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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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I was looking through my closet just to check on my dress that I'm gonna wear tonight to a party, and when I tried it on, I realised it had this pretty big and noticable tear right on the butt! and i dont know what to do! i dont have any other dress options in my closet, i can't leave the house to buy another one, and i absolutely canNOT wear this torn dress! what should i do? because i would rather skip the party than feel totally self-consious....HELP PLZ! ALL 5'S FOR GOOD ADVICE!

You could always wear something else that is totally cute. You could wear some pants and a cute tank-top. (Maybe a sparkly one?). I'm sure you have something else that is cute in your closet. If not, you could always ask your friends if they can lend you a dress. I'm sure if you tell them what happened, they'll lend you one.
♥ Krissy

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i really dont know what to do...i hate my stepdad i just cannot stand him his such an asshole..and i told me mom and she knows i hate him..and when his friends are over he acts like hes all bad and shit..hes nuthin, and he told me today when its rainin and thundering outside to go and mow the yard...my mom argues with him all the time because hes a lil selfish bitch and he does nuthin for other people...he thinks he gots it all good cause he doesnt have to pay for the house cause my real dad does...i have a choice of moving to my dads house but i dont want to break my moms heart...what should i do?i have really thought about killing him...lol..i mean ill come home with really nice clothes and he'll be like wheres mine..i mean he trys to joke around sometimes but i just want him to know i do not like him...

It sounds like he's screwing up everyone in your family. He seems like a real ass if you ask me. I think you should talk to your mom about this and tell her how much you hate him. Tell him all the things he does/says to you. She's the only one that has the power to kick him out. You should still talk to your step dad about this. Tell him how much you don't like him and how much he hurts you. Tell him you find he's screwing up your family because of his cocky remarks. Maybe if he knows someone hates him, he could change. Just tell him all the reasons why you dislike him. Maybe some of them reasons will hit him hard and get him thinking about things.
♥ Krissy

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how do you let a guy know that u like him, but now being to obvious but by giving him little hints so maybe he will ask you out?

Always be there for him, flirt, smile at him and laugh at all his jokes, be yourself - you don't want him falling for someone your not, if you see him in the hallway don't be scared to say a little "hello", listen to what he has to say.
♥ Krissy

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How do I get my gf to think im "sweet" and really hang out with me alot? movies? talk on phone alot? what should i do?? I RATE REALLY HIGH!


=)

Do things that make her feel really special, examples: When you talk to her on the phone - listen to what she has to say. Be there for her when ever she's having a problem. Out of no where think of something cute and say it. Tell her how pretty she is/how nice her voice is and how lucky you are to have her. When you hang up with her, tell her you can't wait till your able to talk to her tomorrow. You could also do some dating somewhere. Maybe to a park and you could have something set up that would make her melt. Be yourself - that way she's not falling for someone your not.
♥ Krissy

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Whats the best way to dump your boyfriend? thanx

Just tell him that you really don't want a relationship right now and you guys are better of friends. Your not really "feeling" it with him anymore. Explain your reason why your dumping him and ask if he would like to keep the friendship you guys had.
♥ Krissy

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I lost my virginity and it doesnt seem like it was what i had actually wanted to happen.. people who arent virgins... can u tell me how it went for you cause im jus really curious now. none of my friends have lost their virginity yet so its kinda hard to talk to them about it. thanks!

Don't worry about this hun. Everyone who lost their virginity, after they feel weird about it. Weird to talk about it, or be with the person that took your virginity. The best thing to do is talk to your boyfriend about this. He'll be the one that will be able to understand everything. But don't worry, mostly everyone's in the same boat when it comes to this.
♥ Krissy

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If a guy touches your arm a lot as hes talking to you, is this a good sign?

This is a very good sign. When guys like girls, they tend to touch their arm while flirting. Sounds like this guy is crushing on you!
♥ Krissy

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which part of the egg has protein or the most protein?

The white part has the most protein.
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hey i was wondering if any other columnists are unable to read your feedbacks? when i click on mine, i can only see one. the others are there, but i can't view the text. it has the number of answers that question received, and the comment is supposed to follow that number. i even set my fonts to black (in white background) and still nothing. can anyone help?

Some people don't leave comments, they just leave a rating. But if you think it's not that problem, try changing all your colors on your page.
♥ Krissy

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ok well i 13/m like this girl 14/f and we are really great friends and we trust each other with everything. So she recently broke up with her boyfriend of about a month. But she told me that she likes her ex of 1 year and a half. this is a problem because they might get back together soon so i was wondering id i should make a move? i really do like her and i have for a year.

Since she's still crushing on her ex, I would give her a little time. I still think you should talk to her and tell her you like her. You'll feel much better just letting that out in the open. Maybe she'll feel the same, maybe she won't, but it will be great to tell her. I'd say you should make a move on her, but not so fast. She likes her ex and if your coming onto her too fast, it might confuse her. So give her a little time to think things out, then tell her/make a move on her!
♥ Krissy

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Since I'm so obsessed with advicenators, and I hope it never closes down or anything...I'm going to buy something from their store to support the site. I'm gonna get a hoodie but I dont know which one to pick! So give me your opinion? =D http://www.cafepress.com/advicenators2,advicenators3,advicenators4,advicenators.12263702 OR http://www.cafepress.com/advicenators2,advicenators3,advicenators4,advicenators.12256323. I like the first one but idk??...

I'd get the first one. It's really nice and cute!
♥ Krissy

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if you masturbate does it mean your not a virgin anymore??

Nope, you'll still be a virgin. To be a non-virgin, you have to actually have sex. That's the only thing that could take your virginity away.
♥ Krissy

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My ex-boyfriend and I both told each other we loved each other. He doesn't want to get back together because he has issues that doesn't seem to go away. It's along the same reasons we broke up. Should I wait until he gets over them or just get over him? I really love him, and he seems to care about me.

I can see that both you and him care about eachother a lot, so wait for him! I'm guessing you both still talk to eachother? Just keep being there for him when he needs to talk to anyone. If he needs any help with these problems, tell him your always a call away. Maybe you could help him out with some. So don't give up and stay right by his side. I'm sure once these problems are gone, you and him will be back together!
♥ Krissy

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I got advise on what I needed but I need more I really still dont know what to do I always keep my promises and I really dont know what to do in this siguation you know what I mean I made a promise to my closest cusin that I would save my virginity till I got married I have a b/f right now and I love him dearly I want to lose it to him but I know love isnt all about losing virginity but I want to lose it to him can some one help me PLEASE

If you are 100% ready for losing your virginity to this boy, do so. Just because you made a promise to one of your best cousins, doesn't mean he/she will understand. If you really love this boy and you both have talked about it and your 100%, there's nothing wrong with it. Make sure your ready though, so your not going to regret this. If you still don't feel comfortable with the hole thing, because of your cousin, talk to her/him.
♥ Krissy

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ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and lately we've been talking about sex a lot. We both think that we're gonna end up getting married and living happily ever after! so anyways... We both know that we'll probably end up having sex sometime in the next 5-8 months... and i have some questions. I've heard that a hurts the girl the first time, but how bad? We've talked about this also and he told me that whenever we do end up having sex that he's gonna keep checking on me and making sure that i'm not in too much pain and if I am he'll stop. Don't get me wrong. I'm not worried about having sex. I'm just worried about how much it's gonna hurt. And also what's the best position to use for your first time?

THANKS

It does hurt the first time, but not bad. Don't be scared because if your too scared, it'll hurt even more. So try relaxing and being comfortable. Maybe before you actually have sex, get him to finger you, to "losen" you up a bit. The best position would be him being on top. Just tell him to go slow and not be so rough on you. I'm sure he'll go gental and everything will go great.
♥ Krissy

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Hi, i am new to this place but i do have a question. I am a 20 yr old male.My girlfriend wants to be friends cause she does't have the time in her schedule. She doesn't call it breaking up. And i feel like huh? When did she first feel like this. And now i am doing my best to get her out of my head but i still like her very much but i don't want to talk to her about it cause shes tired of hearing it. So for now i have been staying away from her. Ever since then i have been in a depressed phase and i am cranky as hell, but i do not think she cares enough about me as i do her, cause it seems her life and career are more important than i am to her. Can you tell me what i should do?

You really have to move on hun. If her life and career is more important, why try to fight to get her? It doesn't seem like your going anywhere since she did choose a different path. Sometimes people have to go different ways to find out if they're ment to be or not. Just let her go her way and you go yours. Maybe you'll meet someone who is actually worth your time and one that will give you her time. And if you and this girl are ment to be, it'll find a way. But for now, try moving on and dating new people. You never know, your Miss.Right could be right around the corner!
♥ Krissy

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okay so i think that i have found the love of my life! hes reall sweet to me and funny and i kno he would make a good husbnd.. or well.. long term bf. but the thing is im only thing the 8th grade! is this extremely like not right? i mean yea i kno i have my whole life ahead of me still .. adn i kno we are both gonna date other ppl but i want him soo bad! can some one please talk some sense into me?

You are right, you do have your whole life ahead of you. Yeah, your probably falling for this guy. But how do you know for sure he's the one for you, if you haven't been with anyone else? You could be missing out on a lot of other people. When your in middle-highschool, it's mostly the place to date all kinds of people. You have to go out there and meet all kinds of different boys, before you actually know who's right for you.
♥ Krissy

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there's this girl....i just know we would be really good friends because she kind of acts like me...i really want to be her friend, but i don't know how without being odd. The most we talked was yesterday, but that wasn't for too long...any advice is appreciated!!!

Just talk to her a lot. Try to start converstations with her. If you see her in the hallways ask her how she is. Talk to her on the computer or the phone, etc. Being super nice and a great friend will build up the friendship you have now. You could also ask her if she would like to hangout sometime.
♥ Krissy

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is there any other way to get rid of moles besides a dermatologist removing them? i have some in embarrassing spots that i could never tell my mom or a dermatologist and i was wondering if there was any way that i could do it

Are they the type of moles that are hangy kind of? My cousin had some and she tied a string around it really tight. After awhile it came off. You could do that.
♥ Krissy

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Okay.. if you have ever had an overprotective ex-boyfriend you will know what I am saying.. Okay I really like this one guy and he lives like 20 min away and is older than me (Neal).. And all of a sudden me and my ex-bf (Steven) start talking again and it is nice.. Well unfortunatly his best friend is my best friend (her name is lindsey).. and me and him i guess u could call best friends lol.. so its like a triangle.. well anyways I did stuff with the guy I like on Saturday and I told my friend Lindsey... well I guess Lindsey tells Steven everything which I tell Lindsey everything so it all goes around lol.. And I told lindsey what I did with Neal.. and then Steven starts telling me he likes me again and how much he doesn't want me to get hurt my Neal.. Well how can I stop his overprotectiveness (if that is a word) plz help me

Kaydee

The best thing you can do right now, is stop telling Lindsey everything. Since you and her are bestfriends aswell as her and Steven. It is really like a triangle. But the best thing would be keeping that stuff that you did, away from Linsday. It really doesn't look like this guy is overprotected of you. It looks like he really cares about you and he doesn't want you getting hurt. He's just looking out for you. If this does bug you, maybe you chould try talking to him about it.
♥ Krissy

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