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my boyfriend thinks my freinds are silly people but they are not

In my opinion, friends always come before boys. If your boyfriend can at least tolerate you friends, then just let it be. Or maybe you, your boyfriend, and your friends could go see a movie together. Tell your friends to act as mature as possible. But if your boyfriend says that it's him or your friends, then break up with him. He's not worth it if he does that.

My best friend just became really close to this girl named Briana. Briana's really fun to talk to, but I recently found out some bad stuff about her; she cheats on her boyfriends, backstabs all her close friends, and she smokes pot. She told me about the pot thing and even asked if I wanted to join her! I, of course, said no. I don't know how to tell my best friend, because she'll accuse me of lying because "Briana's so nice!" I'm just scared that Briana will get my friend into smoking and stuff. HELP.

Unless you can somehow catch Briana in the act of cheating or smoking, your friend will not believe you. All you can do is stand by your friend. That way, when Briana backstabs her, you will still be there for her. And also remember, the backstabbing may not be true. You can't always believe everything you hear.

Hey I've liked a certain guy for a long time, and I really want to tell him how I feel. I'm too shy to tell him in person, so I thought I'd write a note. What should I write on it? I don't want to sound creepy, or not know what I'm talking about. Help!

Write something like this:

Dear Joe,
You know, (insert friend's name here) said that maybe we would make a good couple. She acts kind of crazy sometimes, but I thought maybe we could give it a try. If you don't think it would work, I understand and all. Call me later.

And remember, don't forget to sign your name! An anonymous letter does no good.

I had a blow-out with a guy that I have been seeing for the past 4 months. I told him to loose my number. However, afew days after the fight I learned about his past relationships and the bad things women have put him through and I feel like s*** for starting the fight. He turned down my advanaces so that he could watch the all-star game. I know I was wrong but how do I get him back and not sound like the biggest a$$ around? Help.

First off, it sounds to me like you want to get back together with this guy because you feel bad for him. If this is the case, then don't do it, because theres no use in stretching out something that isn't going to last. If you really do want him back, then tell him that you really wern't feeling like yourself the day you broke up with him. Tell him that you were having a bad day and everything seemed unclear.

should i ask my mother if i can have sex or not?

It depends on where you live. Some states require that you have a parent or guardian's permission to get birth control pills. If you don't want to risk getting pregnant, then ask your mother. If for some reason you don't mind getting pregnant, than go right ahead with out asking.

The other day me and my friend got caugth smokeing and drinking how do i tell people cuz i'm under-aged so please help
-never get caught!

Well who was it who caught you? Was it a parent? Believe it not, parents will most likely not tell, because by telling everyone they also risk their reputations. What you do is an image of them. If it was a peer who caught you, then it will most likely spread around by itself, and you won't have to tell anyone.

my mom has a friend and her daughter erased my game on my gameboy and I almost beat the game
how can I confront her?

I'm sorry, but what's done is done. Video games are not everything. Start over, and now it will be easier because you will be able to go right through to game because you know all the secrets already. Just say to the daughter "Please don't play my video games anymore."

Chingy's hot!
Whose with me...and those of you who say no he isnt or whatever..don't bother answering this question because why would you waste your time???
Mwah chingy! lol

This isn't a question. I sure there is some teenybopper Chingy fansite where you can post annoying stuff like this.

Is there a site or downloader I can download music but not have to pay to download it or get caught? There are so many songs I want but I won't download just to be careful.

Downloading is stealing, plain and simple. There are sites where you can get music very chap. Walmart.com sells single tracks for 99 cents each. The iTunes music store also does this for the same price.

how do i stop people from calling me gay...i dont do anything gay....im not gay....for goodness sake i like a girl...(im a boy duh...) wut should i do....i dont want to be called that anymore....

The key is to stop caring about what other people think. You know your not gay, so why does it matter what everyone else says? And they may not mean that your gay as in homosexual. Society today has started using gay to describe objects. As in "Duuuuuude that shirt is soooo gay". Last time I checked, clothing didn't have a sexual preference. So if people call you gay after you make a stupid remark, like if they say "Duuuuude you are soo gay" then they probably don't mean it.

I am Juliet. My Romeo is gay. At the end of the play there's a kissing scene. So as not to offend his homosexuality I need to learn how to fake kiss. Any ideas?

Actually, in the days of Shakespear, women were not allowed to act. It would be a man playing Juliet and a man playing Romeo. So think about it, your situation is kind of like how it was in shakespear's time. If you really are uncomfortable kissing him, then there is a way to put your hand between your mouth and his, so it looks like your kissing but your really not. It requires practice though.

I have been told that I am a very gifted actress, and my drama teacher said that I should get into theatre camp, but I live with my dad, and money is tight. I really want to go to theatre camp, but all the places I looked at are day camps that cost way too much money. (my dad has a tough job and cant drive me to and from camp so it would have to be an overnight camp) any ideas what I should do?

HELP ME!!!

Lots of camps offer financial aid. Try looking up theatre camps on Google.com. If you are really determined to act, they will give you financial aid.

i have blonde...little bit lower then shouldner length hair. its kinda shaped like a mullet. but cuter lol. and it goes diagnol from the bangs to behing my ear. anyways.. need a way to style it. and im not poor but my family is having a bit of money problems right now...where can i get cheap clothes that still look really "cool"? i wanna look good 4 my soon 2 be boyfriend and i really really need some new clothes lol. well, thanks 4 any help! bye!

Try getting your hair angled. Its not very expensive. The stylist just ties your hair up in a ponytail and snips off the ends. And for cheap clothes, look on the sales racks. You can practically reinvent your whole wardrobe.

i have a friend who has been losing and gaining weight, and now she has stretch marks and she's only 16, she feels really bad about them, because now, she has lost weight and she is down to the size that she wants to be at, i keep telling her she is fine, but she won't listen... is there any way to get rid of these evil, evil stretchmarks thats making my friend sad?

Start with natural remedies. I recommend cocoa butter and Vitamin E oil. If they don't work, then try special cream made for women after pregnancy. It is sold at pharmacies.

Do you know of any exercises which can be done to tone your thighs which can easily be done a home?

I do Pilates regularly, and some of it is very helpful for the thigh/leg area. Do leg lifts by lying on your side and kicking straight up, or lay on your side and make circles with your legs. Swimming is also very good for toning your leg muscles.

I know it's not really polite to pick your teeth at the dinner table with toothpicks (well, better those than your finger I guess, but that's not the point). So if you keep toothpicks on your table all the time as just part of the centerpiece art or whatever, does that make you trashy or what?

Don't keep toothpicks as a centerpiece. People will take it as a sign that you don't mind when people pick their teeth at the table, and then they will think you are trashy. Stick with flowers as a centerpiece instead.

I want a career in fashion but i dont know how to go about it. please help if you know anything xxx thanx xxx

If you are still in high school or middle school, make sure to sign up for art or sewing classes. Enter fashion competitions (ones where you send in your own designs and they are judged) This isn't something you can do alone. You have to get a parent or guardian to drive you to competitions (unless you can drive)

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