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Ok soo i live with my dad 9 months out of tyhe year ad i really miss my mom. Well i just got back today frm visting her and my dad picks me up at the airport, we get home the house is a complete pig stie like theres his cloths everywere and there liek ants of the counters and the only clean rpoom is his. Rigth after he drops us off( not seeing us for 4 weeks) he leaves and gose to work. He self employed soo like its not like he has a boss telling him- oyur fired- hes the boss! ok sooo also he went out ot party tonite and left us with our aunt!! now am i the wrong one for being kind of mad andsad, likei miss my mom soo much, nd the only thing holding her back from coming here is the money for mthe divorce, she said once he agreess on a price thta i actually acurate which he thinks is too high she bee out here in 5 mis. Now im really buggign my dad ot just give my mom what he owes her, and he slams nad locks his dorr to his room, im starving but im scared ot eat the food b/c of the ants! am i rong for feeling this way, i just had a 8 hours plane ride- boston to las vegas got home and he leaves! withmy mom i feel loved but eith my dad i feel as thought the only reason he has us is ot prove a point ot my mom. I love thme both reallly alot, but i just think me and my sister should be with my mom not my dad. Please i just dnt no i miss my mom and i just dont think i can put up with living with him anymre!!
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I'm sooo sorry you're going through this, but have you seriously talked to your dad about this??? Like maybe sit him down and just express what you're feeling and show him what you mean. Tell him it's not fair to you and your sister that you have to live in crap daily. Maybe even talk to your mom about your living conditions if you haven't already. Try to think of ways to get some extra cash so you can go back to live with her. Just be honest with your dad and if that doesn't work, get back with your mom and refuse to move back with your dad. Hope i helped and good luck!!!
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Tell him this, and if he doesn't at least compromise w/ you, then go to your aunts with your sister and eat something and call child services, cause him not feeding you and makin you live like that is a disgrace! Child Services should help and you should be with ur mom soon. Hope this helped, but if you have any other questions, IM or email me.
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No you are not wrong to feel this way!!! You have a right to eat clean food and a right to a clean home. Maybe talk to a counselor and tell him or her how your dad's living conditions are and she or he may be able to place you permantly with your mommy. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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you need to talk to you dad about how you feel and about that thing that he has you to prove something to your mom .also talk to your mom about it.also eat food pls.go buy some. and if you have to live there it would be nice for yuo and your sis to clean the house and look after yourselves.if his not goin to do it.do it for yourseves.
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Just calmly approach your dad and tell him the bugs are kind of grossing you out, and ask if you can get ant traps for them. Also, offer to help him clean up, even if it isn't your mess, have a little mercy on him. I'm sure he really loves you, and maybe you should leave issues between your mom and him for them two to discuss. In the mean time, talk alot to your mom on the phone, and send her emails if you can. And if he goes out frequently on nights and it becomes a steady pattern, tell him you feel hurt when he leaves you home all the time, and ask him if he can maybe cut down a little bit on his nights home. You have to try and be rational and hope for the best response from him! Good Luck!
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