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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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i wanna buy some more clothes like that, does anyone have any ideas where i can find those clothes?

You can shop anywhere to get this style. I'm not sure if you're a girl or a boy, but I know that shops like C3 will have what you're looking for.

i don't really care much about it.. but is there any way to make your handwriting neater? my handwriting is absolutely atrocious! i can't really draw either, if that makes any sort of connection haha. but my hand gets tired and sore pretty fast whenever i write alot.. so it gets sloppy. is there any way to practice having nice handwriting? sorry that this question was silly, if you don't like it, don't answer it =P thanks in advance thoughhh ♥ btw, i'm gonna be a jr in hs, so i'm 16 :) kthxbye!

I write pretty neat, and my handwriting changes in some way or another every year. It usually gets neater as I get older.

If you want to write neater, practice writing. If you're going to write a note to someone, take your time on it. When you take your time writing instead of just jotting things down, your handwriting gets neater & you'll eventually get to write at a normal pace, bur neater!

When I was 7, my dad used to get mad at me if my handwriting wasn't easy to read & he'd make me do my homework over & over again until it got neat. It pissed me off at the time because I thought it was just fine, but it actually helped a lot & it's gotten me pretty far. So try that. I hope I helped.

i know this has been asked before, but how long does weed stay in your system, and like if you go for a physical or something at the doctors & you pee in the cup they can tell if you smoked it right?

and if your just AROUND people who get high alot, is it the same like cigarettes like can you get hgigh from second hand smoke? & can THIS be traced too?

im 13 and im 5'2'' im skinny like super skinny i think. i just want nicer legs =\. i think i have chicken legs. and i have people say it to me, even my dad. and guys i like check out other girls who have nice legs )= and i guess it lowers my self esteem a little? i wanna feel confident when i where shorts and skirts. knowing i have nice looking shaped legs .. i want my legs a little fatter. cause i think i have chopstick/chicken legs with no shape.

how do i get nicer legs? down there is a picture .. if you wanna help me (: im the black one lol

http://i16.tinypic.com/61txzqu.jpg

You can tone up your legs by jogging. It'll build muscle & make your legs not so "chickeny" as you call them.

But in all honesty, there's nothing wrong with your legs.

14/f. Preppy and a little skater. Freshie.

I have a slender, curvy figure. I like skater shoes, but they're too clunky for my figure (sucks.).
I also wouldn't like to spend more than 60 on shoes, if possible.
I'm just having the hardest time finding sneakers for school, so could someone please tell me a cute brand, or give a link to a cute shoe, or tell me a place where I could find cute sneakers, slip ons, or anything of that sort?
And also, I kind of like these, but are they ugly?
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/23614139/c/28580.html

Thanks!

Since skater shoes are too clunky for your figure, try to buy some Vans Slip Ons. They're around $35 dollars & they look good on basically anyone.

I think those shoes are cute, but I woudln't wear them. Try Vans though. They could work for you.

Good luck!

I know I'm being paranoid, but the only thing that mortifies me about starting high school this year is what to wear...
I have some stuff from last year.. and some stuff that I got the summer before...
After how long should you stop wearing a shirt to school?

I gave away a lot of my shirts because they were over a year old, and I thought it was too long to keep a shirt and wear it regularly to school, so I am short on shirts now. I went shopping yesterday and got 2 Tshirts (HCO) and a few BF tanks. I have about 5 shirts besides that from last year.

I'm just stressed about wearing the same shirt/outfit too often.

How often do you think it's acceptable to repeat an outfit/shirt (I basically pair everything with some sort of denim something)?

Can someone just please tell me something or give me advice on how to stop being so mortified and nervous?

I'm a wreck!

14/f... freshie.

I'm a junor & I can almost guarantee you that nobody is going to care how often you wear certain clothes. If they do, then they're pathetic for keeping track of your outfits everyday.

Honestly, I still wear shirts from 9th grade & I find nothing wrong with it. If the clothing still fits, then keep it. You shouldn't give it a way because you're scared of what people will think. Who gives a flying rats ass what they think? Wear what you want & get over it. Clothes aren't a big deal. School isn't a fashion show.

why do they explain sex to little kids as 'birds and the bees' it just doesnt make any since...

Because explaining sex to a 5 year old would be weird & wouldn't be something they can comprehend so they use a different name.

It doesn't make sense to you, but it'll make sense to the kids.

what college do you have to go to in order to be a successful anchor person..or tv host???

and what exactly does harvord teach?

ummm this is really random, but who won charm school? (VH1)

Saphyrii won.

what is eva from america's next top model ethnicity?

She's African-American.

does anyone know the song that billy ray cyrus sings in hannah montana on one of the recent episodes, its about her growing up

Ready, Set, Don't Go.

The guy I was having sex with said I had perky nipples,I wanna know if guys think thats a good thing or a bad thing?
I didn't want to ask ...

It's considered a good thing. It makes the guy know you're turned on.

Is "Abercombie" out of style?

And what about side bangs?

I just got clothes from abercombie. And i got sidebangs. So im not sure if im just paroniod or something.

please and thank - you :)

No, and no.

But who cares if they're not in style anymore? Wear what makes you happy & do what you want to your hair. If people don't like it or claim it's "out of style," then fuck them.

this sounds stupid but if you have sexual intercourse (like the penis going into the vagina even a little bit) but the guy doesn't finish, are you considered a virgin? like if you were one before.

No. You're not a virgin anymore.

i have a cold.
ive had it for aboutt i dunno two days now. and i feel like crap! anii ideas on how to feel betr??other than eatin chicken noodle soup? thank you!

When you've got any type of sickness, you should:

- Rest.
- Drink lots of liquids; preferably Ginger Ale or Water.
- Eat crackers/soup.
- Take warm baths.
- Take medicines.

If you move around a lot & are active, it'll take a little bit longer for your cold to go away & it'll only be a burden to you more than usual. So get lots of rest & drink lots of fluids. I hope you feel better.

does bugaboo creek harm there animals? sry if its in the wrong catagory

Since they're using these animals for food, the answer to your question: More than likely.

heyy, you know in the song lean like a chollo??
what is a chollo?
i looked it up in the dic.
andd googled it.
but i havee no cluee?

A chollo [cholo, sp?] is just a word for a Hispanic gangster; suggestibly a Mexican one.

What exactly is it? How do they do it?
And do you guys believe in it or not?

I'm not pregnant and I will never get an abortion, I'm just curious. I don't know much about it, I only know they kill the baby but I think people should only do it if they get raped.

I'm 14/f by the way. :)

"An abortion is the removal or expulsion of an embryo or fetus from the uterus, resulting in or caused by its death. This can occur spontaneously as a miscarriage, or be artificially induced by chemical, surgical or other means. "Abortion" can refer to an induced procedure at any point during human pregnancy; it is sometimes medically defined as either miscarriage or induced termination before the point of viability.[1] Throughout history, abortion has been induced by various methods. The moral and legal aspects of abortion are subject to intense debate in many parts of the world."

Copied & pasted from: [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abortion]

I can't explain it without ranting, so this site could help:

http://www.abortionfacts.com/

Use the site above as well. If you need more information on it that I couldn't provide:

i NEED to go to this concert on oct 23 that is on tuesday a school day of course
it is by my favorite band in the whole world and i haven't been to a concert yet so i dunno how i can convince my parents to let me go it is by 7:30 and ends by like 10 nish i think the place is only 6.90 miles away and takes approx 20 min to get there (i mapquest the location) it is downtown baltimore
and the tickets are only 20 bux
just so u know the band is The Academy Is... the Sleeping with Giants Tour!
i am 14 and rele need advice

Go with a few friends. The more people there are going with you, the more your parents should trust you. They probably fear for your safety, so going with friends could ease them up a bit.

In order to let them make you go, do extra things around the house. Do your chores without being asked to. Do extra good on your homework & studies. Be responsible with things. Be good, & even suck up if you have to.

You may have a chance of going, and if you do, have fun! I met William Beckett at Warped Tour last year, and he was sweet as pie! =)

ive neverbeen high
but i think im gonna try it soon
and dont tell me not too :]
but im just afraid im gonna get addicted to it
because if i did and my praents found out
id be dead. hah
but my friend has done it before
and the first time she did she said her throat burned but it was fun
and she also said if you get high and like youre not doing anything you get tired and it wears off
any other things?

I've gotten high before, & it's psychologically addicting. Your mind makes you think you need it even though you don't.

Although you told us not to tell you not to do it, you honestly shouldn't. The person below me made very valid points as to why you shouldn't smoke weed.

There are better ways to have fun, and you shouldn't need drugs/alcohol to have fun. If you do decide to do it however, just make sure you eat & that you do something because your friend is right. Doing nothing when you're high can make it fade off & you'll just get sleepy.

Think it through before you make this decision though.

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