know.
and i was dancing with him all night.
before me and my friend left i made out with him.
EVERYONE knows about it.
even at his school.
im going out with him now.
and he was the first guy i ever made out with.
but, do you think im a slut?
thanks in advance :]

no. making out with guys does NOT make you a slut. =]

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how do you get rid of blackheads? i use products but im not sure im doing it right

i use hot water to wash my face to open my pores and wash my face first before using any products..

biore black head remover. they work great.

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i really want to learn how to do a back handspring by myself in a safe way. going to a gym or getting a trainer or something related to that is not an option. thanks

http://cheerleading.about.com/od/gymnasticsandtumbling/l/bl_backhandspr.htm

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question. whats the difference between saying

let's see if we can find a tree

and

let's see if we can't find a tree

basically the difference is you ether see a tree, or you do not see a tree.

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ok so sometimes when i get my period it's brown-ish colored with a few drops of red every couple days then the next period is all red & healthy looking but then in between periods milky-white slippery stuff comes out...which means i'm healthy
is this healthy???
i'm confused....
13/f

yes this is perfectly normal and healthy. =]

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ok i heard this song on z100. i dont know the name

it goes like

one..your like a dream come true...
two i just wanna make love to you
three...your my destiny..
your the only one for me...
some thing repeat one two three

teh words arnt exactly right. but it goes something like that.

does anyone know the song and or who its by?

its called "back at one" by brian mcknight.

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After I got my hair cut, blown out, and straightened the girl like rubbed or ran this kind of gel or balm or something through my hair. The people always do that to me when I get my haircut and it makes it SOOOOOOOOO soft. I asked her what it was after she did it and all she said was "it's silk." I looked it up on the interenet and I couldn't find anything. Does anyone know what it might be? Also, what is the shampoo they use in salons? I want to know cause it also makes my hair soooooooooo soft and smooth and shiny.

many places uses john frieda satin shine creme.

http://www.johnfrieda.com/products/products.asp?pid=20§ion=products&subSection=brilliantBrunette&lineID=2

a chi flat iron will keep your hair straight throughout any weather.

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are there any foods that shouldnt be eaten together

no. everything can be eaten together, some things just might taste bad together though.

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if pee is clear does that mean youre hydrated

yes. it means you are drinking plenty of water and very healthy.

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Okay im convinced im depressed but i wanna go to the doctors and my parents wont take me... i dont know what there thinking but can un treated depression damage something..?
I dont know how to get my parents to take me someone plzz help me.

http://spsfv.org/gettinghelp.htm

please call the number and they will be able to help you.

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im gettin a tiny dog i need names.i like 'food names' or different names like 'turtle' for a dog i love that name for a dog or any 'unique names' or oppasite like giant for a tiny dog~so any names that are ~food~oppasite~unique~other animals~stuff like that

cupcake
apple
strawberry
godiva
biggie
trixy
swan
flamingo
cheetah
jersey
ziggy
cali
panda
goliath

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ok i have acne and i tryed ever face wash all it does is make me face brake out more and i have no money to get a face docter and i wanna know how i can llok better and what kinda face wash works and i have blonde hair and brown eyes is pink eyeshadow and black eyeliner good for my makeup

PROACTIV. =] it really does work.

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ok i have alot of acne and i want them gone i tryed everything it there anything else i can do to get them gone so i can look good???

have you tried proactiv yet? it truly does work.

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I'm tempted to get this shirt (1), which comes only in a *bright* red colour.

(1) http://tinyurl.com/2c4v8f

I have black hair and dark eyes. I currently have pale skin but I tan easily and my natural skin tone is olive (or 'Asian'). Could I pull bright red, even just any shade of red, off? Or should I go for something more subdued? Even some advice about which colours generally would work helps.

really pale skin wouldnt look great with red. you can still pull it off, it just wouldnt look GREAT. you said you tan easily? maybe get a little bit of a tan then you would look awesome in it. dark hair, dark eyes, and tan skin go really well with red.

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Ok well on the dookie album there is a song where green day tried to play (but didnt succeed cause of mud hippies) at 1994 woodstock...well its like 'lets nuke the bridge we (something idk) two thousand times before) what is the name for that song?

it is called "f.o.d"

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Is it sad that I am 16 and never had a boyfriend? I feel stupid walking through the halls seeing all the couples and knowing that I have yet to experience that. Please let me know if I'm pathetic.

you are NOT pathetic. many people are the same way, you just would never know because all you notice is the girls WITH boyfriends, not the girls without. the right guy just has not come along yet. trust me, your turn will come sooner or later. =]

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