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ok this is gonna sound gross but i get REALLY bad pit stains and they are so embarassing! does any1 know any deoterant that gets rid of them besides secret b/c im alergic to that and dove b/c it doesnt work either...!

i'll rate all 5's to good answers!

Arrid is specifically known for keeping you "Dry"

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I am having a new friend over today, and I would like some ideas on what we can do. I have DDR so that is one thing, but besides that all I can really think of is tv. I am a female/16 if it helps! Thanks!

My friends and I swim, play board games (it may sound dumb but you really can have fun!), snack out, watch movies, talk about guys, look through magazines, walk into town, play with my pets, take interesting pictures, play on my swingset (lol, I still have one!).


Good Luck!!

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how do you make out

You sort of just learn how along the way, that's what most people do. You just use your tongue and do whatever feels right, follow the guys lead if he knows what hes doing. A good kisser doesn't usually get all their saliva over the other person-- yuck, gross! teheh.


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I just did a survey and I seriously don't know...what the heck does 'cut some rug' mean? The question was "would you cut some rug with me?". Help please.

In most cases, "cutting up the rug" means to dance really intensely with someone, lol! If you tell someone their cutting up the rug, it means they're dancing good or something along those lines. That question probably means, would you dance with me?

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what is a good women deatarent (sp) that leaves you dry for atleast a couple of hours and keeps odor away? thank you

A deoderant that leaves you really dry would be Arrid, as well as keeping odor away. I normally use Secret and it keeps my dry for the most part. Either one of those would be good, and they have really nice scents for Secret, and Arrid doesn't ... so it's up to you!

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Lets say my period is normal .. well I had it on Aug. 9 of this year and finished Aug. 16th would that mean I would get it again a month from when I started or a month from when it finished? Thankss and what days should i be concerned that its close?

3-4 weeks after you finish up. Or 28 days... sort of like the lunar cycle! Lol, guess we're all a bunch of werewolves.

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I just went to the salon to get my hair cut and they used these really great products on me. I looked at the price and a bottle of serum was 25 dollars!! I want my hair to be silky and smooth. Are there any shampoo and conditioner products that are not that expensive and make your hair silky?

What I've found really works is alternating different shampoos/conditioner every so often. If you only use one product your hair just gets used to it. So don't buy just one brand, like you can get Pantene Pro V, and when those run out, White Rain. It doesn't matter how cheap or expensive the brand is, as long as you keep switching, your hair reacts to it like it's new.

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ok im 14..and ive gone out with tons of guys..but i havent had my first kiss yet..a bunch of my other friends have though..im currently dating this really nive really hot guy, and he seems to like me a lot, but hasent shown any sign of wanting to kiss me..i dont want to make him kiss me and send the wrong message..is that weird? what should i do?

xOxO--> troubled love

Well, if you don't want to make him, you can't force him. Go to a movie with him, or watch one at home. Be alone if you can. I have doubts that any guy wouldn't try. It'll come sooner than you expect! Good Luck!

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is it wrong for a 13M to have been never been kissed.

It's not wrong. First kisses all vary but trust me, 13 is young yet to be kissing.

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i have this friend who is always there for me..and everything..we're ireseperable..but she thinks she is my only friend..and when my other friends call and ask to do stuff she gets mad. her mother even thinks im her only friend. the problem is she is my very BEST friend. but i do have other friends and i do like to hang out with them. please give me your advice.
thanks, much love~ two-split friend

Tell her exactly what you just wrote now. Just tell her, "I love you to death, and we're closer than any other friend I have, but I am friends with other people. I would want you to do the same." And hopefully she'll understand. Ask her not to get mad, because no one's going to ever take her place.

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I cheated on my boyfriend and now he is really mad at me. he is thinking about breaking up with me. What can i do to fix this?

Well, judging actions speak louder than words, the fix might be hard. You shouldn't have cheated on him in the first place, but what's done is done. Write him a really sweet letter listing all the things you like about him, and the reasons he's a million times better for you than the guy you cheated with. Make it sappy as well! It will save the relationship. You can slip it in his locker, or if he doesn't go to your school, slip it in his mailbox, or you can just give it to him and walk away.

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I'm starting out as a freshman in high school. I have no idea what eyeliner color is great on caramel tan skin or what brand name I should get for any eye liner thats noticable.. but not too visable. Just right for nice face but not over done. any ideas?

Benefit, easy to purchase and fairly cheap from Sephora, you could also get it from other makeup stores too I'm pretty sure, or in Macy's at the mall. I like to use navy blue, and I think it might look really good on yours too, it would be more noticable on a little bit tanner skin. You can use black,but it might not look as vibrant as a dark blue would. And trust me, it's nothing crazy either, like it's not some psycho metallic color, it's taken just as serious as the black. Good luck!!

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how can i make my jeans AHH wuts the word? you guys know! the style thats in right now with the jeans where its like shredded. well neway-sorry-i can just take a cheese grader and do that right? but like how because i dont want to ruin my jeans.

also *RANDOM*--i want a second hole but my dad is TOTALLY against it. his words were: you can get that when you move out of the house and have your own life. im like WOA CHILLAX! (didnt really say that but i did say WOAH!!) but my mom doesnt have a problem with it! shes like "ill talk to him but mayb you can get it in the middle of this year". i love my mommy! ;) i love my dad too thou. BACK TO MY QUESITON! LOL: how can i help my mom to convince him? i kno hes going to be mad and just say NO END OF IT! if i keep asking. and its not one of those things were i like "help around the house" etc.

thanks a bunch

Tell him the second hole is no more drastic than the first. Some 10 year old little girls get them, and old people have them too. The reason I say this is so that you know that it's not some crazy drastic statement, it's actually pretty common in people with their ears pierced. And about using the cheese grater for the jeans, I wouldn't do that. I'm pretty sure you can, but my friends just cut little holes in their jeans with scissors, and then from there rip it themselves into a bigger one so it doesn't look so purposely cut. Good Luck!

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im SUCH a girly girl! so wut should i wear the first day of school (september 6th)? i know you dont know whats in my closet so i wont give u like a 3- if i dont have it!! but what are you wearing, what would be cute/in. im going to straighten my hair. and im pretty sure i want to wear a skirt. thanks

You start the same day as me. I was thinking the same thing myself. First, it may help to try on some new outfits, and remember funky is okay. You can wear big crazy belts and stuff like that! You could wear a skirt, maybe a short denim one with a really impressive shirt, v-neck preferably, topped off with a crazy belt to go with it. You could wear ballet flats if you have those, comfy, stylish, and a little fancier than sneakers. Well, I hope I helped you out here!

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hey! i need some sayings, quotes, poems for getting back together with your boyfriend that you love. THANKS!

Here's a neat website. http://www.best-love-poems.com/love_quotes.htm


Here are some samples from it:


I usually always stumble and fall, and usually i dont care at all,
but now i have stumbled and fallen in love with you.


Love is like the sun coming out of the clouds and warming your soul


To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

How can
you tell
the rain
not to fall
when clouds
exist?
How can
you tell
the leaves
not to fall
when wind
exists?
How can
you tell
me not
to fall in love
when you exist?

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my best mate moved yesturday and it is kinda really borin wid out him and everyone seems to be deppressed and i dunno why but i am too yet i know he is still ma best mate he is likea brother to me and for the last 1 and half years i have spoke to him evry mornin when he was walking his dog and i need help on how i can deal with the changes to my rutine and social life please reply as it is important

Hopefully you can learn to understand in life, change just happens. It's not one of those things we can dodge, or hide in a corner for. We have to battle it out like all the other complicated things in this world! I can suggest for you to maybe talk to him on the phone every day, or email, so you still feel like your getting that morningly talk in. Try and stay in touch, and if you start to get really sad from missing him, try and get it off your mind, turn on the t.v., go on the computer, or start your hw.

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so i have some all right parents but wen it comes to cleaness im lyk every kid im dirty. lol i hate doing chores and cleanin up. so when i do im not worlds best cleaner so everything doesnt come out perfect & my parents flip out and they scream at me telling me to get out & how they dont need me and are sick of me.... but they dont know that this is hurting me so much & im getting sick of them... i mean if i coulda chosen my parents i would of and it wouldnt be them.... i've been crying alot because of this, i dont wanna talk to them cause its just goin to be another fight so what can i do about this thank you

To be honest, of course we all don't want to clean, but here and there it might not hurt, and it could be a little bit more helpful if your room was neater in the mornings to get ready for school. Not picture perfect. The solid truth is this; tons of teens deny their parents and of course, don't we all? But what they don't realize is cleaning a bit here and there before our parents ask, not only ASTONISHES them, but that's the only way to get our privelages... and they get so happy to. You could practically ask to rob a bank and they'd be happy. Just little touches, like emptying a dishwasher, cleaning the sinks/mirrors in bathrooms... all for the sake of helping them out. Then the next time you need a lift or wanna go somewhere they can help you out too. Im sorry you feel you and your parents are disagreeable but Im sure they love you, they might just be speaking out of anger. People say stuff they dont mean when they're mad, I'm sure you've done it before. A little cleaning will go a long way for you, otherwise it's just the inevitable fights and what not.

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Can i burn a CD from limewire? and how do i go about that?

I answered your question about this, but here incase you missed it already I'll paste it again for ya.


To be honest, the only program I've ever burned a cd off of was Kazaa, and that was a long time ago. I think you might be able to, but I'm not sure. This area isn't my specialty. What I do know is there is a way of burning songs off of limewire onto your iPod if you have one. And how one goes about these things, I'm not sure, but hopefully I could help in some way. In order to burn a CD, your going to need memorex blank discs which you can buy in any office supply stores. So sry I couldnt be more specific!

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Sorry this is soo long.

Ok soo i live with my dad 9 months out of tyhe year ad i really miss my mom. Well i just got back today frm visting her and my dad picks me up at the airport, we get home the house is a complete pig stie like theres his cloths everywere and there liek ants of the counters and the only clean rpoom is his. Rigth after he drops us off( not seeing us for 4 weeks) he leaves and gose to work. He self employed soo like its not like he has a boss telling him- oyur fired- hes the boss! ok sooo also he went out ot party tonite and left us with our aunt!! now am i the wrong one for being kind of mad andsad, likei miss my mom soo much, nd the only thing holding her back from coming here is the money for mthe divorce, she said once he agreess on a price thta i actually acurate which he thinks is too high she bee out here in 5 mis. Now im really buggign my dad ot just give my mom what he owes her, and he slams nad locks his dorr to his room, im starving but im scared ot eat the food b/c of the ants! am i rong for feeling this way, i just had a 8 hours plane ride- boston to las vegas got home and he leaves! withmy mom i feel loved but eith my dad i feel as thought the only reason he has us is ot prove a point ot my mom. I love thme both reallly alot, but i just think me and my sister should be with my mom not my dad. Please i just dnt no i miss my mom and i just dont think i can put up with living with him anymre!!

Just calmly approach your dad and tell him the bugs are kind of grossing you out, and ask if you can get ant traps for them. Also, offer to help him clean up, even if it isn't your mess, have a little mercy on him. I'm sure he really loves you, and maybe you should leave issues between your mom and him for them two to discuss. In the mean time, talk alot to your mom on the phone, and send her emails if you can. And if he goes out frequently on nights and it becomes a steady pattern, tell him you feel hurt when he leaves you home all the time, and ask him if he can maybe cut down a little bit on his nights home. You have to try and be rational and hope for the best response from him! Good Luck!

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Hey...
im 14 & i really want to dress like paris hilton but in a cute conservative way. Where should I shop to get unique glam styles. Im kind of tiny so I need petite stores. Thanks you!

Paris hilton to me seems classic, vintage, a little rock and roll, and anything hollywood of course tied into one. Try 5.7.9 there sizes run pretty small. Also XXI/Forever 21, Wet Seal. Stuff like that. Go to Icing or Clairies for accesories, they have great earrings and they usually carry a lot of stuff stars have been spotted wearing, only in a cheaper version of course. Just funk stuff up and don't go for plain or usual, layer tanks,tees, beaters, get denim skirts that have studs with fringe coming off the bottom (like little hanging pieces that make it have the destroyed look), big sunglasses, long beaded necklaces, worn a few at a time, pearls. Just go the all out crazy, and take it to the max. Screen T's are really cute as well, like the ones that say catchy stuff. And remember, being you is what it's all about. Don't wear something that doesn't work for your body type or face. If you need any more fashion advice, please, let me know, and inbox me because I LOVE giving advice on this stuff! Teheh.

OK, good luck, and btw, maybe you can look in so magazines paris is in, and analyze her wardrobe and see what you can make of that in a cheaper version. Also look for pics online if you can.

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