about

My name is Melissa. I'm a sophomore, and finally SWEET 16. So, I'll be driving on January 7th. I usually go by May or Mel. In the picture is myself and my AMAZING boyfriend Kyle. He's truly my entire world & I'm not sure how I got lucky enough to get someone like him. I don't like girls. They're fake, and I just in general dislike most girls. Little known fact? There are times I hate my best friend, I mean, hate hate. She drives me insane. When I'm close friends with a girl it's a big deal. As far as best friends go; I have Kyle, who's the most amazing boyfriend in the world; Jennifer Anne Reese aka: PIECUP.. she's one of the few girls I'm close to. I'm generally a nice person, if I like you. If I don't, you'll know it.

In college I want to major in psychology; with a minor in wedding planning or some type of organizational planning type thing. I'm a planning freak. I ALWAYS have a plan, and if you don't plan stuff ahead of time, I'll probably kill you. I tend to change my plan spur of the moment a lot, but I always have one. Lol, one of those weird things about me.


I'm not that much of a "laid back" person. In general, I have my opinion, and I'm going to win. Drama = stupid. But just like every other girl on the planet, I definitely start my share of the drama. I don't like it, but it follows me like a puppy, so I'll just admit I start stuff.

I like giving advice. I've been through a lot, and I want to help people in any way I can. If you'd rather email or IM me, feel free to ask. ♥

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how do you put photos on picturetrail or places like that without a digital camera. i took some pics on a disposable camera and i want to put them in a picture trail. help!

You have to scan them onto your computer, then upload them to that site. If you don't have a scanner, use a friend's or go to a local library.
♥ Melissa

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basically i feel like im losing my friends and lately i have been really depressed. Nobody would really know because well i put up a front and i feel like im losing all the friends i had. I dont wanna hear advice like "try to get together with them" or "sorry" i just wanna know what to do to feel better and be more social.

Confront your friends. Maybe you aren't really losing them. They could be busy, or maybe they think YOU don't like THEM anymore because you never try to hang out with them. Just talk to them!
♥ Melissa

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The song that goes "dont ya wish your girlfriend was hot like me dont ya wish your girlfriend was a freak like me?"....anyone know who sings it or the name of it?

The song is Don'tcha, by The Pussycat Dolls. [= Good song!
♥ Melissa

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I dont think i like this guy.. But he is really sweet. Here's the deal.. My Ex boyfriend is dating this girl who WAS my friend until she and my ex went for each other behind my back in a way. Now this girl is also my ex's.. Ex best friend *they are woking on their relationship* ex grilfriend did you follow that? and it would be like swaping boyfriends. I dont want to be like them and not ask their friends if it's okay to date their EXs.. that's not the problem the problem lies with dating my exs ex best friend and I dont think i like him. I'm really in a predicament i think i could be leading him on and I really dont want to but i did tell him in all honesty that we could hang out a few times before we decide if we want to date. what should i do about all this Ex's mixed up?
PS.My last relationship was good. it was the break up that sucked.. and you've heard all about it.

Okay, first of all that was extremely confusing! Lol. But moving on, I think that if you think there are ANY feelings for this guy, then hang out with him some more. Get to know him better, THEN make your decision.

I think I got most of what you were saying, but feel free to IM me and explain it better so I could give you a better answer!
♥ Melissa

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My mom gave me her old messenger bag and it's in pretty good condition. It's purple. But when we put it in the wash, we forgot that a pen was in there. It leaked on the black part on the inside, so it looks like a copper splotch. Is there any way that I could make this look like it belongs or hide it? We threw away the busted pen.

I would suggest that you do the same thing so there are a couple more copper-ink spots. Then it would look like it was suposed to be there!
♥ Melissa

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Okay theres this girl and she lives with my now because her and her mom are moving and well i think i might be attracted to her and well she has a boyfriend and i totally act likehis friend to his ace but in reality i hate him im so jelious i mean she is so perfect for me and she doesnt even realize how perfect i would be for her! Shes really pretty big whameys if ya no what i mean and just well shes so beautiful and everything im so jelious of ehr boyfriend i dont no what to do i cant tell my mom and dad how i feel or they will totally freak and i cant tell her or she'll never talk to me agian and i just so confused i dont no what to do! Please HELP ME!!!!

If you know there are going to be bad consequences, then why would you even CONSIDER risking that? If you really want to risk losing her as a friend, at least wait until she moves out!
♥ Melissa

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ok well theres this guy and hes super fine and i really want to date him and everything and he told me to go to hishouse and all but i dontno if i should or not bc i have a problem.... i was born with more testaturone in my body then estogine and well im very flat chested and i have some well.....chest hair and no matter how much i wax and save it always comes back like right away.... i also have alot of hair on my down stairs dont worry i have a vagina and everything its just sort of scary i dont wanthim to feel me up and get a hand full of hair instead of breasts. i dont no what to do should i wear a sweatshirt or something or just not go i dont no im so confused!

If this guy likes you, it shouldn't matter. Go if you're comfortable and if you aren't comfortable then don't go.
♥ Melissa

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I'm 17/f/Michigan and I'm in cross country. There's this girl who keeps running behind me in every race and every practice, she tries to keep up with me, and when I slow down she slows down etc. How can I stop her? It's really annoying

Tell her that you're trying to focus on RUNNING, and she's distracting you. If she doesn't stop, tell a coach that it's effecting your skills.
♥ Melissa

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Hey, I was wondering does anyone know any cute hairstyles? I have straight, long black hair. I was thinking about long sideswept bangs and layers, but that seems sort of blase. I'll rate high!

Actually, layers and long sideswept bangs look good on almost anybody. Plus, if you decide you don't like it, that's what grows out the quickest! Good luck!
♥ Melissa

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Does anyone have any tips for how to redecorate your room with very little money? I don't want to paint it or anything, but I want it to look less plain.

I would suggest hanging up lots of photographs. Make collages! Those are always cute and you can make them with words from news papers and magazines, or photos, or pictures! They always brighten up the room, and are really cheap to make.
♥ Melissa

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okay i got my period for the first time this week(on wed night) and today (thursday) is my first full day w/it and i got tampons. i want to go swimming tomorrow and i have the slim fit tampons. i know i'll be fine but on saturday my family and a few friends are going to an amusement park and i want to ride the water rides. can i do this while wearing a tampon? like the ones where you get on a tube and ride down a tunnel? i'll rate high!!!

You can do anything with a tampon on, nothing should bother you. You'll probably forget about it. Just remember to change it regularly and you'll be fine! [=
♥ Melissa

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Next week is my best friend's birthday. I wanted to get her something that she'd really like so I decided to get her a necklace from Tiffany and Co. Their are two necklaces that I like, so I thought that I would ask you guys which one you liked better. Price doesn't matter. Here are the links to the two necklaces:

http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=57H2&start_id=31&CategoryId=13&category=Jewelry&

^ I was planning on putting her initials on that one. Do you think people would think that that necklace with the initials might be fake since it doesn't say return to tiffany on it and since you don't usually see it with the initials?


And here's the other one:

http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=57H2&start_id=31&CategoryId=13&category=Jewelry&
^click on the picture of that one to see what it would look like on your neck.


Thanks!

Are those both the same links?? But I definitely like it, that's SO sweet for you to do for your best friend. Definitely get it!
♥ Melissa

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i think im bipolar or something.... but seriously one second ill be happy and sooo happy and stuff w/ my boyfriend the next he will say or do the smallest thing and ill feel crappy and ill be really mad and unreasonable and stuff but i cant help it. it causes us to fight so much. what do i do? also how do i appreciate the little things more?

If you like [or love] him that much, then you should try to be more calm. If you think you're going to get mad, try not responding at all. It will cause you guys to break up, when that shouldn't happen. Just learn to relax and realize there are so many girls WITHOUT guys that would love to have ANY boyfriend.
♥ Melissa

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I like this guy, and I think he likes me back, but I'm not sure. He's hinted to me pretty strongly that he likes me, but I'm not sure. What should I do? Should I ask him if he likes me or just wait and see if he asks me out? By the way, I'm a girl and I'm 14.

Just ask him. Lol if he's hinting, then maybe he's just too shy to make the first move! Good luck!
♥ Melissa

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ok well im a 14/f n im 5'3 n i weight about 113-115. i dont think im fat but i would like to loose the jelly on my stomach LoL. i no about excerising but i get pretty bored with it. so is their another way.

The only thing you can really do is stop drinking pop, and lay off on the junk food. Make sure to continue excersising and that SHOULD help you lose that.
♥ Melissa

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Ok I have this friend who is always calling me names like stupid and if I say something to her like o thats real smart(jokeing) shell hit me.I know she is kidding but everytime I tell her to stop she never does.How can I get her to stop calling me names and hitting me?

If she doesn't stop then she's not that great of a friend. Just explain to her that you don't really like it. If she still doesn't listen, just don't hang out for a while. Give her time to realize that you ARE being serious.
♥ Melissa

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ok well me and this girl...lets call her cindy...are friends i guess but if we're around certain people she ignores me and acts like i'm not even there but if its just us then shes nice to me and we act like friends....so i don't get it are me and cindy friends or not?

Confront her and ask. If you aren't sure, then you need to talk to her. If she makes excuses or won't answer you, then you need to find friends who will treat you better.
♥ Melissa

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sometimes my face would get like really oily, and I'm starting highschool in september, and I really want to get rid of the oil. what can I use or do to get rid of excess oil for a long period of time, or atleast long enough to get me through 7-8 hours of school

Get some oil free makeup if you don't have it now. Otherwise, just make sure to wash your face every morning and night. Also, get some powder foundation, that will cover up the oil look.
♥ Melissa

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i kno a "gleam in someone's eye" means it's a sperm, but how can a sperm be a gleam in someone's eye?

That's a COMMONLY USED PHRASE. It has nothing to do with sperm, so I have NO IDEA where you got that. If somebody told you that, you should smack them. It's like a facial expression when you like something or something makes you happy.
♥ Melissa

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okay this miht be a bit wierd but like wen ever i get my period i feel all wierd like its leaking thru my pants or something at skool and i really worry that it might be leaking! idk what to do? i mean if some one saw that there were blood stains on the back of my pants and especially if it was a guy i liked wat would i do? thats like sooo embarassing!
help!

You would feel more comfortable if you wear both a pad and a tampon. That's extra protection and even if you forget about it, you have more time.
♥ Melissa

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