umm my friend who isnt really now used to abuse me and my other friends.. when i finally got the guts to tell her to stop she gets mad... she hits u so hard and it makes you feel like you want to die. shes hurt a lot of my other friends to and she even hurts guyys=.. well so anyways she hit me really hard on the head and i didnt say anything so then she says i dont think she felt that and kills me with two more slaps... so i went home crying and of course my parents fournd out. my mom accualy went over and talked to them. she doesnt even care and now i think she is going to tell everyone else a whole different story even though i have witnesses. also she is friends with most of my other friends too even though im better friends with them then she is. i am just scared that no one will believe me or she might accually hurt me again. im so scared i dont even no wat to do now... HELP!!!
This girl is definitely not your friend. You don't deserve to be abused by her. If she goes and tells people lies about what happened, tell everyone that they aren't true and tell your side of the story. If you think this girl is going to hurt you, have people be with you all the time and bring a cell phone with you so you can call someone. This girl needs help and if she keeps abusing people, imagine what she will do to her kids, that's if she gets married or finds a guy who likes abusive women. Talk to your school conselor and tell her/him about this girl so they can keep an eye on her. You need to ignore this girl and if she does anything else, report her.
-Karen
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What are the best excersises and best ways to excercise for a 13 year old in middle school that wants a flat stomach, keep a flat stomach, and build some muscle? And how often should I excersise?
To flatten your stomach and keep it flat and toned, you need to do abdominal exercises such as crunches and sit ups. Running and jogging also help flatten your stomach too. You should exercise daily or 3-5 times a week. Once you get used to doing these exercises, increase the amount you do and it will help. Eating healthy and watching what you eat will help keep your stomach flat too.
-Karen
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I decided to ask you this question because you seem like you know what your talking about. Well I`m 13/f and I have a really bad habbit. I started cutting like 3/4 months ago. I have my reasons and now it's really hard for me to stop.Couple of my friends saw my wrists and stuff and they asked me what was going on so I told them. Couple weeks later all of my friends found out and made a huuuuge deal out of it. At school when I`m mad or I feel like cutting I scrach my self with my nails. My friends did it once to prove to me how much they want me to stop. I tried talking to them about it and telling them it's my problem and they dont understand how hard its for me to stop. The rubber band thing on my wrist thing thats supposed to help .. well it doesnt. I also tried throwing everything away ( scissors and razor) but it doesnt help eather. Now I kinda stoped for like a week or two and belive me it is hard. I want to do it soo bad again. I only did this to prove to them I can do it but I really cant. Please help. I don't know what to do.
- x0 hOlLiStEr baBe
It's great that you actually tried to stop cutting. Cutting is an addiction and you wanting to cut again is just like a craving for something. I have never cut myself before because I know how to fix my mistakes and such without cutting but you are right, this is your problem and it is hard to stop. If you cut for a reason, try to fix it without cutting yourself. Your parents probably don't know about this but if you try to stay with them or someone else, tell them to not let you leave so you won't cut. It's alright that your friends made a big deal out of this because they are just trying to help you out and you know that but it's hard for you to understand that at the same time. Not cutting for a week or two is a long time and yes, it's hard but if you keep on trying not to, you will stop. Try distracting yourself a lot and tell yourself that one cut could end your life. This is pretty hard for me to answer, since I have never gone through this but this is what I would probably do.
Sorry if I didn't help you at all.
Good luck!
-Karen
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Tomorrow is my dad's birthday, but I don't know what to get him. There's not really any time to go buy him something, and I wanted to make him something special anyway. What should I make him?
You can make him a homemade card and you can write a letter in it about how important he is to you and such. You can make him a morning breakfast and have him eat it in bed. He will probably like that, because my dad did. What ever you give him, he will love it and it doesn't matter what it is, since you actually gave him something.
-Karen
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Ok, there is this boy named Eryc, he's in 4/6 of my classes. My friend thinks he likes me, and I kind of believe her, kind of don't. Sometimes he can be such a bastard! But then when I need help he stands up for me. My friend is only in 1/6 of me and Eryc's classes, so she wouldn't know at all what I go through with him and what he does. But in the one class she is in, she thinks he likes me. My question is do you think he has a crush on me?
If your friend thinks that he likes you, then he probably does. You really didn't go into much detail but if he stands up for you, that's a sign that he probably likes you or has a crush on you. Have your friend ask him if he does actually like you because you are never going to actually know if someone asks him.
-Karen
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I'm 13 and I need to get some money. I babysit already, but it doesnt pay good. I live in a small town in geargia so there isnt that much people that you know and I dont want to go up to some stranger. SO how can I get some good money? plz help
You can help your parents by doing more chores around the house and they can give you money. You can also ask people if you can shovel their driveways, mow their lawns, walk their dogs, wash their cars, and etc. and you can get money that way. That's basically all you can do, since you aren't old enough to work at a real job yet.
-Karen
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On my advice column, theres hearts->♥ show up as lyke wierd writing. Is it because of the font I have? and how can I change it if it is?
This usually happens if you copy and paste this heart from some where else and then paste it in your answer. I don't think this is because you have a different font, it happens out of the ordinary. If the heart is in a question, then it automatically does that on your column. Just try to edit your answers that have this "error" and type & hearts ; (but with no spaces) and it should work.
-Karen
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I hav acne (not badly and not very noticable but i still dont like it). Is there any like really really good lotion or something to make it go away??? Please help.
I rate!
You can try using Nature's Cure for Women and it will clear up your acne from the inside out and it's a pill that you take. Clearasil and Neutrogena have a few creams and lotions that will help too. Don't get Proactiv, it will clear up your acne at first but it will come back eventually, it did for me. Just by an acne body wash and that will help too. If you stress a lot, that causes you to break out so try not to if you do.
-Karen
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okay the other night my friend (who moved to the total other end of the u.s like a year ago) well her ex came to my bedroom window and opened it, climbed in, woke me up and was liek i like you alot and i was like half asleep and he all of a sudden took my clothes off and well basically raped me and then when he was done he jumped out my window and i havent seen him since..what should i do..he like raped me and took my virginity(hes 17 and im only 15)..idk what to do..now i cant save my virginity for like the right person or nehting...i need some help quikly..
no matter ur answers ill rate 5's cuz i need the help!!
Wow, you definitely shouldn't have that done to you by someone who just expressed their feelings for you. You really need to talk to an adult and then call the police. Talk to your mom, tell her that this guy raped you and took your virginity and that you didn't know he was going to. This guy shouldn't get away with this and he probably will do it to some other girl. If he didn't use a condom, then there is a possibility that you may be pregnant. You don't deserve this and you need to tell someone.
-Karen
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this really isn't advice but i was just wondering what would happen if you had sex while you were pregnant?
Nothing would happen at all if you had sex, while you were pregnant but if you were about 6-9 months pregnant, it may be uncomfortable and you should probably not have sex during those times.
-Karen
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i like this guy, patrick, but yesterday i found out he likes someone else, alexis. i cant get over him. he asked her to the movies and he was turned down, i heard it was harsh too. what should i do? i still like him
If Alexis turned down Patrick, he is probably sad or hurt and needs someone to talk to if this girl somewhat broke his heart, since he liked her. If you still like him, talk to him and tell him how you feel. It may make him feel better, if he wasn't feeling that good in the first place.
-Karen
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what does jaded mean?!?!
Jaded means to be tired and exhausted of doing some thing, usually for a long time.
-Karen
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Can anyone give me step by step instructions on how to make home-ade brownies. Please include ingrediants. Thanks.
Ingredients:
3/4 cup of cocoa
1/2 teaspoon of baking soda
2/3 cup butter or margarine melted and divided
1/2 cup boiling water
2 cups sugar
2 eggs
11/3 cup all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon vanilla
1/4 teaspoon salt
1 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips
Instructions:
1.) Heat the oven to 350 and grease a 13x9x2 inch baking pan
2.) In a large bowl, stir the cocoa and baking soda together. Stir in 1/3 cup butter, add the boiling water, and stir till the mixture thickens. Add the sugar, eggs, and remaining 1/3 cup of butter. Stir till smooth. Add the flour, vanilla, and salt and blend well. Stir in the chips and pour the mixture into the greased pan.
3.) Bake for 35-40 minutes or until the brownies begin to pull away from the sides of the pan.
4.) Allow the brownies to cool completely in the pan. Once they are cooled, you can then eat them!
I got this recipe from: http://www.auntruthskitchen.com/recipes/brownies.html
Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Ok well yesterday i was playin tackle football with my friends well now i am covered in bruises and i am in alot of pain any suggestions to help me get rid of th pain dont say take advil or anything like that because i tried that like a hour ago and it didnt help so any suggestions to help other than that. Any advice will probably be appreciated
To get rid of the pain or soothe it, you can use Icey Hot, one of those creams that heats up when you apply it on your body where you have pain in and it helps soothe the pain. You can take a hot bath and relax. You can also take a really strong pain killer such as Alieve; I know you said not to say that but it really helps get rid of your pain on contact. If none of those suggestions work, then you just need to wait a few days for the pain to go away.
-Karen
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I just started shaving down there and I get this little red razor burn bumps. It also hurts and sometimes bleeds when I shave. How do I prevent this and get rid of the bumps I already have?
If you don't want to get razor burn again, use a good razor, water, and shaving cream and shave upwards, towards your head or in the direction your hair grows, really slow. It's normal to have bumps but once you get used to shaving your pubic hair, they won't come back. When you are done shaving, put lotion on. It really does help and the bumps will go away faster.
-Karen
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my and this guy are just friends now. hes really nice and sweet and i like him a lot. the other day, i spent all of my class time talking to him. not romanticly, we were talking about what was going on that day. we didnt say anything about us well i didnt. he talked about his mom a little and we talked just talked like friends. i do like him a lot becuz he seems like a nice guy. so what should i do. becuz if he doesnt like me in that way, i dont want to screw up our friendship and i dont want him to break my heart
Well, if a guy talks about his personal life a little bit to you, that tells you that he feels comfortable around you to talk to you about things. You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel about him. When you're talking to him, just tell him that you don't want to ruin your friendshup by whatever you say and then tell him how you feel about him. If he's nice and sweet, I'm sure he will listen and this won't change your friendship with him. It sounds like this guy may be interested in you as well. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel.
-Karen
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well, tell me please how to make a girl love you truly madly deeply and sincerely till the eternity?
apart from sex? what other things impresses a girl for long?
Before you do anything, you need to make sure she likes you or is interested in you. Once you find that out, try being nice to her and compliment her on the way she looks, how she dresses, etc. Take her out to places and spend time with her as much as you can. Show her that you care for her and that you are interested in her. Listen to what she has to say. There are so many other things you can do to make a girl love you and you just have to think.
-Karen
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Okay, well i need help with my room. I'm 13 by the way. Okay, so I'm not allowd to paint my walls, and I just got $6000, custommade furniture. But, the thing is, my walls look really empty...I need somthing coolin my room, im a guy. does anyone hae any ideas
Since your walls are plain and boring, try putting up posters of your favorite bands, movies, and such. That's basically the only thing you can do to make your room better, since you are a guy. You probably wouldn't want to put up pictures of your friends on your walls, right? If you have any trophies or medals, you can put a shelf up on your wall and put them on it. I'm trying to think what you can do with your walls but try watching Cribs on MTV, they always have good suggestions if the celebrities are teenagers.
-Karen
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me and my bf are always joking around, and we aren't serious that much. i feel like i don't know him quite as well as i would like and that we never talk about anything serious. any suggestions?
You need to talk to him and tell him if you can start being serious with each other and that you can still joke around but you want to be serious. When you two are joking around, try to stop and ask him if you can talk about serious things and ask him questions. Tell him that you want to get to know him better but you can't, since you always joke around. If he's your boyfriend, I'm sure he'll understand and will be more serious.
-Karen
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hey im 14/f and im 5'4 and im about 100 pounds. I wanna take off like 10 pounds for the summer, but i dont want it to be a rapid change. I was hoping in like 4 months i could loose tht weight. What is the best way to loose the weight but not torcher myself? PLEZ HELP!!
Sweetie, you DO NOT need to lose weight. You are underweight as it is. I'm also 14 years old and I'm 5'4" too and I weigh 108 pounds and everyone thinks I'm anorexic because I'm so scrawny and boney. You really don't need to lose weight but if you feel that you need to, do it the old fashioned way; eat healthy, watch what you eat, and exercise daily. Start eating foods that have low carbs and calories in them and eat 5 small meals a day, instead of 3 big ones. Losing 10 pounds is a lot and you will look really skinny and boney. Trust me, you don't need to lose weight but I guess you can if you want to.
-Karen
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