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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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Hey , I have a question. I have this like lump sort of thing inside of my breast. I'm not sure what it is. I don't think that it is breast cancer.. but I really don't know what else it could be. Help please! I'm freaked out.

P.S. I'm 13.

You don't have to worry about it being breast cancer, because you're only 13. A lot of teens do get lumps in their breast because they're growing. If you're really worried about this, you could always go to the doctor to see for sure. Or you can ask your mom, she'll know, since she's a girl and probably had this problem.
♥ Krissy

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my sisters know almost all my business. i tell them almost everything and there 11 and im 15. is it bad that they know about my personal stuff?

This is not bad at all hun. It shows that you have a really strong bond with both of your sisters. It's a really good thing that you can actually talk to them about your feelings and such. Nothing wrong with it all at.
♥ Krissy

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ok i need help......when should you kiss a guy? i mean when your dating...on the second date? cuz i will have my second date w/ him soon and i dont know if i should kiss him or not. soo which date should i kiss him on??
~confuzzed

There's no "certin date" to kiss someone. If you feel the right connetion with the guy, go for it and kiss him. Some people don't kiss on the first date, or the second - forth. It all depends on the person. If you and your date are feeling the "connection", then you should lean in and kiss him. When it's the right time to go for it, you'll know. You just get that feeling! And don't be scared to make the first move, a lot of guys like that.
♥ Krissy

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Ok, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 weeks now. Friday nite we were hanging out and my bro was around so I couldnt give him a kiss without him telling my parents (btw im not allowed to have a b/f) Yesterday, my b/f's best friend asked me if I would kiss him b4 1st pd on Monday, and I said that I was going to Friday, but I couldn't so I would Monday. But I dunno what I should do now because I like dont want all his friends around and everything. I kinda want a kiss from him first tho!! Someone please help me!!! btw I am 13/f and he is 14/m

Your first kiss is the one you remember most, so it's going to have to be special. Tell your boyfriend that you don't want to make the first move, you rather him do so. And you want this first kiss while no one else is around, when it's just you and him. If he has all his friends around and he kisses you, you might be shy and not want to kiss him. This way if your alone with him and it's just you and your boyfriend, everything will be fine because you feel comfortable around him. Tell your boyfriend this and how you feel about the first kiss being just you and him. I'm sure if he really likes you, he'll understand and you'll get that special kiss that you want.
♥ Krissy

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ok i have had this boyfriend for 3 months almost 4 months now. and you see everyone is like at 5 or 6th months you should have sex. but i dont want to. i mean i'm only 14. i love him alot. alot. alot. but i mean all we do now is really is talk and make out which is enough for me but i mean should i do other stuff? and everyone says that me and my boyfriend are gunna get married. we barly knew each other before we started going out and now were like best friends and always over each others houses. its great. but latly everyone is asking why we dont do stuff. hes kinda shy and i've never done anything like "that" before. sorry its soo long. but please what should i do?

If you don't want to do anything with this boy, that's alright. I can tell your not ready for "the next" step because you wouldn't be asking for this advice. When you really are ready, you'll know. But for now, keep going at your own rate and don't rush into things. You're only 14 and you got your hole life ahead of you to have sex. If this boy really does care about you and you're going to be together for a long time, you guys can wait till your 100% to have sex. As for the people that are saying you should have sex on the 5th or 6th month of being together, they're wrong. Every person and relationship is different. If they keep bugging you about going futher with this boy, tell them you aren't ready and you don't want to rush into things. If they are true friends, they will stop bugging you about it.
♥ Krissy

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what is that quote page? holly sumthing?

http://www.holliesquotes.com/
♥ Krissy

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I am about to get my braces off in april. My question is does it hurt when they take em of and also how long does it take thx I rate every one

It doesn't hurt at all. It takes around an hour or two to take your braces off because they also do a little cleaning to get all the glue and such off. After you get them off, you'll probably miss your braces. It's hard to see yourself without braces. When I got mine off, my teeth looked so big. Just because I only saw haft of them. You'll get used to it and I'm sure you'll have a beautiful smile!
♥ Krissy

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Would making eye contact a lot and smiling at each other because we are both shy count as liking each other? It's just a simple question that I need the answer to. Please tell me.

I will rate the first people to give me an answer.

Since you both are shy, all this does mean something! Keep up the eye contact and smiling. You never know, either one of you might get the nerve to make the first move.
♥ Krissy

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my fingernails are pretty long...but VERY thin! everytime i go to do something they either break or bend easy! i want hard findernails and not for them to bend as easy anymore...does anyone know how i can do this?

There's nail polish out that makes your nails harder. It's by Salley. If you go in the nail care section of the store, you'll find it. Also, if you put just put clear nail polish on, it'll help your nails become stronger and won't break so much.
♥ Krissy

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i am getting a cat soon...i dont know if it is a boy or a girl yet but, my problem is that i cant think of a good boy name or a good girl name. if you have any suggestions...please tell me! thanx! :)

Girl; Princess, Mittens, Kandy, Gizmo. Boy; Monkey, Tigger, Carlos, Pickles, Nemo, Simba, Henny.
♥ Krissy

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how do i get rid of a sunburn on my lips?? or how long does it take to go away? (i got it friday, today is sunday)

Ouch, that must hurt! Put some cream on your lips, or some lip smackers. I'm sure it won't last that long.
♥ Krissy

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ok i'm 14 and i'm 5'4", what's a good weight range?

110 - 119 would be a good weight range for someone your age and height. You can check this stuff out at: http://www.am-i-fat.com/
♥ Krissy

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how do you know if someone really likes you and is really "into you" enough to do stuff, without making yourself look like an idiot making a move or whatever.. and do guys like makeing moves or do they mind when girls orr?? lol please help

If a guy is really into you, he'll flirt a lot, always try to talk to you or be around you, he give you hugs, if he sees you in the hall way he'll smile and say hi, he'll do cute things to get your attention, etc. Guys do like making the first move, but it's alright for the girl to go a head it do it too. Most guys like when the girl makes the first move. It shows them that this girl actually does like them!
♥ Krissy

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my younger sister is turning thirteen in like two weeks, and we are still trying to come up with ideas for what do do at her birthday party. she knows that she wants to have a sleepover, but we dont know any stuff to do so that it doesnt get boring. any ideas?

You could watch movies and play games. Some great games would be: Blind folding yourself and trying to put cotton balls in one basket to the other, with spoons. You could play twister and truth or dare - That's always fun. And I'm sure you could find more fun games to play off the internet. You could play some music and do a little danceing. Have loads of junk food; what's a party without it? You could also do a little cooking. Maybe make some cookies or cup-cakes!
♥ Krissy

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okay. i went to a church thing last weekend and me and some guys shared a drink, all of our drinks got switdhed up.. etc. i think i ahve mono. b/c i have been really tired... and i have been going to bed early, and i have had headeaches, and my throat / glands have benn hurting. do i have it? please help.. i rate high.

* please dont delte

You may have it, it's very possible. If this guy has mono and you took a drink from him, then you probably got it. You can only get mono from someone else. So, if this guy does have momo I'd suggest going to see a doctor. That way you'll know for sure, if you have it or not.
♥ Krissy

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Friday night I was at the movies. Me,my 2 friends and this guy that likes me took some pictures. I sat on his lap. I have a boyfriend of 3 months. Is that cheating and is it bad and should I tell my boyfriend? I feel really bad! Please help!

No, this isn't cheating. But it sounds like you were flirting some and since you do have a boyfriend, that is just a little bit on the wrong side. I think you should just be honest and tell your boyfriend you took a picture with this guy, while you were sitting on his lap. Since you guys been together for awhile, I'm sure he's going to understand and everything will be fine. But you should tell him. You need to have trust in a relationship.
♥ Krissy

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i was wondering if any of you guys had a few cute quotes for my profile. i dont really have good ones and if you could send me a few that would be great. thank you.

This site has every kind of quote you would want! It's a really great site for quotes. http://www.holliesquotes.com/
♥ Krissy

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I ♥ your column.. it'z really pretty. & that 50 cent picture is awesum!!

Aw, thanks so much hun. Yeah, that 50 cent picture is awesome. It only took me 10 minutes to make it that sexy ;)
♥ Krissy

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I have this friend, and I love her so much!! (sisterly) And we are best friends, well, she just discovered boys and there is one that she really likes. whenever we're together, it's all she talks about and thinks about. all she wants to do is look at pictures of him and talk about him!! I love her so mucha dn i don't wanna lose her. I've tried talking to her, but she'll get all mad at me. PLEASE HELP!

It's alright hun, calm down a bit. You're not going to lose her over a guy. She just started the crushing stage and so will you. Something every girl goes through. Of course she's going to be crazy over this guy because it's her first crush. And she's going to talk about him none stop, but the best thing to do is listen to what she has to say. I know it may be annoying, but your her friend and that is what friends do; listen to one another. And when she gets her heart broken (if she does), always be there for her. She's going to need you. Remember: Guys only last for so long, but friends are forever!
♥ Krissy

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How do you know when it's time to be come "not" bff's with someone?

When all you do is fight with this person, you guys never hangout anymore, he/she always ditches you for other friends, you can't trust them anymore; they always tell other people your secrets, they stab you in the back, etc.
♥ Krissy

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