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fucking parents
so i have some all right parents but wen it comes to cleaness im lyk every kid im dirty. lol i hate doing chores and cleanin up. so when i do im not worlds best cleaner so everything doesnt come out perfect & my parents flip out and they scream at me telling me to get out & how they dont need me and are sick of me.... but they dont know that this is hurting me so much & im getting sick of them... i mean if i coulda chosen my parents i would of and it wouldnt be them.... i've been crying alot because of this, i dont wanna talk to them cause its just goin to be another fight so what can i do about this thank you <33
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To be honest, of course we all don't want to clean, but here and there it might not hurt, and it could be a little bit more helpful if your room was neater in the mornings to get ready for school. Not picture perfect. The solid truth is this; tons of teens deny their parents and of course, don't we all? But what they don't realize is cleaning a bit here and there before our parents ask, not only ASTONISHES them, but that's the only way to get our privelages... and they get so happy to. You could practically ask to rob a bank and they'd be happy. Just little touches, like emptying a dishwasher, cleaning the sinks/mirrors in bathrooms... all for the sake of helping them out. Then the next time you need a lift or wanna go somewhere they can help you out too. Im sorry you feel you and your parents are disagreeable but Im sure they love you, they might just be speaking out of anger. People say stuff they dont mean when they're mad, I'm sure you've done it before. A little cleaning will go a long way for you, otherwise it's just the inevitable fights and what not.
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You obviously dont want to hear this, but you need to talk to your parents about this. You could be cliniclly depressed, all because their alittle over testy about some not clean-ness....but anyway, aproach them and explain your feelings. Tell them it hurts when they say that, and you are the way you are.
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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